Read through all this, lock yourself in a room and design your own ****. If you're trying to cut I'd suggest lots of super sets and exercises that require you to be standing up when done e.g. front squats, barbell rows, standing dumbbell shoulder press, standing ab exercises (cable wood chops)
http://www.tmuscle.com/readArticle.do?id=1701042
http://www.tmuscle.com/free_online_.../how_to_design_a_damn_good_program_part_2&cr=
I would at first suggest an upper/lower body split. Something like joe defrancos is what I have in mind
http://www.defrancostraining.com/articles.html
Read through it and when it says 3-5 rep max it means you ramp/warm up to a weight you struggle real good to move on that last third or fifth rep/hitting failure but while still maintaining decent form.
If you have any questions let me know...As for crossfit, yeah it does wonderful things, for women that is. ha =) Crossfit training is all over the place IMHO, tries too hard to be good at everything.
Do fasted morning cardio also after ingesting a light shake/small meal or BCAA's...every morning 1/2 hour to 45 minutes. Than do your training later.
Keep protein high, don't eat sugars, **** carbs. Take in adequate amounts of good fats. Take/drink your green tea, fish oil. Drink lots of water. Eat lots of filling fibrous food like veggies+ high protein combo meals. nothing more to it than that. As you go you can adjust how low or high you go on calories.
What works real great with some is going higher carb on days they train with weights and going low/medium amount of carbs on days off. It's also known as "carb cycling" and I'm a firm believe in this method as Shelby Sternes has used it with great success with your average joe to fitness/figure model and bodybuilding competitors.