Getting head from my girlfriend...is this a good plan?

[shark]

Well she told me today that she isn't prude b/c i kinda teased her about not being able to "handle" me. So, that got me thinking..i want some head! All we've done is really make out, and i felt her up a little.

I'm going away for a while this week, and have 2-3 nights with her left. Should i just say give me some going away head! Or ask her if she would. Or don't say anything at all?

Hmm..

 

[familyguyfan]

Saying something would probably be a bad move. The most you've done with her is felt her up!

Next time you guys are making out just start getting more intense and as she is getting more aroused move you hands down her body and then you can probably finger her. She'll be really horny after that so maybe she'll initiate the hj or bj, but if not just take her hand and gently slide it over your crotch and she'll get the picture. Don't be forceful in any of that though.

There's some more detailed posts on that stuff though. Do a search.

 

[undesputable]

what a *****.....im going to guess that everything started wrong and if she hasnt even given you head there is no hope.... leave and dont talk to the ***** again. girls like that arent worth it.

 

[NYC Dude]

undesputable, not every girl in the world is a slut you know. As for you shark, familyguyfan has the right idea. This is girl is obviously shy or nervous, its your job to make her comfortable with you, so you need to take it up a level and she should go along with it. Oh yeah, don't ask for it either, that shows you're insecure about it, instead just guide her hands down there and she should make a move.

 

[undesputable]

Originally posted by NYC Dude
undesputable, not every girl in the world is a slut you know. As for you shark, familyguyfan has the right idea. This is girl is obviously shy or nervous, its your job to make her comfortable with you, so you need to take it up a level and she should go along with it. Oh yeah, don't ask for it either, that shows you're insecure about it, instead just guide her hands down there and she should make a move.

i agree not every girl is a slut, but this is not just dating anymore, shes his gf now and have been together for a while. I bet he has put up with a lot of nagging and emotional bull**** from this girl, for what? to go home and jack off. besides i bet is not even about her being a prude, i think shes just playing with you....manipulating games. besides just getting head is not even in the same ball park as straight up having sex, no sex i could understand a girl holding back....but holding back giving you head? come on!!!

 

[Unregistered]

The thread's title made me laugh.

 

[familyguyfan]

Originally posted by undesputable
i agree not every girl is a slut, but this is not just dating anymore, shes his gf now and have been together for a while. I bet he has put up with a lot of nagging and emotional bull**** from this girl, for what? to go home and jack off. besides i bet is not even about her being a prude, i think shes just playing with you....manipulating games. besides just getting head is not even in the same ball park as straight up having sex, no sex i could understand a girl holding back....but holding back giving you head? come on!!!

You're dumb. He wrote 4 sentences and you automatically just assume she's playing him and "manipulating games."

And nowhere did he say they'd been together for a while. In fact, this is the same guy that has another thread saying they've only been going out for 2 and a half weeks and they haven't even gone out yet, though she's begged him to.

Don't listen to undesputable. And maybe if you took your girl out she'd be more willing to put out.

 

[undesputable]

Originally posted by familyguyfan


Don't listen to undesputable. And maybe if you took your girl out she'd be more willing to put out.

stuf.... thats excatly what i mean, youre saying if he took out his girl more shed be more willing to put out? what a pvssy. Thats excatly what a manipulating game is. look she agreed to be his gf, and in any case that hed be able to see her only ONCE a week thats her problem, she can either take it or break up...and that once a week she better be willing for him to wax that ass. you think that if you just take a girl out more and spend more money on her and take more of her emotional bull**** shes going to open her legs wide open for you when is just the other way around.

Anyways so tell all the details if you really want some advice. How long have yall been going out? what kinda **** do you two do? what does she look like? how does she act like?

 

[arcilitei34]

I got head from my gf for the first time today
I can tell you what worked for me though, we were making out, a good hour in, I started rubbing her pvssy through her pants and let her know that "you can put your hands anywhere you want". She then gave me a HJ while making out, after a good 15 minutes of it, I was sucking on her ear and whispered "I want you to go down on me", and then she gave me head. Although the head wasn't very good, it was still head.

 

[familyguyfan]

Originally posted by undesputable
stuf.... thats excatly what i mean, youre saying if he took out his girl more shed be more willing to put out? what a pvssy. Thats excatly what a manipulating game is. look she agreed to be his gf, and in any case that hed be able to see her only ONCE a week thats her problem, she can either take it or break up...and that once a week she better be willing for him to wax that ass. you think that if you just take a girl out more and spend more money on her and take more of her emotional bull**** shes going to open her legs wide open for you when is just the other way around.

Anyways so tell all the details if you really want some advice. How long have yall been going out? what kinda **** do you two do? what does she look like? how does she act like?

I already said they've only been going out 2 and a half weeks. Maybe that can help you understand where I'm coming from. If they had been going out 6 months or something, then yeah, your point would be valid. But this is a very new girlfriend for him. Read his other thread about it and you'll see what I'm talking about. I think it's titled "girlfriend (of 2 and a half weeks) wants to go out more" or something like that.