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Gift Ideas

wh01987

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My GFs bday is coming up. We havnt been going out but for a little bit so does anyone have any idea what i should get her....

I want the gift to be good but i dont wanna blow a lot of money on somthing i dont know isnt going to last.
 

abcd_z

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It's not the gift itself so much as the attitude that goes along with it. If you're an AFC, the most expensive gift in the world won't do you any good, (and sometimes even backfire!), and if you're a true DJ, you'd be able to give her a cheap present, and she'd still appreciate it.

Which is not to say that I advocate giving her a cheap present, I'm just saying it's all in how you present it and yourself.
 

Cloud-uk

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do something that shows thought.

Seriously, get her something that may not be pretty or expencive, but something that shows her you where thinking about her.

**** roses, jewelry and boring **** like that. If your good at art, or know someone that is, get her portrait painted. Get her a book that you enjoyed and is pretty deep- I'd recomend "the alchemist", dunno who its by. Its a great book about finding your fate, and it shows you thought about the gift before you got it (or just got told what to buy by some dude on a web site!). Think about it. What's cheap and makes you think of her/ is inventive.

I say cheap because you dont wanna spend a ton of money on this when you dont have to;) So think about it! Slip into a convo a question about what her fave flowers are! Do some research!
 

dbot

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I woulnt get her anything too special unless i'd been dating her for at least a few months or so. Get her a little something if you think she will like it, but don't go way out of your way on this. As early in a relationship as you are, anything expensive/extravegant/uberspecial/timeconsuming/way2thoughtful will make you look desperate and whatnot. It can be thoughtful and nice, but keep it simple. If it were me though, I wouldn't get her anything. I would just take her out or something.
 

DjMystery

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ok here are my top two gift ideas

1. Get her a Teddy Bear and have the teddy bear hold a thong then add a card that tells her to try it for you later

2. Get her a bottle of massage oils and then add a dildo with it and but set it up so she sees the oil first then the dildo


P.S. Theres a post with great Ideas in there and both mine in there
 

Eternal

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*Cough*searchformisunderstood??*cough* Yes, I'm also bringing this up...You two just started "going out." Don't you think this is excessive?
 
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