DJinTraining06
Master Don Juan
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My gf has been extrememly negative lately. She hates her internship and dreads getting up every morning to go there. And i know chicks b*tch and complain, thats what they do. I dont mind listening to it here and there. But lately its just too much. The other night we met up for dinner, and from the instant i saw her she was upset and complaining bout her job. Which to me is annoying. Im only dating this girl 3 months, and shes already acting like im supposed to be her emotional tampon?
I mean after 3 months shouldnt u still be putting on a happy face for the person ur dating? Hell i think even if ur married 10 years you shoiuld try to do that, cuz your going out to dinner and it shouldnt be a negative b*tch fest, it's supposed to be having fun. It's one thing to make a whiny comment or two cuz lets face it we all do, but to start doin that sh*t from the second we meet up is ridiculous. Not to mention we talked bout how much she hates it the whole dinner.
What do u guys think? Is this normal? This happened with another girl i dated once who was obsessed with her weight and her grades and other bs and after we were dating a while, it was all negative with her too.
I hate being in a great mood, and then having to get her negative vibe rubbed off on me all the time, it seems like a lot of chicks are like that. It's annoying too, because then when i try and change the subject and talk about something fun, and she teases me sometimes for all my enthusiasm. Like as if im being a dork for being interested in something. I dunno, im starting to think i should change the way i treat her. I'm being way too nice and entering into her reality. I just wish i knew how to do it without being too much of a d*ck.
I mean after 3 months shouldnt u still be putting on a happy face for the person ur dating? Hell i think even if ur married 10 years you shoiuld try to do that, cuz your going out to dinner and it shouldnt be a negative b*tch fest, it's supposed to be having fun. It's one thing to make a whiny comment or two cuz lets face it we all do, but to start doin that sh*t from the second we meet up is ridiculous. Not to mention we talked bout how much she hates it the whole dinner.
What do u guys think? Is this normal? This happened with another girl i dated once who was obsessed with her weight and her grades and other bs and after we were dating a while, it was all negative with her too.
I hate being in a great mood, and then having to get her negative vibe rubbed off on me all the time, it seems like a lot of chicks are like that. It's annoying too, because then when i try and change the subject and talk about something fun, and she teases me sometimes for all my enthusiasm. Like as if im being a dork for being interested in something. I dunno, im starting to think i should change the way i treat her. I'm being way too nice and entering into her reality. I just wish i knew how to do it without being too much of a d*ck.