girl at work?

[aguynamedwill]

Last week I met a girl at work who's showing pretty definite signs (fingers through hair, sticking chest out, laughing at my lame jokes). And of course I give her the ****y and funny.

How would you guys go from ****y and funny to asking a girl out?

I'm thinking 'okay, if you insist, you can take me out' or 'you're almost as cool as me, we should be friends'

any other suggestions?

Will

p.s. the work thing isn't an issue, she works in a different department.

 

[dirtsphere]

if your company has a happy hour or something, tell her that even though you're pretty busy, you were planning to stop by there for a little while and that if she stopped by "it would be cool because we could talk and hang out".

When you meet her there (she'll show up if she wants you), mention something about wondering whether she is a "fun person" out of the office like she seems to be inside. Otherwise, say very little, esp. about yourself. Let her talk her brains out about herself. chicks love to do that.

That's my idea, for what it's worth.

 

[Umbra]

'you're almost as cool as me, we should be friends'

This is a good line. The next time you have a really good conversation with her and you're both laughing and having fun, wait for that logical end of the conversation. You know when you're talking to someone and you both feel it's time to end the conversation. Then before it actually ends, say, "I guess you're almost as cool as me. *grin* We should hang out sometime. Let me jot down your number."

If she's single and doesn't happily agree, I'll be shocked. If you act confidently and your timing and delivery are decent, I give you at least an 85% chance of success with this situation.

 

[jlujan]

This is in my personal opinion what you should do, it has worked for me many times.

1.-One day during a conversation ask her about what kind of movies does she like, after she tells you make some conversation up and tell her that ONE DAY YOU AND HER SHOULD GO TO SEE A MOVIE.

(NEVER ask her out or be specific about a date and time)

2.-A week later or two weeks later tell her that theres a cool new movie playing, make sure its in the genre of what she likes even if you hate it, tell her that MAYBE on Friday you would have time off to see the movie, and you will let her know if you can before hand. If she seems excited about this YOUR THERE, if she seems unmoved, you need to work on her more.

(NEVER make her believe its a done deal, it might or might not happen depending on your convenience)

3.-Thursday, or the day before the probable date, let her know that all is pointing to you being able to go, and leave it at that, tell her you will see her tomorrow at work or call her.

4.-On Friday, make an excuse and SEEM GENUINE, excuse yourself and tell her you are sorry, but that next week you will make it up to her.

5.-Pick your day man, shes ready to eat out of your hand.

 

[Reto]

I've gone out with tons of girls from work over the years.

Do the lunch date. It can only last an hour. If you hit it off, get her ph #... If not, you go back to work...


"'you're almost as cool as me. You should buy me lunch sometime..."

Or just find out when she takes her breaks...