GF finally pulled the trigger and is movin out plus my 3k watch is gone.

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So the GF or ex gf is moving out. Shes been saying it for months not surprising though cause our lease ends in a month. We were together for almost 3.5 years. 2 years then broke up for a year or two then got back together for 1.5 or so. The other day I came home drunk because I went a NBA game and took this hb8. I pass out and dont remember much. The next day I get a call from gf/ex and she says Im not coming home tonight and Im staying at my friends house..Im like whose your friend ...she responds and says chris (some nerd she worked with , microbiologist or some boring sh1t like that.) I say wtf. Then she says it doesnt matter im moving out I signed a lease already yadda yadda. I then proceed to tell her not to come home and I hang up. she calls back and is p1ssed. hang up again and she texts me shes coming home. She comes home and I say get the fvck out now blah blah and said her rebound aint sh1t etc. All of her sh1t is still here. Then i said well its a good thing I took hb8 courtside last night. A little more sh1t talking then i leave with my friend and dont come home.

That morning after the game i woke up and opened up my drawer to make sure my watch was in there cause i was pretty drunk the night before and it was there. That day the b1tch doesnt come home. Im home basically the whole day and leave from 7 pm till 2 am. I come home and my watch is gone. Im like wtf. My friend is over my house with me. The b1tch is not home probably sleeping at that dudes house. I call the cops and they come over yadda yadda. I go to sleep wake up and start looking for it. Cant find it. I call the b1tch and ask her if shes been home and brought anyone here. She said she hasn't been home since that morning.

I call the cops again and bring CSI over because its a 3k watch. They take some finger prints on my drawer where I keep it. Still waiting for the results. My friend was in the house and I left to let the dog out. I came back it thats when I knew it was gone but i asked him and he was like strip search me all you want pulled his pockets out yadda. I dont think its in his nature to be like that anyways ive knwo him really well. The ex could have possibly done something with it. The weird thing is that the watch was the only thing missing, nothing else, I have a laptop, nice necklace and shirts what have you and nothing is missing. No forced entry. The only other thing i can think of is when I take my dog out i just leave the door unlocked so someone coud have seen me and walked in but to get to my watch they would have had to go through the living room , pass the laptop and nice tv, go through a bedroom then to the closet, then open the drawer in the corner to get to my watch where there were also credit cards and like i said a really nice necklace. IT doesnt add up. The cop asked me if they wanted to question the b1tch and I said no cause I dont think she has it in her to do that. My friend would not cause we see each other everyday and I badgered him like crazy for the last 2 days. I dont know if the b1tch stopped at home to get something and had someone with her. She knows where I keep my watch and I dont think anyone else does. Seriously random dude walks through those rooms and goes to a clothes drawer and takes the watch but no chain credit cards, nothing else. doesnt make sense.

back to the gf moving out. I asked her whose helping her move and she said she didnt know yet. I replied and said noone is because Im not allowing anyone in this house. It which she replied great blah blah blah.
 

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The original post is full of trivial b.s. Reads like emotional drivel of a middle-schooler.

Lesson to be learned: if you can't afford to lose a 3k dollar watch either wear it or keep under lock and key, especially when you are ending things with a woman.
 

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Did you have insurance on the watch, or do you have a comprehensive homeowners or renters policy?
 

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This whole situation sounds ghetto/trailerpark as hell. That's what you get for having hos move in while you're still dating other hos.

3K watch? Buy some land, dude. F*ck spinning rims.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Lol squirrels.. yep you know me. Anyways back to the break up. So yesterday Im sleeping and all the sudden she makes an entrance and throws a sh1t load of boxes over the railing. Her and her fat friend walk in and I stay calm. She starts packing sh1t up so fast. So I'm like ok let me help you. I just start grabbing drawers, clothes lamps, etc whatever is hers and start just piling it up in the living room. I then sit on the computer handling my business. She says hey do you wanna look through stuff to make sure I dont have yours. I say no figure it out yourself. She keeps packing and I eventually take the dog and go to my brothers house because I couldn't stand being there anymore. Before I left I said are you sure you had nobody come over (referring to my watch situation) she gets this look and says something then I walk out the door and say well you always lie so I can't believe you.
I get back a couple of hours later and the place is trashed, she left her bed frame, all of her containers and random sh1t and didn't vacuum like I told her to before I left because honestly 97% of the sh1t in the house was hers including the messes.
I proceed to text her

me: please hurry and get everything done thanks.

b1tch: I paid thru december.

b1tch: (before I reply) Im really sad and sorry

me: I really don't give a fvck about how you feel...Im happy so peace the fvck out and clean up the place fast because you left it trashed. have a nice life. bye

b1tch: I was planning on coming back

me: You got what you want. Just do everything in one trip so we will never have to see each other ever again. bye.

no reply. I got drunk as fvck last night and had a good time talked to some broads didn't even have an itch to call her. No contact today either. Its weird right now being the apartment bymyself with my dog with a bunch of sh1t missing. I miss her a tiny bit but she was never home and I was always gone too so we didnt hang out too much although we spent a lot of time together the last week or so.

I know she left some sh1t here on purpose to have the excuse to come back. You leave a bed frame here when you hired a moving company????? You leave a bunch of food containers that you use alot...you leave a bunch of binders and documents you didnt dare depart with when we moved in together?????

My guess is shes letting sh1t cool down then when I dont call her about cleaning (which i had to do because I couldnt stand it) shell just act all casual and be like yea i need to clean and pick up the other stuff blah blah blah. The first time we broke up and I moved out we didn't talk for a day or two then I initiated fvcked a couple more times etc.

I aint doing that this time Im done for good and have to stay strong and will hopefully. I got a little off track wtih the gym but now Im getting back in there hardcore and probably will move out of state in a month or two.
 

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The only real concern I'd have for you in this aftermath is your "getting drunk as fvck" to unload and escape all the feelings you're obviously having rather than letting it process naturally. Sounds as if you're in a lot of pain and don't want to feel it, so you're using going out and drinking to avoid it. That's not much of a solution. I'd recommend spending time with family, friends, hobbies and exercise, do things that are healthy for you rather than killing brain cells. - My opinion.
 

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squirrels said:
This whole situation sounds ghetto/trailerpark as hell. That's what you get for having hos move in while you're still dating other hos.

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agreed.
 

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It cost me more than a 3k watch when I got divorced. When you break up with a woman,they can get MEAN. I actually moved stuff I wanted to be sure I kept to my office
 

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Lol you dudes who call me ghetto/trailer park don't even know me.
 

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You wasted law enforcers time and tax payers money for a watch while they could have been looking for a murderer.

Your dramatic and say allot of unneeded sentences to an ex who feeds on the drama as her source of excitement.

Your not trailer trash but just likely ghetto fab thinking you some gangster.

All in all. Another good day at the zoo. Seriously just note that if you want her out. Then indifference is your best option
 

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squirrels said:
This whole situation sounds ghetto/trailerpark as hell. That's what you get for having hos move in while you're still dating other hos.

3K watch? Buy some land, dude. F*ck spinning rims.

Well a $3000 watch isn't really spinning rims, it's sort of a training wheels for someone who's into good timepieces. The best advice so far was the post about having a safe in the house.

The big mistake? Signing a lease with a woman. If you're not actually married, make sure you live alone and in your own place.
 

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me: I really don't give a fvck about how you feel...Im happy so peace the fvck out and clean up the place fast because you left it trashed. have a nice life. bye
Yes, nothing says "i'm happy" like talking like that.

You sound angry and hurt and she loves it.
 

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Alle_Gory said:
$3K watch. Antique, collector's item?
Or a beginners Swiss maybe, or a serious "non-flash" timepiece, like a Ball or Sinn.
 

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acehole said:
Lol you dudes who call me ghetto/trailer park don't even know me.
We know you have (had) a $3,000 watch, yet you live in an apartment and your girl has been paying part of the rent. We also know you get sh!t-faced drunk every other night. What WOULD you have us believe?

If I paid that much for a watch, I'd consider insuring it.

BTW, are you sure YOU didn't lose your watch during one of these drunk-nights-out? I.e. flashed it for some girl, got her into bed, and left it at her place? You said yourself, the fact that it's missing and all your other "bling" is still home doesn't make sense.

On the plus-side, good on you for kicking that girl to the curb. :)
 
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