gf lieing to me

[dice]

would u be pissed if ur gf posted this on another guys facebook when she tells u that she rarely uses facebook and always tells u to go on her myspace. So i made an account on facebook. Theres this guy at her job she works at (waitress) and i went in and saw them kind of flirting and she said they had just met, but the friend request on facebook was a few days before I came in:

oh wow so u found out how to accept friendships maybe someday u will figure out how to comment hahahah thanks for putting sour cream all over me toda

they work with sour cream so he did it at work.. nothing dirty.. i hope.. that comment was left after she was done work that same night.. she left him that comment the same day i went to c her

 

[foomee]

Ooh... that's bad. Well one, you should trust her and shouldn't of been snooping through her emails and stuff. But two, if it looks like they're flirting, you'd better do something about it soon.

 

[Last Man Standing]

Are you sexing her? Is she a virgin?

 

[In2theGame]

would u be pissed if ur gf posted this on another guys facebook when she tells u that she rarely uses facebook and always tells u to go on her myspace. So i made an account on facebook. Theres this guy at her job she works at (waitress) and i went in and saw them kind of flirting and she said they had just met, but the friend request on facebook was a few days before I came in:

oh wow so u found out how to accept friendships maybe someday u will figure out how to comment hahahah thanks for putting sour cream all over me toda

Dice, I am not even laughing at this, rather Sad. I wish i could give you and hug, No seriously, nothing gay. You seem like a good guy and you dont deserve that garbage!. Let me tell you something Dice... If i were in your shoes, I would Dump her RIGHT!!!!!!!!! AWAY!!! i mean dump!!! as in, out of the Blue, not answering her calls, dont call her, dont see her, just straight out of the blue!. If i found my G/F saying something like that, .. Omg.. you bet your ass ill be Pimpin the very next day. You dont deserve that dude. Really.

 

[In2theGame]

Ooh... that's bad. Well one, you should trust her and shouldn't of been snooping through her emails and stuff. But two, if it looks like they're flirting, you'd better do something about it soon.

Although i agree with you on the trusting thing... If he didnt "snoop" she would be writing more comments about getting "cream all over her". Sadly, she is trying to play his for a fool by letting him see her Myspace, while she flirts secretly on Facebook... To me that is a slap in the face.

 

[Suave]

I would be a little pissed if a girlfriend of mine were hitting on other guys like this. But, I couldn't be too pissed I hit on other girls all of the time, and I haven't cheated on her. If you don't trust this girl then you definately can't have a GOOD relationship. If you do trust her, see this as "small stuff" and don't worry too much about it. It all depends on how much you trust her.

 

[DJDamage]

MySpace and Facebook is a chick's tool for attention wh0ring. You got to accept that your girl and most women out there are attention wh0res to some extend and if someone gives them attention without them having to sex them then it gives them an ego boast.

I wouldn't be too worried about this guy, he could be one of the many guys who get a friendly private messages from time to time. MySpace and Facebook is also a perfect way for a chick to keep men she is not interested right now and are currently places under an assume identity "friend" label, but if oppertuinty knocks she might be looking for an upgrade and she will have plenty to choose from.

The best way to gauge this situation is look at her interest levels. If she continues to be affectionate and sexing you up like always and doesn't cause problems then you got a high interest gal who is just being an attention hor. If your girl start to cause problems (is not as affectionate as she used to be, become evasive and you suspect she lies to you) then she is probably cheating on you and is not an attention hor but an actual hor.

 

[Fender]

Are you guys f-ing kidding?

He put sour cream over her...great. Oh gee, next thing you know, they'll be having babies...

GROW UP! Putting sour cream on someone is a long way from going into bed with them.

Dice, I understand where you're coming from- its easy to get insecure when you have a girlfriend and she interacts with other men like that, but its something that we all have to accept. I've felt those same irrational emotions myself, but look at it objectively- is it really that big of a deal?

But in2thegame...I really hope you reevaluate your standards. If you simply dump every single girl that has a male friend, then the only GF you'll be getting is a fat ugly one. Seriously.

 

[In2theGame]

Are you guys f-ing kidding?

He put sour cream over her...great. Oh gee, next thing you know, they'll be having babies...

GROW UP! Putting sour cream on someone is a long way from going into bed with them.

Dice, I understand where you're coming from- its easy to get insecure when you have a girlfriend and she interacts with other men like that, but its something that we all have to accept. I've felt those same irrational emotions myself, but look at it objectively- is it really that big of a deal?

But in2thegame...I really hope you reevaluate your standards. If you simply dump every single girl that has a male friend, then the only GF you'll be getting is a fat ugly one. Seriously.

Fender i understand what your saying, but what reason does she have lieing to him?. I have a G/F of two years now and everything is going well because she knows i dont put up with the slightest garbage and we have a open conversation about everything, No BS.. Trust me when i say, if you let women get away with the little things,.. sure enough she will try to get away with alot more. You let her know that you are not a sucker for any BS.

 

[backbreaker]

MySpace and Facebook is a chick's tool for attention wh0ring. You got to accept that your girl and most women out there are attention wh0res to some extend and if someone gives them attention without them having to sex them then it gives them an ego boast.

I wouldn't be too worried about this guy, he could be one of the many guys who get a friendly private messages from time to time. MySpace and Facebook is also a perfect way for a chick to keep men she is not interested right now and are currently places under an assume identity "friend" label, but if oppertuinty knocks she might be looking for an upgrade and she will have plenty to choose from.

The best way to gauge this situation is look at her interest levels. If she continues to be affectionate and sexing you up like always and doesn't cause problems then you got a high interest gal who is just being an attention hor. If your girl start to cause problems (is not as affectionate as she used to be, become evasive and you suspect she lies to you) then she is probably cheating on you and is not an attention hor but an actual hor.

couldn't have said it better myself.

whoring in myspace and whoring in real life are two different things.

To me, facebook/myspace is nothing but a portable ego boast for women. you can go anywhere in the world as long as there is a PC, log in and say "they like me, they really really like me!"

lol, think about it for a second. a Guy WORKS with your GF, yet he has to go HOME, LOG ON TO THE PC to flirt with her? you gotta be kidding me.

 

[Master Bates]

To me, facebook/myspace is nothing but a portable ego boast for women. you can go anywhere in the world as long as there is a PC, log in and say "they like me, they really really like me!"

:crackup: So F'ing true. Quite literally, too. I've traveled outside the country with my sister and she couldn't go six hours without checking her Facebook wall on the nearest computer with internet.

 

[wayword]

lol, think about it for a second. a Guy WORKS with your GF, yet he has to go HOME, LOG ON TO THE PC to flirt with her? you gotta be kidding me.

Uh, I'd consider creaming on her at work flirting too.

Listen dude, this is a BAD sign. She is the aggressor here and has shown some deception and denial about it. Sounds like another typical AW trying to fill her daddyhole with unlimited kawk. Better start looking at your other options...

 

[backbreaker]

i was being lighthearted... I personaly won't date a girl that routinely checks myspace/facebook so she would have been gone a long time ago.. nothing against thoose sites, but it tells me alot about the persons ambitions/goals in life if half your day is spent hitting the refresh button and flirting with guys you have no interest in

 

[In2theGame]

Uh, I'd consider creaming on her at work flirting too.

Listen dude, this is a BAD sign. She is the aggressor here and has shown some deception and denial about it. Sounds like another typical AW trying to fill her daddyhole with unlimited kawk. Better start looking at your other options...

BULLSEYE. Nice wayword.

 

[Raikojo17]

i agree with Damage and Backbreaker. it's just a site. i would flirt with girls online all the time who had no intentions of starting annything with me. that's why i dont use it for sarging anymore, because girls on there are so fake it's not even funny. i almost cybered with a girl on myspace once, i thought she had really high interest in me. we even went as far as to inroduce ourselves and talk about future plans. i then go for the number and then she flakes. it really is nothing. just something your gf uses to feed her ego.

and really. putting sour cream on someone? if i spilled ketchup on ur gf would that be flirting? come one man, no need to be so paranoid. just be confident in your relationship and watch her actions. if she does cheat, that's when you dump her. not because you think she is going to.

 

[Dongfu]

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State what it is you wish to add on using a commanding authoritative tone. You aren’t asking for what you want, you are issuing an order. Before she can react to your command, re-engage and slowly take her back up to the point of orgasm. Repeat this process until she understands that disobedience to your order will result in an immediate withdrawal and suspension of your services.


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[In2theGame]

i agree with Damage and Backbreaker. it's just a site. i would flirt with girls online all the time who had no intentions of starting annything with me. that's why i dont use it for sarging anymore, because girls on there are so fake it's not even funny. i almost cybered with a girl on myspace once, i thought she had really high interest in me. we even went as far as to inroduce ourselves and talk about future plans. i then go for the number and then she flakes. it really is nothing. just something your gf uses to feed her ego.

and really. putting sour cream on someone? if i spilled ketchup on ur gf would that be flirting? come one man, no need to be so paranoid. just be confident in your relationship and watch her actions. if she does cheat, that's when you dump her. not because you think she is going to.

Raikojo, Put yourself in his shoes,... Would you want your G/F flirting with other guys behind your back? and to make matters worse, shes trying to make you think shes "faithful" by letting him check her myspace with no problems so he can feel better about things, Meanwhile shes flirting on facebook which she DOESNT let him see so freely.

Lets all examin this Message by his girlfriend, Shall we?

"oh wow so u found out how to accept friendships maybe someday u will figure out how to comment hahahah thanks for putting sour cream all over me today"

First off, the first line rings bad bells, and here is why... "Oh wow so u found out how to accept friendships, Maybe someday u will figure out how to comment"

Basically she is looking for his approval by "accepting" her as a friend, why does she care so much? .... here is the alarm..."Maybe someday u will figure out how to comment"

She WANTS him to comment her back by being playful and sarcastic. It also means she has commented to him but he never replied.

Lets look at the second line... "Thanks for putting sour cream all over me today"
Now if im him and im trying to bang her... Id reply with...
"LoL sorry i got cream all over you,... Next time you should put some all over me" <~~~ Sexual but not Sexual... See the mind game there?

Dude, She is playing games.

 

[The Shocker]

couldn't have said it better myself.

whoring in myspace and whoring in real life are two different things.

To me, facebook/myspace is nothing but a portable ego boast for women. you can go anywhere in the world as long as there is a PC, log in and say "they like me, they really really like me!"

lol, think about it for a second. a Guy WORKS with your GF, yet he has to go HOME, LOG ON TO THE PC to flirt with her? you gotta be kidding me.

Agreed. All girls will want the attention.

 

[girl_in_a_boy_forum]

Geez, have some faith in your girlfriend. She's in a progressive relationship with you, YOU are the one she wants to be with. If you think she's going to run off with another guy, then improve your lesser qualities until you are confident you can keep her.

That said, you can't expect her not to interact with other guys. He's her COWORKER, do you expect her to just walk away everytime he says hi? Try to trust her. If you don't, spend more time her, build your relationship, and strengthen the bond between you.

Also, when girls talk to guys, it's not about flirting. Flirting can come in the form of talking, but girls just like to talk. It's how we bond and spend time in each other's company.

 

[girl_in_a_boy_forum]

"oh wow so u found out how to accept friendships maybe someday u will figure out how to comment hahahah thanks for putting sour cream all over me today"

First off, the first line rings bad bells, and here is why... "Oh wow so u found out how to accept friendships, Maybe someday u will figure out how to comment"

Basically she is looking for his approval by "accepting" her as a friend, why does she care so much? .... here is the alarm..."Maybe someday u will figure out how to comment"

She WANTS him to comment her back by being playful and sarcastic. It also means she has commented to him but he never replied.

Lets look at the second line... "Thanks for putting sour cream all over me today"

Guys...it's online conversation. A guy friended her, and she decided to be friendly and write him a comment and be humorous about it. Again, girls don't necessarily talk to flirt and hook up with somebody...girls talk because they like conversation. I think she's just being friendly, and friends tease each other.