I know I got a one-itis towards a female friend of mine who is no longer interested in me, and I am late on the train.
I am trying to get rid of it by keeping myself busy with things that are important to me. We kind of have push\pull relationship that doesnt really workout as friends. We dont hang out, we only see each other through other friends and she rarely talks to me online unless I message her.
Even though I got rejected by her last week, few days later we went to a movie with some friends. She laughs at everything I say, stares at me and playfully hits me at times when I tease her. 3 weeks before we were clubbin and she asked me to dance, then started running her hands through my wavy hair. These would be signs of interest. But she will never message me, call me and just be indiffrent throughout the rest of the time that I do not see her.
one of her female friends took interest in me and I am going to take that to my advantage and ask her friend out. After I got rejected though and her friend got intersted, she called me when we were supposed to be at the same party, but i left the party before her for another one. She kept calling me and asking me how was the other party. So she was showing interest, curiousty in what I was doing when I wasnt near her. But then she'll be indiffrent again when I message her, or even act snotty like she dont care if we talk or not.
But I didnt let it bother me this whole week, ive been busy with my own life and didnt think of her at all which were good signs...until last night, when I had a dream about her...sorry, I cant control my dreams. It was a romantic dream, not sexual. I mean common, ROMANTIC? sh!t! WHAT IS HAPPENING TO ME?!
Because of this dream, I started thinking of her today. How do I get rid of these thoughts\emotions towards this flaky "friend" of mine?
ps: I think next time I see her, I'll just isolate her and plant one on her. She may scream for harrasmant or go "wtf are you doing?" But I just want to get it over with.
I am trying to get rid of it by keeping myself busy with things that are important to me. We kind of have push\pull relationship that doesnt really workout as friends. We dont hang out, we only see each other through other friends and she rarely talks to me online unless I message her.
Even though I got rejected by her last week, few days later we went to a movie with some friends. She laughs at everything I say, stares at me and playfully hits me at times when I tease her. 3 weeks before we were clubbin and she asked me to dance, then started running her hands through my wavy hair. These would be signs of interest. But she will never message me, call me and just be indiffrent throughout the rest of the time that I do not see her.
one of her female friends took interest in me and I am going to take that to my advantage and ask her friend out. After I got rejected though and her friend got intersted, she called me when we were supposed to be at the same party, but i left the party before her for another one. She kept calling me and asking me how was the other party. So she was showing interest, curiousty in what I was doing when I wasnt near her. But then she'll be indiffrent again when I message her, or even act snotty like she dont care if we talk or not.
But I didnt let it bother me this whole week, ive been busy with my own life and didnt think of her at all which were good signs...until last night, when I had a dream about her...sorry, I cant control my dreams. It was a romantic dream, not sexual. I mean common, ROMANTIC? sh!t! WHAT IS HAPPENING TO ME?!
Because of this dream, I started thinking of her today. How do I get rid of these thoughts\emotions towards this flaky "friend" of mine?
ps: I think next time I see her, I'll just isolate her and plant one on her. She may scream for harrasmant or go "wtf are you doing?" But I just want to get it over with.