When I went to visit this girl that I'm interested in last week, I brought her mom a box of Godiva chocolates (for those of you who don't know, Godiva chocolates are ridiculously expensive). Anyways, the girl seemed impressed that I'd bring something for her mother. Didn't bring the girl anything, but I think I won more points bringing something for her mom. Have you guys ever done this?
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Getting on mom's good side
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InLawsHateMe
Master Don Juan
I can't express the power of getting the Mom's on your side, or getting on their Mom's good side.. telling you, the advantage is great. The key to this is, be yourself... don't try to look like your trying, you know what I mean? Here's a perfect example of what powers can come from Moms...
Over the weekend, my pregnant gf and I had some problems so I took up a buddy's suggestion and went out with him, and his gf... they took me to this bar for some dancing, and drinking... to make a long story short, my buddy's gf's Mom who is only 36 met us at the bar. I guess she was only 14 when she gave birth to my bud's gf... anyway, a few drinks here, an few jokes there, we all ended up on the dance floor.... he and his gf, me and her Mom... so we're slow dancing, and just kididng around, as my buddy and his gf looked on, I grabbed her Mom's ass, and buried my face in her breasts. This set up some laughs, and from that moment on, my buddy's gf was applying kino, sitting with me, buying me drinks, and just being really cool.
So if they like their Mom's... it's a good move to get Mom's on your side.
Over the weekend, my pregnant gf and I had some problems so I took up a buddy's suggestion and went out with him, and his gf... they took me to this bar for some dancing, and drinking... to make a long story short, my buddy's gf's Mom who is only 36 met us at the bar. I guess she was only 14 when she gave birth to my bud's gf... anyway, a few drinks here, an few jokes there, we all ended up on the dance floor.... he and his gf, me and her Mom... so we're slow dancing, and just kididng around, as my buddy and his gf looked on, I grabbed her Mom's ass, and buried my face in her breasts. This set up some laughs, and from that moment on, my buddy's gf was applying kino, sitting with me, buying me drinks, and just being really cool.
So if they like their Mom's... it's a good move to get Mom's on your side.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Here's another thing to notice about moms, if they get comfortable enough around you to tell you stories about your girl's childhood, you are SO in....
That and when mom asks you about when you plan to have children... That happened after I had mom over to the house and cooked dinner. Be careful guys, the power of DJ-ing is a damn powerful thing...
That and when mom asks you about when you plan to have children... That happened after I had mom over to the house and cooked dinner. Be careful guys, the power of DJ-ing is a damn powerful thing...
I've never given my girls mom anything, but I usually have a way with parents. I've had a few of my friends moms tell their daughters that I was good looking, and a few weekends ago, one of the moms had a conversation about me in front of the girl and her friends.
The thing I do is just talk to the parents. They're regular people. Don't be shy, don't kiss their ass, just be yourself and take a genuine interest in their lives. Ask them questions and let them talk, then occasionally throw in something interesting that they would never have known just by looking at you. Sit down at the table or on the couch and talk to them for 15 minutes or so. Compliment the moms on the house/garden and anything else she's into. If she likes to paint, ask her to show you some of her paintings and comment on them. If the dad builds cars, ask him to show you his collection.
Show the parents that you're respectful, polite, and responsible. Also, getting them to laugh is a HUGE bonus. I always crack jokes with the girls parents, and occasionaly do a light diss on the girl that we all laugh about, but nothing heavy, or else you just look like a jerk.
Cgraz
The thing I do is just talk to the parents. They're regular people. Don't be shy, don't kiss their ass, just be yourself and take a genuine interest in their lives. Ask them questions and let them talk, then occasionally throw in something interesting that they would never have known just by looking at you. Sit down at the table or on the couch and talk to them for 15 minutes or so. Compliment the moms on the house/garden and anything else she's into. If she likes to paint, ask her to show you some of her paintings and comment on them. If the dad builds cars, ask him to show you his collection.
Show the parents that you're respectful, polite, and responsible. Also, getting them to laugh is a HUGE bonus. I always crack jokes with the girls parents, and occasionaly do a light diss on the girl that we all laugh about, but nothing heavy, or else you just look like a jerk.
Cgraz
I'm glad some of you guys can relate. Last time I went to this girl's house, when I brought her mom the gift, the mom just happened to not be home when I went, but the girl's sister and father were both there. I struck up a good conversation with both of them. The father talked to me for a while, and told me stories about the daughters when they were younger, since I played the same sports as they did when they were younger.
What about getting on the father's good side? I assume that's got to be a good thing as well, since it's usually the father that's more protective, right?
What about getting on the father's good side? I assume that's got to be a good thing as well, since it's usually the father that's more protective, right?
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Get interested in his projects. Ask to take a look at the renovations he has done on the house, ask to see the carburetor he's rebuilding or how the refinishing he's completed in the basement.
Focus on things that he can brag about and don't forget to ask him a lot of questions. Fathers enjoy passing along their knowledge of creating of fixing things. Do this correctly and HE will seem to be as excited as his daughter when you visit.
InLawsHateMe
Master Don Juan
Bah! ...fathers are your enemies! ..j/k!
... they can be. Those are the guys you have to be careful about. For guys, it's sometimes tough to be buddy buddy... usually that takes a little bit of time. Best way to get on their good side is to whip their asses in golf. ... it says to them, you ask no quarter, and take no quarter. He may be King of his home, and father of your gf, but out here, you own him. Francisco, good point about getting interested in his hobbies. The father of this girl I'm interested in (this is the one with a BF) has the same outside hobbies and profession that I'm going to go into, so there is quite a bit to talk about. It's amazing that this was all coincidental too. Anyways, I'm definitely on his good side so far, no conflicts at all. Mother seems to like me as well. Actually, the whole family does. Now all I need is this girl to like me (or at least make it more obvious)Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
Get interested in his projects. Ask to take a look at the renovations he has done on the house, ask to see the carburetor he's rebuilding or how the refinishing he's completed in the basement.
Focus on things that he can brag about and don't forget to ask him a lot of questions. Fathers enjoy passing along their knowledge of creating of fixing things. Do this correctly and HE will seem to be as excited as his daughter when you visit.