girl asks when the last time i had sex

[chance-]

this girl keeps demanding to know when i last fuked or if im a virgin. she wont let it go. so i just told her today "about 4 hours ago." which is true.. but she doesnbt believe me.

is it bad to say to a girl you've slept with another girl? i heard it was a bad idea?

 

[chance-]

bianka says (11:06 PM):
*what did u do toda^Y?
*
bianka just sent you a nudge.
*
bianka says (11:12 PM):
*fkn hell
bianka says (11:12 PM):
*cya
chance says (11:18 PM):
*what or who
chance says (11:18 PM):
*lol
chance says (11:18 PM):
*nah i did some homework and hung out with a friend you ?
bianka says (11:18 PM):
*i went to school
bianka says (11:18 PM):
*can i ask u a personal qs
chance says (11:18 PM):
*k
bianka says (11:19 PM):
*i was so disorientated coz am so tired
bianka says (11:19 PM):
*my qs is
bianka says (11:19 PM):
*r u a virgin seriously?
bianka says (11:19 PM):
*i dont mind lol
chance says (11:20 PM):
*no i am not a virgin
chance says (11:20 PM):
*are you
bianka says (11:20 PM):
*no
chance says (11:20 PM):
*do i look like a ****ing virgin lol
bianka says (11:20 PM):
*no
bianka says (11:20 PM):
*i was just wondering coz ur pretty dirty
bianka says (11:20 PM):
*but hmm maybe a virgin
bianka says (11:20 PM):
*so
bianka says (11:20 PM):
*another peronsal one
bianka says (11:20 PM):
*hihi
bianka says (11:20 PM):
*uhm
bianka says (11:21 PM):
*when the last time u slept with someone
chance says (11:21 PM):
*about 4 hours ago?
chance says (11:22 PM):
*i told you i was seeing someone when we spoke first
bianka says (11:22 PM):
*AK
bianka says (11:22 PM):
*i dont believe you ..
bianka says (11:22 PM):
*no you didnt clarify
chance says (11:22 PM):
*you dont have to.
chance says (11:22 PM):
*shes not my gf
bianka says (11:25 PM):
*you didnt clarify that you were involved with someone
bianka says (11:25 PM):
*i dont really believe you anyway
bianka says (11:25 PM):
*i can tell you have a front
chance says (11:25 PM):
*i dont care if you believe me or not
chance says (11:25 PM):
*lol
chance says (11:25 PM):
*you asked
bianka says (11:26 PM):
*i dont care if you dont care
chance says (11:26 PM):
*yeah well
chance says (11:26 PM):
*shut up then
chance says (11:26 PM):
*
bianka says (11:26 PM):
*its just shallow thas all
bianka says (11:26 PM):
*well you are form (town) after all
bianka says (11:26 PM):
*from*
bianka says (11:27 PM):
*your fkn some slut if you are infact doing that makes up for my smoking ciggies and weed
bianka says (11:27 PM):
*and my drinking
bianka says (11:27 PM):
*.
chance says (11:28 PM):
*what ? the ****
chance says (11:28 PM):
*you whack girl
bianka says (11:30 PM):
*not that you care or anything coz yes i know you dont care blahblah blah
bianka says (11:30 PM):
*but its either your coz of ur front and ur ego that ur saying u got laid tongiht
chance says (11:31 PM):
*lol bianka
chance says (11:31 PM):
*you asked me questions.
chance says (11:31 PM):
*i answered them.
chance says (11:31 PM):
*comprende.
bianka says (11:31 PM):
*or you actually are ****ing some slut on a casual rate which makes u a low life..
bianka says (11:31 PM):
*yeah i knw u answered
bianka says (11:31 PM):
*and im just telling u how it is
chance says (11:32 PM):
*thanksnow lets talk about something else.
bianka says (11:32 PM):
*casual basis soz*
chance says (11:32 PM):
*how was your day
bianka says (11:32 PM):
*i just dont respect ppl like u that much
bianka says (11:33 PM):
*comprende
chance says (11:33 PM):
*im not allowed to have sex with people ?
bianka says (11:33 PM):
*lol
bianka says (11:33 PM):
*no you not,
bianka says (11:33 PM):
*ive made it pretty clear what im saying
bianka says (11:33 PM):
*any guy
bianka says (11:34 PM):
*that act and does the things u do i just dont have respect for \
bianka says (11:34 PM):
*thats all
bianka says (11:34 PM):
*so we;ll keep it that way
bianka says (11:34 PM):
*la di da convos ok
bianka says (11:34 PM):
*if i met u in r/l id say it to ur face
bianka says (11:34 PM):
*its just my opinion
chance says (11:35 PM):
*and i would smile and slap ya ass
bianka says (11:35 PM):
*lol
bianka says (11:35 PM):
***** talker
chance says (11:36 PM):
*no **** talkin babe
chance says (11:36 PM):
*if your ass looks like its worth slapping
chance says (11:36 PM):
*it'll get one
bianka says (11:36 PM):
*lolol
bianka says (11:36 PM):
*hahah
bianka says (11:36 PM):
*ahh geees
bianka says (11:37 PM):
*i wouldnt meet for the reason i explained
chance says (11:37 PM):
*oh well
bianka says (11:37 PM):
*i know i talk **** somtimes, i go on sex chan. whatevr
bianka says (11:38 PM):
*but if i told u i sucked a guys **** earlier what would u thnk of me
bianka says (11:38 PM):
*SLUT
bianka says (11:38 PM):
*right
bianka says (11:38 PM):
*so i perceive u in a way now too
bianka says (11:38 PM):
*anyway
bianka says (11:39 PM):
*change topic yeah..
chance says (11:39 PM):
*umm
chance says (11:39 PM):
*i dont care what a girl does with her time. its non of my business.
chance says (11:39 PM):
*its when im with the person is what matters
chance says (11:40 PM):
*not their past
bianka says (11:40 PM):
*k


WTF ?

 

[masterpiece]

I had this to, i just said a few weeks ago and dropped it as she didnt need to know, plus i was kind of dating a few girls.
Based on what she just said she sounds like bad news anyway, what do u want from this girl? , f*uck buddy or relationship.
The only reason she was calling her a sl*t was jelousy, dont take that sh~t from her if you got other girls next her.

 

[chance-]

just to fuk, for now. shes pretty hot... so i dont really want to next her yet.. besides shes back to normal now and all happy. i reckon she wants to meet me soon.. she sounds intrerested apart from that little emo she had.

 

[Iceberg]

What kind of D-bag chick are you dating, man? It's none of her f**kin business.

P.S. Internet chats with a girl you never met? Really?

 

[Following_of_Me]

You've never met?

And honestly, I dont see anything wrong with this conversation. You handled it fine... and she thinks your funny. So whats the problem?

 

[Proselytiser]

Ditch this ****ing loon

 

[masterpiece]

i would say next her but considering you only want her as a f*ck buddy all is ok, try to meet with her soon as then decide from there.

 

[HariPoter13]

What the hell are you talking about guys? Next her? Someone's gonna jump in and say hit the gym.. geez

As Following_of_Me already said, youre doing just fine. Shes being jealous ergo she likes you. And shes asking you about the sex cause she wants some.

 

[kingsam]

by putting up with her BS and by talking online, you are letting her get control and dictate the pace and the rapport...

dont talk to her online, make her wait for face-to-face, it will be a good bit of challenge

u did look like you were making it up the way you said it...weakly, you need to be able to twist her Curve ball questions/jabs back towards her in a ****y and funny way.. and sorry to say but you failed at this miserably

HOw old are you? id bet Well young!

bianka says (11:19 PM):
*r u a virgin seriously?
........
chance says (11:20 PM):
*no i am not a virgin

this is where you could have said something, magically C+F, suggestive and inuendo filled...instead you just went all 'defensive'...just the kinda thing a guy who is a virgin may say...
(and im not saying you are one...)

 

[Leporello]

Make a joke of it; C + F

"When's the last time you had sex?"

*Looks at watch*

"Let's see, it's 6PM now..."

 

[KingofHearts]

I can't believe I read nearly that whole back and forth chat only to realize that you've never even met her in person.

Btw, my response to that question is "its not important" if its a girl that might be interested in me.

If its someone that I know I'm going to screw, my answer is "the last time? you should be worried about the next time I'm going to sex".

If its someone I already did but she's not sure about my commitment, the answer is "i'm a virgin"

These answers came to me as fast as a I could type them. If you can't think that quick on the fly, then it means your "inner game" needs work. I hate to use a PUA term, but at least you know what I'm talking about. There are so many possible questions and variations and possible answers to those questions, you can't possibly be prepared for everything. If you control the frame and have control over your state of mind (being confident, not nervous) then the answers just come to you in context of the conversation.

I'm sure there's better answers than the ones I posted, but it at least gets the job done. It deflects the intent of the question, shows her that I don't give a **** about her stupid questions and it lets her know I'm not trying to impress her. This is a state of mind, not a rehearsed set of lines that I must say perfectly. Half the fun in interaction is being yourself and being original. Life's too short and other things are way too important to care what some girl thinks of my sex life.