newtothis92
Don Juan
- Joined
- May 1, 2016
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- 32
Now this isn't a typical work thing, I matched this girl on tinder a while a go, talked a bit , snap chatted, but we never met. I basically stopped talking to her then. I randomly got offered an interview at a place (applied to a tonne), and remembered she worked there, so I asked her about it and started talking to her abit,. I got the job.
Since I started working there she's been incredibly strange around me, she originally talked a lot to me online after I started (FB, snapchat, etc).. she smiles in person, acts shy, I think she's attracted to me, but she avoids me a lot. doesn't like to linger in my presence and doesn't talk to me like other colleagues. It's messing me up as I feel weird now even trying to approach her/ converse with her like with other work mates. Since she started acting this way, I basically shut down social media contact with her as if she won't talk to me in person, why bother online, ? So I just kinda gave one word answers, didn't allow convo to progress. She's kind of been putting feelers out there recently though, sending me snapchat and liking FB pics, and her friend keeps bringing her up when I'm in his presence.
Sorry for this childish ****, sounds like high school nonsense, but I'm perplexed. She's attractive, but I've been spinning a tonne of plates lately and can easily let this be, or let it play out. What you think?
Since I started working there she's been incredibly strange around me, she originally talked a lot to me online after I started (FB, snapchat, etc).. she smiles in person, acts shy, I think she's attracted to me, but she avoids me a lot. doesn't like to linger in my presence and doesn't talk to me like other colleagues. It's messing me up as I feel weird now even trying to approach her/ converse with her like with other work mates. Since she started acting this way, I basically shut down social media contact with her as if she won't talk to me in person, why bother online, ? So I just kinda gave one word answers, didn't allow convo to progress. She's kind of been putting feelers out there recently though, sending me snapchat and liking FB pics, and her friend keeps bringing her up when I'm in his presence.
Sorry for this childish ****, sounds like high school nonsense, but I'm perplexed. She's attractive, but I've been spinning a tonne of plates lately and can easily let this be, or let it play out. What you think?
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