hey you guys i was wondering if anyone had any advice on hooking up with strangers. i threw a party the other night and a group of people from a different school i didnt know showed up. there was one girl that i was very interested in and i introduced my self and everything like i owned the place witch i did but anyways we talked a little bit. she showed some signs of interest when she approached me and talked to me a little bit and would look my way every once in a while you know. then she asked me to show her where a blow dryer was and i brought her upstairs but i didnt know what to do so i just left it at that and went downstairs after i made her laugh a little. i just donnt know what to do when it comes to hooking up like that with someone i dont know. i mean i know i should just be forward and have confidence but i just dont have a clue on what to do. but i also felt a little insecure because im out of shape and dont look as big as i used to i even found out the kids from the other school were talkin **** sayin i should be bigger for someone who lifts hella buuut i heard the girl defended me by sayin i was really cut. so does that mean i was right all alogn to think she was interested.
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freshintake
Don Juan
if you dont know the girl it makes it even easier to make a move.. you may never see her again so who really cares if you read her wrong and shes not into it. Just be friendly and go for kino and see how she reacts.
you were upstairs alone with her in the bathroom. Sounds like it was a very good oppurtunity. Just learn from it and next time your will be ready.
you were upstairs alone with her in the bathroom. Sounds like it was a very good oppurtunity. Just learn from it and next time your will be ready.
drixsa
Master Don Juan
repost your story with paragraphs
its too hard for my old eyes to read
its too hard for my old eyes to read
hey
okay what happened was i had a party the other night and there was alot of kids from a school that i dont know anyone from.
we were all just chillin and drinking and this one girl hydie was kind of showing a little interest in me. she was making eye contact and talking with me a little i was making her laugh and everything.
then i guess i uped her interest when i went to shotgun a beer and took my shirt off. i could see her watching me and stuff.
she shotgund a beer and spilled it all over herself.
she asked me if i could show her where a blow dryer was and so i was like alright we went upstairs and i just showed her made her laugh then left.
okay what happened was i had a party the other night and there was alot of kids from a school that i dont know anyone from.
we were all just chillin and drinking and this one girl hydie was kind of showing a little interest in me. she was making eye contact and talking with me a little i was making her laugh and everything.
then i guess i uped her interest when i went to shotgun a beer and took my shirt off. i could see her watching me and stuff.
she shotgund a beer and spilled it all over herself.
she asked me if i could show her where a blow dryer was and so i was like alright we went upstairs and i just showed her made her laugh then left.
drixsa
Master Don Juan
well you could of at least of stayed upstairs with her and got to know her while she was brushin her hair
Buddy that was the perfect opportunity! When you get a chick alone most of the time she will do something with you, and it was even better because she was the one who suggested that you guys be secluded from everyone else. So that means she has some interest in you. She already saw you with your shirt off, and she liked it, so don't worry about what she thinks becuase she knows what she came to do. So when you were up there with her you should of just leaned in and kissed her. You can't loose what you don't have.
CrzyBadBoyDJ
Senior Don Juan
Yeah dude. She wasn't *really* looking to get a blowDRYER! She was looking to get a blow***!
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lol yeah i know im just gonna have to learn from this i guess and next time know what to do. i just havnt been in many situations like that it seems like all at once im getting girls to come to me. this site has done wonders to my social life just by helping me with developing a new outlook on life but i still have much more learning to do and i suppose the learning never really ends.
I'd hate to go against the grain but it sounds to me like she wasn't really trying to isolate as much as use the blowdryer to dry her shirt of the beer.
She definitely had IL, but I don't know if it was enough where as she was trying to get you alone so you could mess around..
She definitely had IL, but I don't know if it was enough where as she was trying to get you alone so you could mess around..
drixsa
Master Don Juan
haha everyone sees these situations as possible letters to penthouseOriginally posted by Eventide
I'd hate to go against the grain but it sounds to me like she wasn't really trying to isolate as much as use the blowdryer to dry her shirt of the beer.
She definitely had IL, but I don't know if it was enough where as she was trying to get you alone so you could mess around..