PokerJohn94
Don Juan
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Ok, so am dating this girl for like 3 months now. Everything was going kind of good, from my perspective. She got dependent of me. Coming to my dorm, doing the things I prefer more than doing the things she does, basically, she was more invested than me. Now we have gotten a lot closer, after she has spent the night at my place (my home, not the dorm, what was kind of special). She even made hers facebook status, that she is with me, what was weird, because we bolth agreed, that we dont need that kind of stuff. I begun being nicer to her, and now she is starting to be a ***** to me. Like yesterday, she got to my dorm with some friends of hers, and from my perspective, she started to act out, like she was the one up. She did some things, that annoyed the **** out of me, like she was sitting next to me, turned hers' head to me, and squeezed her lips while looking me in the eye. I knew, she wanted for me to kiss her, but I was kind of playful, and just looked at her the same way she did. Than she started counting. When she got to 3, she turned hers head away, looked in the sky and said:"Ok, you will not gone get single one today anymore." I was like WTF??? Where the hell this came from. Ok after few minutes, she and her friends started to walk away to the bus stop, and she asked me, if I'm going to accompany her to the bus stop. Again, I playfully said, that It is sooo far (it isn't). Than she crossed her and started to tap the floor with her foot, while looking me in the eye. I said with a grind:"Interesting, who is gonna brake first." Than she playfully said, that her foot is getting pretty tired. Than again she started caunting:"One.......two....... really??"
me:"What really?"
And than she just instantly turned arround, and walked away fastly, while her friend (1 girl) followed. After 1 minute she texts me "Tnx a lot".
WHAT THE ****????
I texted back:"Look how you have acted today."
After a while when we were on the phone, she putted all the blame on me, that I wanted to act out in her friends eyes, like I don't give a **** about her, and couldn't even do a simple thing as accompany her. Even her friends have asked, why didn't I go. So we bilth did not back down, but kind of just changed the subject, because that was putting us bolth down. We settled, that we bolth were kind of guilty of that situation happpening, and it all was just a big misunderstanding.
Today I am talking to her, and with my call I actually woke her up (late at night. Like 30 minutes earlier she texted me to call her). So we were talking, and another silly argument again. So it got to the point that I point out that she has changed in the last two days.
she (annoyed):"Urgh.."
Me:"Well its true, look how you behaved yesterday."
she(annoyed):"Ok, what did I do so horrible yesterday?"
Me:"All that childish stuff you did, and the way you acted out like the boss."
she:"Well it was your fault."
Me(raising my voice):"It was my fault? YOU say It was entirely my fault??? You were nowhere to blame????"
she:"It was a bit my fault, but yeah. Basically it was yours."
Than we started arguing and it ended like this:
she (ice cold):"I don't want to explain my self to you. i will go to sleep."
Me (aggressively):"Than do it!"
she:"Ok..."
*hangs up*
After 5 mins I receive a text "And again you hurt me. Again it is all my fault. Its never your fault. You are always the white one and the smart one."
(actually, I was writing this post, and missed her text, so it looks, that I ignored her.
Cant deny, that I find the irony really amusing in this situation. )
How should I carry on? My first instinct is to dump the *****, but I do tend to over react (I am kind of aggressive). But I try to view this more as a game. Now she was the one up in last 2 days. How do I get the tables to switch back. Back to the way they should be?
me:"What really?"
And than she just instantly turned arround, and walked away fastly, while her friend (1 girl) followed. After 1 minute she texts me "Tnx a lot".
WHAT THE ****????
I texted back:"Look how you have acted today."
After a while when we were on the phone, she putted all the blame on me, that I wanted to act out in her friends eyes, like I don't give a **** about her, and couldn't even do a simple thing as accompany her. Even her friends have asked, why didn't I go. So we bilth did not back down, but kind of just changed the subject, because that was putting us bolth down. We settled, that we bolth were kind of guilty of that situation happpening, and it all was just a big misunderstanding.
Today I am talking to her, and with my call I actually woke her up (late at night. Like 30 minutes earlier she texted me to call her). So we were talking, and another silly argument again. So it got to the point that I point out that she has changed in the last two days.
she (annoyed):"Urgh.."
Me:"Well its true, look how you behaved yesterday."
she(annoyed):"Ok, what did I do so horrible yesterday?"
Me:"All that childish stuff you did, and the way you acted out like the boss."
she:"Well it was your fault."
Me(raising my voice):"It was my fault? YOU say It was entirely my fault??? You were nowhere to blame????"
she:"It was a bit my fault, but yeah. Basically it was yours."
Than we started arguing and it ended like this:
she (ice cold):"I don't want to explain my self to you. i will go to sleep."
Me (aggressively):"Than do it!"
she:"Ok..."
*hangs up*
After 5 mins I receive a text "And again you hurt me. Again it is all my fault. Its never your fault. You are always the white one and the smart one."
(actually, I was writing this post, and missed her text, so it looks, that I ignored her.
Cant deny, that I find the irony really amusing in this situation. )How should I carry on? My first instinct is to dump the *****, but I do tend to over react (I am kind of aggressive). But I try to view this more as a game. Now she was the one up in last 2 days. How do I get the tables to switch back. Back to the way they should be?