getting onmy nerves

[dointhingsright]

my girlfriend is getting pissed that im hanging out with other girls at night even when she is out with guys. how should i handle this with her because after last night when i chilled with a few girls she is giving me the cold shoulder.
heres a little convo(its like this everyday):

her (12:07:41 PM): do what u want bc i already feel like an inconvience to u

me (12:09:05 PM): if you were an inconvience to me we wouldnt be going out. it sounds like you are just looking for reasons to break up.

her (12:09:23 PM): NO IM NOT bc i dont want to

her(12:09:44 PM): n the whole reason imm getting upset is bc i feel other ppl are better n they will get u n then ill be like NOTHIGN

me (12:11:00 PM): you will never be nothing to me. we wouldnt be going out if i thought other people were going to get int he way of us.

her (12:11:38 PM): aight bc i know ppl are 10 million times better then me soo i just get worried n i DONT trust otehr girls bc most are SKANKS

and it just go on. its like this everyday. and the girls hott, i dont get why she is like this.

 

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ionno man

Originally posted by dointhingsright
me (12:09:05 PM):it sounds like you are just looking for reasons to break up.

thats what it sounds like to me if she gets pissed just by u having girl friends then is she worth ur time?

 

[dbot]

she's fkn insecure

 

[oakraiderz2]

Originally posted by dbot
she's fkn insecure

 

[Julian]

word

Man just get in a huge fight with her then passionatly fukk her and d1ck slap her while your at it!

 

[SnatchJP]

Originally posted by dointhingsright

...and it just go on. its like this everyday. and the girls hott, i dont get why she is like this.

Dude! She's jealous! Isn't that obvious??? I know its not logical since she hangs out with guys at night too, but lets face it, girls usually aren't logical.

You can use this to your advantage, and get her to try to 'compete' more with your other friends, or you can get her to stop being as jealous by giving her lil special attention. It sounds like you're far enough into the LTR to start doing something like that. I don't mean going AFC on her, but if you've been going out for a couple months, show her she's special (she sounds like she could use an ego boost...)

Correct me if I'm wrong but she sounds more like a giver than a taker. (The giver being the one that really appreciates a mix tape and some flowers while the taker is the one that complains when you only spen $3,000 on her b-day for her and not $4,000). One key thing I've learned from the guys here on this board is that you give to the givers and take from the takers. Figure out which she is and either give her some attention if she's a giver, or make her compete for your attention if she's a taker. Good luck!

 

[drixsa]

the girl is clearly insecure

stop talkin to her online like most of ya pussies and do it in person

theres no point in resolving an argument like that if there isnt going to be makeup sex right away

tell your g-f that its a real turn-off when she does that

tell her that she needs to trust you and respect your choices

if the probs get worse get rid of her