Guys this is becoming an issue for me.
I have had a girlfriend for almost a year and she hasn’t orgasmed once.
She has never orgasmed. Though thinks she may have once before with a previous Bf- but i get the feeling she says this just so that i don't think she is asexual.
She has never masturbated. She is now in her early 20s. I have suggested she start touching herself.
She rarely initiates sex, but once in the bedroom she does everything I want her to do and sometimes takes the initiative.
On many occasssions I have got her to the stage where I’m certain she is almost about to orgasm. In these occasions she often feels like she might have to pee. I have tried to make her feel comfortable and not worry about peeing.
I think she may have past conditioning about waiting til she is married and that sex is bad. But she does it anyway and insists she wants to have lots of orgasms.
She says perhaps we just need to have sex for longer. But I am already doing 5-6 hour sessions with her and given my previous experience I am rock hard for most of the duration and I give her plenty of oral.
My technique is good because it has worked and is continuing to work with other women.
This girl’s ****oris is simply not attached to her brain. It gives her no pleasure.
She prefers g-spot etc and gets hot etc but doesn’t orgasm.
This girl although she hasn’t come is very emotionally attached to me and I am convinced she wants me to be ‘the one’.
We are both busy and can really only see each other once a week.
The one thing I haven’t tried is a vibrator.
How can I get this girl so horny she wants to see me more often and starts having orgasms?
I have had a girlfriend for almost a year and she hasn’t orgasmed once.
She has never orgasmed. Though thinks she may have once before with a previous Bf- but i get the feeling she says this just so that i don't think she is asexual.
She has never masturbated. She is now in her early 20s. I have suggested she start touching herself.
She rarely initiates sex, but once in the bedroom she does everything I want her to do and sometimes takes the initiative.
On many occasssions I have got her to the stage where I’m certain she is almost about to orgasm. In these occasions she often feels like she might have to pee. I have tried to make her feel comfortable and not worry about peeing.
I think she may have past conditioning about waiting til she is married and that sex is bad. But she does it anyway and insists she wants to have lots of orgasms.
She says perhaps we just need to have sex for longer. But I am already doing 5-6 hour sessions with her and given my previous experience I am rock hard for most of the duration and I give her plenty of oral.
My technique is good because it has worked and is continuing to work with other women.
This girl’s ****oris is simply not attached to her brain. It gives her no pleasure.
She prefers g-spot etc and gets hot etc but doesn’t orgasm.
This girl although she hasn’t come is very emotionally attached to me and I am convinced she wants me to be ‘the one’.
We are both busy and can really only see each other once a week.
The one thing I haven’t tried is a vibrator.
How can I get this girl so horny she wants to see me more often and starts having orgasms?
You've done your part, she still isn't responding. If it were me she'd be gone. Sounds like you've got the situation figured out.