confidence84
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I have talked to this girl for about 2 or 3 months and this is my story:
I have known this girl for a few years. I knew her because she dated someone I knew. Well she had broken up with her boyfriend about 4 or 5 months ago. She started talking to me often in the beginning. I messed up and entered the friend zone. She once asked me to go out to a club with her and one of her other friends, and ended up dancing with a guy all night right in front of me. So naturally I was pissed. So at the end of the night, she was arguing and fighting with her friend so I got out of the car to take a break from it and I turn around and she left. And the next day I hear the girl was left by herself too cuz she kicked her out. I ended up making her come back and pick me up, but I refused to talk to her.
I told her I never wanted to talk to her ever again. This got her really upset and all of her friends said she was literally crying to them because I wouldn't talk to her anymore. Well, after a couple of weeks I allowed her to contact me. I feel like this put me at the advantage. She would always call me, text me, asking if it was ok if she came out with me and my friends. She would visibly be mad if I was dancing with another girl. She asked me out for valentines day but it turned out she ended up having to work that day. She would often go out to dinner with a guy, then after the dinner was over she would call me up to come out.
The roles flipped once again and I was the one calling her and trying to get her to come out, hang out etc. I figured if I stopped talking to her for a few days it would put me on the advantage. She now texts me and calls me often. But, she said "I love you, you're such a good friend". I'm confused if I'm wasting my time, because she does throw some vibes to me like just staring at me and smiling when we are in a big group of people. And when I'm on the dance floor she always has her eye on me. Am I in the permanent friend zone or do I have a fighters chance?
I have known this girl for a few years. I knew her because she dated someone I knew. Well she had broken up with her boyfriend about 4 or 5 months ago. She started talking to me often in the beginning. I messed up and entered the friend zone. She once asked me to go out to a club with her and one of her other friends, and ended up dancing with a guy all night right in front of me. So naturally I was pissed. So at the end of the night, she was arguing and fighting with her friend so I got out of the car to take a break from it and I turn around and she left. And the next day I hear the girl was left by herself too cuz she kicked her out. I ended up making her come back and pick me up, but I refused to talk to her.
I told her I never wanted to talk to her ever again. This got her really upset and all of her friends said she was literally crying to them because I wouldn't talk to her anymore. Well, after a couple of weeks I allowed her to contact me. I feel like this put me at the advantage. She would always call me, text me, asking if it was ok if she came out with me and my friends. She would visibly be mad if I was dancing with another girl. She asked me out for valentines day but it turned out she ended up having to work that day. She would often go out to dinner with a guy, then after the dinner was over she would call me up to come out.
The roles flipped once again and I was the one calling her and trying to get her to come out, hang out etc. I figured if I stopped talking to her for a few days it would put me on the advantage. She now texts me and calls me often. But, she said "I love you, you're such a good friend". I'm confused if I'm wasting my time, because she does throw some vibes to me like just staring at me and smiling when we are in a big group of people. And when I'm on the dance floor she always has her eye on me. Am I in the permanent friend zone or do I have a fighters chance?