GF hanging out with other guys..a friend told me to watch them..should i be worried?

[shark]

Well my GF of 5 months is great and i love her. But theres a few kids, who happend to be pretty good friends with me and her who always seem to hangout with her and stuff. A lot of the time it will be them 2 and her, and not me..and they'll go places without me.

I don't love it..but don';t think much of it untill now. I called her up and asked what she was doing..she said nothing but i thought i heard the kids voice. So i spoke to my friend whose a girl and said she'd find out for me. So she told me there all at the mall these 2 guys and her.

Personally, i feel like im better then them (in terms of looks, personality, game). This girl tells me i should watch this one kid and he's not bad looking, he's a year older, has a car...but he's a goofball and i really don't feel threatend. I Just feel like its messed up my two guy friends are always hanging out with my GF without me!

So..should i be really worried? I wouldn't be but my GF told me she was doing "nothing"...so thats weird. This girl says i should listen to her but i really really dont believe they can take my GF from me..who do i listen to? Do i talk to her and tell her i dont like when they hang and/or talk to the guys and tell them to back off a little

Argg..

 

[Blatant truth]

C'mon man...investigate, something is fishy here...

Don't be all jealous and AFC, but find out what's up, it seems fishy and disrespectful.

 

[ER!C L!VE]

Originally posted by shark
So i spoke to my friend whose a girl and said she'd find out for me. So she told me there all at the mall these 2 guys and her.

Cool! Your girl lied to you!

So..should i be really worried? I wouldn't be but my GF told me she was doing "nothing"...so thats weird.

Weird?

Hmm.. disrespectful, deceitful, misleading, intolerable, unacceptable....want me to keep going?

Man, she'd be on permanent probabation if she were my chick.. as in.. I wouldn't trust her if she were my girl and I found out that kind of shyt.

Just make sure you fvck her in the azz before you dump her.. You'll be pizzed later if you don't

Eric

 

[chancer]

My homies have some fine ass girls... I cant help but glance at them every so often. So with that said, i'd would be like wtf if my homies were hanging out with my girl, without me.

Check your homies, and your girl if you ever catch her in a lie, but don't ever show weakness...

 

[BrotherAP]

Originally posted by shark
Well my GF of 5 months is great and i love her. But theres a few kids, who happend to be pretty good friends with me and her who always seem to hangout with her and stuff. A lot of the time it will be them 2 and her, and not me..and they'll go places without me.

Q: If they're such good friends, then why aren't they inviting you?

A: They're trying to fvck your girlfriend

Oh, and she knows this. Unless she's totally oblivious, she's aware of a guy who's trying to get in her pants. And, after becoming aware of this, if she didn't tell him to get lost... she's up to something. I don't know if she likes the attention, he buys her stuff, or she's just straight up fvcking him - but she shouldn't be spending so much time with these other guys who are supposedly your friends without you even being invited. A loyal girl will be literally disgusted by another guy who isn't you hitting on her.

At this point, I'd say find a replacement for her, then (after doing her in the butt, like Er!c suggested), leave her for another girl.

I know you're not sure about leaving her, and probably wouldn't based on the advice of some guys on an internet message board - but look at it this way. Her behavior is making you uncomfortable, and it should. Girls that spend too much time with other guys lead to trouble. If you tell her not to, you're controlling. If you ask her not too, you're a wimp. If you say nothing, your a total chump. Her wanting to spend time with these guys and you not liking it really represents a fundamental incompatibility.

I mean, if she's at the mall with two dudes, shouldn't you be there as well - with two cute girls? Ask yourself if she would be perfectly, 100% ok with that. If the answer is no then she's alrady trying to take freedoms she's not willing to grant you.