Getting some is overrated - But here's how we can use it to our advantage...

[RedZone122]

Last night I was at a party, it was getting pretty rowdy, and I ended up going back to this girls house w/ one of her friends. No parents were there, her friend fell asleep, and we ended up fooling around all night. I haven't gotten any in almost 2 months after my fool around friend and I stopped talking to each other, so I was PSYCHED - I couldn't wait to get some. After it was all over, and I sobered up, I realized.... it wasn't.... good. By 'not good' I don't mean the actual sexual stuff, I mean it just wasn't that great. I had been partying and having more fun all night, and the golden trophy at the end of the road was a BJ that was HIGHLY overrated. Maybe I just hadn't noticed it before because I was so set on actually LANDING chicks that I didn't stop to lookback on what it was all for.

Now, don't get me wrong. This isn't a post to say "chicks are overrated, don't talk to them, turn gay, hold hands". By all means, keep picking up chicks. All I'm saying is that I do not hold hooking up w/ chicks NEARLY as high in prestige as I used to, and I think its because of this site

This happened last night around 4am, it's 10:30 am right now and I'm already hearing rumors about it - gotta love high school. I now plan on using this to my advantage, let all the girls hear about it, it'll get them all pissed off cause a lot of them don't like this girl, and hopefully it'll end up getting me more action, and obtaining it much more easily.

But, now you're probably wondering "wait, I thought you said hooking up was overrated..." it is. It really, really is. But the way it seems to be working out for me now is extremely akward, like most things involving women are. ---- The more I want it, the harder it is to get, the less I care, the easier it is to come by. ---

So which do I want?

Any thoughts?

 

[JSH]

id agree, i came so close to compromising my standards for a blow job and being a virgin came within an ace of ****in some *****.

 

[RedZone122]

anyone else? How are there 75 views and only ONE response.... THAT right there gentlemen is the reason this board is falling apart...

 

[So Many Ways]

Been there...

I've had that situation twice since I stumbled accross the online seduction network (askmen/sosuave/dyd) and have had women blatantly tell me they wanted to f*ck me maybe 3 or 4 other times. It was weird, before when I was clueless and didn't know what I was doing, I though it would be a big deal if I could get some but as I started improving my game and learning about myself in the process, I realized that wasn't what I really wanted.

I'll tell you my story of a similar situation that happened to me last November. I met this broad, she was a friend of a friend and we went to a little get together at her house. I was introduced to her, even though she was a cutie, I didn't think much of it and my friend and I left their house. We made plans to meet up at my house. Anyway, the two girls come back to my house with my roommate there and I thought to myself, maybe I'll try the stuff I learned from Tyler's interview in the David Deangelo interview series.

Immediately I started busting on both them, heavy on ****y+funny, almost over the top. I focused in especially on the little cutie (the other girl, my friend, was overweight, I wasn't focused on her), busting on her about everything she did. We then took off to the club and all the sudden the conversation turned very graphic and she let me play with her kitty kat. Keep in mind I had just met this girl today. Nothing like this had ever happened to me before.

We didn't even get to the club, we go back home, stop by 7/11 to pick up more beer and condoms and go back to my house. Basically, she wanted to f*ck me. I was in the room, started doing the thing, making out and stuff, then I realized, I just didn't want to go there. All the sudden getting laid didn't really matter. I just met her, I felt nothing for her, I was completely indifferent and I just wasn't really into it. Anyway nothing happened, she ran out the house seemingly upset and that was that.

I think what is happening here is that maybe getting some isn't really a big deal anymore, now that you realize that it is possible, not only that, but that women want it as badly as we do. For me anyway, and maybe in your case, I think the issue is that I feel like when I spend time with a woman, I'm offering her a gift and when I get physical with a woman, I'm offering her a bigger gift and if I let just any horny slut get a piece of me, I feel cheaper as a result. I know I view myself with higher value and if you're following the material on here, you are as well and that's why you feel funny about what happened. There's nothing wrong with that and I think it's a natural progression and part of the maturation process.

 

[Resident DJ]

I don't see how getting a hummer is somehow proof that this sight is failing you somehow. I wouldn't mind having a site to my credit that was responsible for unexpected head

As long as she wasn't a gremlin I'd chalk it up as a success...why so much thought? You hooked up mang.


-Resident DJ