Gf of 6 months has several beta orbiters, few have confessed so far since I begun my LTR with her and have somewhat withdrawn although kept in contact...
There is however one particular one whom goes out of his way to ensure her happiness. These acts goes from purchasing goods for her, visiting her at her workplace with food, home visits (insert excuse to help her with something), to buying drinks for her when we out at a party etc.
Now I've been somewhat happy to let it slip - hey it saves me from spending money. However a part of me remains insecure about these situations...
When she brings up the topic of that person visiting and doing deeds for her, she mentions that he must have a lot of time on his hands to which I play towards his side... "hey i'd be happy to get free delivered food, he sounds great etc" *insert bf destroyer game* though i'm the bf
Wanted to reach out to the community to gain an understanding of how i can handle this particular beta orbiter better. Any suggestions welcome
There is however one particular one whom goes out of his way to ensure her happiness. These acts goes from purchasing goods for her, visiting her at her workplace with food, home visits (insert excuse to help her with something), to buying drinks for her when we out at a party etc.
Now I've been somewhat happy to let it slip - hey it saves me from spending money. However a part of me remains insecure about these situations...
When she brings up the topic of that person visiting and doing deeds for her, she mentions that he must have a lot of time on his hands to which I play towards his side... "hey i'd be happy to get free delivered food, he sounds great etc" *insert bf destroyer game* though i'm the bf
Wanted to reach out to the community to gain an understanding of how i can handle this particular beta orbiter better. Any suggestions welcome