girl at work question

[coronachris]

Ok this is my first post and I know there have been similer questions like this....so let me tell you guys my situation. theres this girl at work a 6 at most...I really like here she's cool sexy and just fun to talk to. I know that you shouldn't **** with girls at work but I've gotten with hotter girls than this one but I still find myself wanting to hook up with her. Here's my problem I definitly think i'm in the friend zone and she has already hooked up with 2 guys at my work already so the thought of getting sloppy 3rds is turning me off. But no matter how many girls i hook up with I still think about her the most. I try to ignore her but I just cant... I think im infatuated. Should i just risk it all and try to kiss her...If i didn't work with her I would have done this already but if she denies me I'll have to see her like every day for the next couple of years...this job pays to good to quit. Please give me some advice....thanks in advance...

 

[drixsa]

STAY AWAY!!!

hooking up with ppl at work is a big no-no.

espically if you care at all about your job

you have this infatuation only b/c you "cant" have her

that may be the only real reason why she is appealing to you

 

[Silquee Smoove]

Listen to what my man above me said, dating people at work is a no-no. Now that I've had several jobs and I can look back and say hooking up with people you work with is just asking for trouble.

Stick with prostitutes and nudie mags topped off with razor blades for cocaine and whipped cream.

 

[Pimp-sicle]

I think the real question should be WHY IN THE WORLD ARE YOU "INFATUATED" WITH A HB6??? You even said she's a "6, if that." Sounds like your obessed with a ugly girl and you want to be the next person to ride the slut train. She's an attention ***** and you should be done with her.


Its probably been a little too long since you've hooked up, go fuvk some HB and see if you feel the same way about this girl.



PIMP

 

[dietzcoi]

6's can be OK especially if their personality is great and they are fun as opposed to a stuck up HB8+

BUT, do not do this at work. My last relationship which ended 3 months ago was with an older HB8 who worked in another division of my organization. Now I have to see her and her friends often after I dumped her to be with my much younger "6". Needless to say they all think I am scum.

It is a bad idea to have to deal with the HB after you dumped her and she is still around every day at work

Don't do it....

Dietzcoi

 

[Versace]

Some words of advice and they rhyme too so it'll be easy to remember:

Don't dip you pen in company ink.

Don't get your Honey where your money's at.

Hey, you're infatuated and I know how you feel. You might think that at least she can be a booty call, but we must always be thinking with our minds and not always let our hearts and lustful desires control us. Self-control is a virtue!

 

[OzzyBoy]

What are some good ways of getting across a message to someone at work that you are not interested in them because i there is someone like that.

 

[Tantric]

hmmm...sounds like the general consensus is to NOT go for it...

I've slept with a lot of girls from work, and to me honest, it never hurt. Most of them ended up being in the fvck buddy realm, so it was quite cool. It was also REALLY fun becasue we had to keep it a secret from everyone.

If she hadn't dated all these OTHER guys, i would have said go for it, but you should want to be the MAN, not the 3rd guy in line...know what i mean?

Besides, if you NEXT her, she might wonder why you're macking her and she could end up wanting you anyway...my advice in this particular situation is to NEXT her...get out of the "Friends" zone (ignore her, don't talk to her as much), and concentrate on work. As much as you like her, there might be a cooler girl elsewhere...

 

[Peebold]

I think it depends on the kind of job you have. If you have the typical high-school job - foodservice and the like, I dont think it matters. I have hooked up with two girls at work, and it didnt really create problems. The main thing is that co-workers gossip about you. When you get a real job, there are issues of sleeping with your boss and getting special treatment. I say go for it.

 

[drixsa]

Originally posted by Tantric
hmmm...sounds like the general consensus is to NOT go for it...

I've slept with a lot of girls from work, and to me honest, it never hurt. Most of them ended up being in the fvck buddy realm, so it was quite cool. It was also REALLY fun becasue we had to keep it a secret from everyone.

If she hadn't dated all these OTHER guys, i would have said go for it, but you should want to be the MAN, not the 3rd guy in line...know what i mean?

Besides, if you NEXT her, she might wonder why you're macking her and she could end up wanting you anyway...my advice in this particular situation is to NEXT her...get out of the "Friends" zone (ignore her, don't talk to her as much), and concentrate on work. As much as you like her, there might be a cooler girl elsewhere...

hmmm your from hollywood, whole different ball game out there

 

[becker]

I just started work this past week at a very high paying job. Was introduced to some of the other employees, and there was a hot girl who was at least an 8 or 9 there. I will definitely be going after her, but I guess it depends on where you are in your life.

If you're past the whole "sleep with as many girls as possible" stage, and you're looking to settle down more, then by all means go after her. If you're just looking for a quick roll in the hay, I'd say go find that elsewhere. You said yourself that she was a 6, and to me, a 6 is not worth too much. I wouldn't even go for one for sex alone.

 

[drixsa]

Originally posted by becker
I just started work this past week at a very high paying job. Was introduced to some of the other employees, and there was a hot girl who was at least an 8 or 9 there. I will definitely be going after her, but I guess it depends on where you are in your life.

If you're past the whole "sleep with as many girls as possible" stage, and you're looking to settle down more, then by all means go after her. If you're just looking for a quick roll in the hay, I'd say go find that elsewhere. You said yourself that she was a 6, and to me, a 6 is not worth too much. I wouldn't even go for one for sex alone.

even so if "sex" isnt all that you are looking for you are still assuming that the relationship will "definatley" work out

 

[toot86]

questions..

Iam in a similar situation.. But kinda different..

We work at a tgif and there is like 4 or more hot guys running around with me.. in the store..
and this new girl showed up pretty hot a 7 .. sexy

all the other guys tried to fast and i waited.. While they were inviting her to clubs the 2 day of work .. I didint..

she didint go with them because there was no attraction or no stability.. it was only her 2nd day of work ANYWAY..

i showed value with my humor and so on .. and one night when i did a good job making her laugh and feeling good i invited her out that day..or night


She went with a some hesitation.. Long story short i Frenched her.. that night.. and told her to keep a secreat...


First question.. Is THAT A BAD idea to tell her to keep it a secreat.. that we kissed..


anyway second week.. i invited her out again.. we did and we fooled around .. mutual masterbation,fingering..and kinda of fuked but it got stoped by a cop in my car..



but we didint get in trouble so after that i didint finish it off..




2 nd question was that bad not getting her off .. the first time.. She was feeling good and everything but i doubt i gave her a orgasm..



anyway

at work she flirts with the other guys pretty much..

what does this mean..?

she doesnt do anything special with me though.. maybe she is putting a act to keep it a secret?

sometimes i poike fun at her when a guy that is pretty well dressed shows up I tell her to get his number!

And she laughs and vice versa I try to get other girls numbers infront of her..

Bad thing or good thing??

 

[becker]

Originally posted by drixsa
even so if "sex" isnt all that you are looking for you are still assuming that the relationship will "definatley" work out

I agree, but I'm hoping that before any sex happens, you'll maybe get a feel for whether the girl may be LTR material. If she is, and you two are compatible, then proceed. If not, just make sure you don't do the sex thing, because that's what will probably cause the most friction (no pun intended).