Gf going on vacation with an Ex?

[Zerglingrush]

My gf of 2 months ( still new ) is currently on a europe trip with her ex who happens to live in Germany.

She dated him in the past when he came backpacking over here (australia) for a year then he went back so they broke it off due to ldr not going to work.

However they planned a europe trip when they were together ages ago and booked flights and accom when they were still together, so now there she is spending time with the guy.

I have spoken to her before she left and told her that I don't like the idea that she is going to spend time with her ex, she said that she will come back to me, but she cant promise anything wont happen there.

So if you guys are in my situation, what would you do?

 

[Asmodeus]

"she cant promise anything wont happen there." She is a hoe... She flat out admits she is going to bang the dude. While she is out in Germany bang every chick you can possibly bang, and say "you gave no promises, and neither shall I". Then drop her like it is hot.

 

[Konada]

Relegate her to fvckbuddy position. Tell her 'Then perhaps its better we don't get into a relationship with exclusive labels yet.' Start seeing other girls.

 

[Zerglingrush]

The one time i treat a girl nice and it ****s me over...
Fml... Should i just go back to picking up side chicks and just wait it out to see how this one plays out when she comes back? Or should i just move on completely?

 

[LiveYourDream]

My gf of 2 months ( still new ) is currently on a europe trip with her ex who happens to live in Germany.

She dated him in the past when he came backpacking over here (australia) for a year then he went back so they broke it off due to ldr not going to work.

However they planned a europe trip when they were together ages ago and booked flights and accom when they were still together, so now there she is spending time with the guy.

I have spoken to her before she left and told her that I don't like the idea that she is going to spend time with her ex, she said that she will come back to me, but she cant promise anything wont happen there.

So if you guys are in my situation, what would you do?

By GF do you mean you two are exclusive, except she is out of the country on vacation screwing her ex?

I'd say break-up immediately. Let her know you will NOT be contacting her again. You don't ever want to be anyone's second choice or volunteer to have her if he doesn't want her. No way!

There is nothing weaker than standing by waiting and hoping for a turn, while some other guy f'cks your woman.

Drop her immediately. Cease all contact. Immediately start asking women out and spinning plates. Get your mind off the ex-"gf."

Set some goals for yourself that excite you. Everyday or at a minimum 4 days a week, put time and energy into achieving those goals. Put your energy into improving you and your life, not to improve for her, or revenge, strictly for your own increased sense of confidence and self worth.

If she reaches out to you when she returns, I'd likely remain no contact. The disrespect is already irreparable in my opinion. If she was truly interested in you, she could have held off until after this trip or invited you to book slots where she would have originally met him and the two of you could have gone instead.

Save any self respect you have left and end this now!!!

 

[Zerglingrush]

By GF do you mean you two are exclusive, except she is out of the country on vacation screwing her ex?

I'd say break-up immediately. Let her know you will NOT be contacting her again. You don't ever want to be anyone's second choice or volunteer to have her if he doesn't want her. No way!

There is nothing weaker than standing by waiting and hoping for a turn, while some other guy f'cks your woman.

Drop her immediately. Cease all contact. Immediately start asking women out and spinning plates. Get your mind off the ex-"gf."

Set some goals for yourself that excite you. Everyday or at a minimum 4 days a week, put time and energy into achieving those goals. Put your energy into improving you and your life, not to improve for her, or revenge, strictly for your own increased sense of confidence and self worth.

If she reaches out to you when she returns, I'd likely remain no contact. The disrespect is already irreparable in my opinion. If she was truly interested in you, she could have held off until after this trip or invited you to book slots where she would have originally met him and the two of you could have gone instead.

Save any self respect you have left and end this now!!!

Thanks a lot, really appreciate the advise. I shall improve myself hereon.

 

[Zerglingrush]

you lucked out, this is an easy one. Dump her ice cold and never look back.

The one girl i actually like personality wise as well... ****

 

[PrettyBoyAJ]

Some of you guys ask the dumbest questions. What the hell is wrong with you?

 

[Asmodeus]

Dump her and walk out of it with your pride intact... Your pride is worth more than any woman. You will meet many women in your life, fall in love many times over. One girl is nothing. I... Was in love once... Like you, I thought she was special. I put her on a pedestal only to be betrayed. I tried for months to stay with her while she screwed me over repeatedly. I lost a little of my pride each time, a little of my dignity each day. I learned from that... You do not want to be that sorry sack of S*** with no dignity left, holding on to hopelessness. Leave her, you are better off

 

[Asmodeus]

PrettyBoyAJ: "Some of you guys ask the dumbest questions. What the hell is wrong with you?"... Dumb? Indeed... However, this feeling called romantic love has an intoxicating drug like effect... Clouds ones judgments and reasons. I can understand where he is coming from, and maybe he learned something. And he will look back no this moment in the future and realize how ridiculous it was to even consider staying with that cheating scumbag. Good luck to ya Zerglingrush. I roll with Protoss myself.

 

[Tictac]

My gf of 2 months ( still new ) is currently on a europe trip with her ex who happens to live in Germany.

She dated him in the past when he came backpacking over here (australia) for a year then he went back so they broke it off due to ldr not going to work.

However they planned a europe trip when they were together ages ago and booked flights and accom when they were still together, so now there she is spending time with the guy.

I have spoken to her before she left and told her that I don't like the idea that she is going to spend time with her ex, she said that she will come back to me, but she cant promise anything wont happen there.

So if you guys are in my situation, what would you do?

Seriously?

 

[PapiChulo]

She is not your girlfriend. You two are not exclusive. Let her know that by getting with somebody else. With all that being said she is practicing hypergamy and isn't trying to hide it.

 

[foreverAFC]

gotta be a troll

 

[Zerglingrush]

Thanks all, not a troll post. I just needed a wake up call thats all.
I'm a long time lurker in here, learnt a lot from you guys but havent really posted or contributed anything yet as I'm usually busy with social stuff outside.
I'm not a DJ by any means at all, but I have a lot of success with picking up many chicks through applying DJ techniques on here in the past.
Don't know what happened but i got too attached to this chick and just needed the wake up call from you guys.

Thanks all, appreciated!

 

[El Payaso]

Troll.

 

[YawataNoKami]

My gf of 2 months ( still new ) is currently on a europe trip with her ex who happens to live in Germany.

She dated him in the past when he came backpacking over here (australia) for a year then he went back so they broke it off due to ldr not going to work.

However they planned a europe trip when they were together ages ago and booked flights and accom when they were still together, so now there she is spending time with the guy.

I have spoken to her before she left and told her that I don't like the idea that she is going to spend time with her ex, she said that she will come back to me, but she cant promise anything wont happen there.

So if you guys are in my situation, what would you do?

This thread should be close.​

 

[Zerglingrush]

Feel free to close it. I got the advise i needed.
Thanks

 

[Glumix]

but she cant promise anything wont happen there.

"Have fun Hon, enjoy your trip!"

Then disappear... forever...

But ask yourself one question: how is it that your SMV is SO LOW that a girl dare to do that to you?

 

[devilkingx2]

Dude you just got dumped. Based on that story the only reason she wasn't ****ing him is that they were apart so she made sure to close the distance, she couldn't guarantee anything because obviously the entire point of the trip is to **** him.

Never talk to that ***** again, why would you ever want a woman who would callously dump you without a care in the world in the middle of a perfect relationship the millisecond she's in the position to be pumped and dumped by some other guy.

 

[devilkingx2]

Alternatively if you're not exclusive with her or are okay with an open relationship then go out and **** a new girl at least once every week for the rest of the relationship since apparently that's allowed.