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Getting Ripped: Please answer this dumb question

DJArlington

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DJs:

Would getting ripped help a man out in getting chicks? I know this is a stupid question but I'm thinking that women have to be as superficial as men are, don't you think? I mean having a good body has to help in attracting women.

I know confidence is essential, but having all the DJ qualities and a great bod must be the way to get the most women.
 

The Bad Ass Canadian

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I know confidence is essential, but having all the DJ qualities and a great bod must be the way to get the most women.
I'm gonna assume you're pretty young, by the way you posted.

You need to realize that confidence is #1........but......

If you train hard, you will naturally gain confidence. That's why many good looking guys are confident.

Train and look better. Confidence sets in, and the natural DJ mindset is what comes out.

Don't worry, though. There are many Handsome guys who are total AFCs. They get by on their looks, and when things go wrong(AFC behaviour) they're left wide-eyed and stupified....They can't figure out why the chick walked away.

Let your physical appearance be an asset, not your only weapon.

The Bad Ass Canadian
 

Starman

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I usually weight train in the summers..and I notice chicks are way more into me when Im built..so Yes getting ripped is good..getting too bulgy isnt
 

Ares

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umm....Yeah

but as mentioned in the bible, there is the attitude and how you feel about your self that is the essential, clothes, cash, a good bod thats just to simplyfie things......I seriuosly think that a man in sh***hy condition, apaeling apperance and no clothes could still have some game.........I mean after all there are blind chicks right :)
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by The Bad Ass Canadian
I'm gonna assume you're pretty young, by the way you posted.

You need to realize that confidence is #1........but......

If you train hard, you will naturally gain confidence. That's why many good looking guys are confident.

Train and look better. Confidence sets in, and the natural DJ mindset is what comes out.

Let your physical appearance be an asset, not your only weapon.

The Bad Ass Canadian
Take this guys advice.
 
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