Getting the girl to stay over

[Jababa]

There are numerious times where after a girl stays late at my apartment, she ends up leaving for the night, and I have no idea how to transition between her being over to her staying over for the night. Have aany advice/suggestions bout how I can get a girl to stay for the night at my place without sounding needy or desperate or anti-challenge?

 

[josekortez]

I've been trying to figure this one out myself. It's a pain paying all this rent at my place and then not getting some shine up in there.

With the few that have come over, we end up watching a DVD and then they get too comfortable. I think they have too much time to think about it.

I need to post a placard over the door that says, "No Shine, No Quality Time!"

 

[undesputable]

why do you want her to stay over? to **** her right? if everything is going good you got to grab your balls and make a bold move, move in for a kiss and everything should roll from there. unless shes a ***** shes not going to throw yourself at you or ask you "hey can i spend the night "

 

[themanwithnoname]

how about asking?

 

[coolguy676767]

Sex is the transition, she will know what you want if you ask her to spend the night, they are not that ignorant/stupid, so you have to grab your balls, and just start making moves that are of the DJ nature.

 

[DJohnson]

There are two good ways to make sure she stays over, better if done at the same time.

1. Build conmfort
2. Make her horny

You can build comfort with rapport and humor.

As far as making her horny, mild c+F can work, as well as kino while on the couch, progress this upwards.

You may ask, how to progress into kino and such. Well I rarely invite women into my apartment unless they know intuitively that I am sexually interested. If she comes in my apartment, kissing and kino are NO problem, because the sub text of our interaction is such that this is a requirement for hanging out with me in my apartment. If it backfires, oh well, I screwed up, you might want to leave, and I forget about this girl until she calls me back. In the meantime I am gaming other girls.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Originally posted by josekortez
I've been trying to figure this one out myself. It's a pain paying all this rent at my place and then not getting some shine up in there.

With the few that have come over, we end up watching a DVD and then they get too comfortable. I think they have too much time to think about it.

I need to post a placard over the door that says, "No Shine, No Quality Time!"

They've got to have a reason to stay over. No offence but sounds as uf they are bored and end up leaving. Make it interesting enough for them to want to stay.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Originally posted by GodsGiftToWomen
The transition is called sex.

If you guys have sex she will likely spend the night. It's that easy.

That's something that's interesting enought to make them want to stay. It works for me!