I am Brad, im 17 years old. I have only been working on my game for about 2 years. My personal expierence and this forum have helped me to create this thread. Enjoy
- Be smooth. Never say the wrong thing. If you think something sounds stupid, dont say it. Silence and a smirk and some eye contact with a girl does alot more than something stupid coming out of your mouth looking like any other guy. A girl can hookup with any guy she wants to. You have to be better than all of the others and if you make that one mistake, its hard to recover. Look around you. If you were a girl would you hookup with you or some of the other guys around you? The answer has to be you. You have to be the alpha male and all of the other guys have to be following in your footsteps.
- IMPLY. This works very very well for me. Sometimes I make sexual references to girls so much that they laugh or dont take me seriously. But even so, this will put you at an advantage over all the guys that dont make any implications that they even know what sex is. You have to show girls what you want, without really telling them that you want it. You leave them guessing, and never actually show that you want to get with them. You dont want to seem like that desperate guy who cant get any. You want to show her that you get with other girls and you want to show her that youve done it before and your gonna be the guy who knows what hes doing and is going to show you a good time.
- Alcohol gets you action. As bad as it sounds, its true. Dont force her to drink, but ask her if she wants to. Dont make the first move on a drunk girl, let her make it on you. Never let a girl drink to the point where she will just fall over onto you either. Show her that you arent a dirtbag and tell her if shes had too much and say no if shes had too much. Never get more drunk than she does. Be able to hold your liquor.
- Reverse Psychology. Unless you are lucky and a girl already has expressed interest in you, the key to getting with a girl is getting her to see that you are better looking, funnier, smarter, and a better catch than all of the other guys that she can hookup with. One thing that girls are attracted to is popularity and confidence. Dont be afraid to be a little mean to a girl, and show her that shes not that special and if she doesnt give you the time of day, that you dont care. If a girl shuts you down, you better be talking to another girl right away. If shes doin something weird or funny, dont be afraid to tell her or make fun of her for stuff, but while still being smooth and smiling. The right amount of confidence is attractive, too little or too much is repulsive. Write that down.
- Appearance. Dress well. Smell good. Shave. Shower. Make sure your hair looks good. You want to look good but not make it look like you are trying too hard to do it. Polo shirts are great, a nice pair of jeans is great. Make sure your breath doesnt smell. Dont have acne. The way you present yourself is going to be the first thing that a girl is attracted to. All this other stuff is second to appearance. Thats just the way it is. Hit the gym. Its not a quick process, if you are out of shape you need to get in shape. Get a tan. You dont need to be Brad Pitt, but you need to be confident in yourself and every part of your body because if you dont, you wont get any. It sucks but thats the way it is
- Eye Contact, smiling. Make it, do it. Just look at girls. Look into their eyes even if you dont know them and smile no... smirk. You want to say what you want to say without saying it. Never break eye contact before she does. As awkward as it feels to just be staring at her, do it. Its helping. Dont be afraid to go up to her and talk to her. Talk about her, listen. Bring these topics up in later conversations. Let the conversation flow for as long as it can before it stops being natural. You have to end the convo.
- YOU HAVE THE CONTROL. This is one of the biggest tips I think I have learned from this forum. This sounds strange, but look at girls like they are not as good as you, because they arent. You are a god among men, and if a girl doesnt want to have any part of you, who cares? Theres another one who does. When you are with a girl, you have to make the decisions and you have to lead the conversations and you have to initiate the hookups and you have to call her and you have to pay for things. Women are used to being led by the male. You have to lead her through a path of mystery, you have to make her want to keep finding out more about you, and you have to show her at the right times. Dont reveal too much about yourself, KEEP HER GUESSING
This is all I can think of off the top of my head. I will add more tips on a later date. If you disagree with anything I've said here please please please let me know, I love to talk about this kind of stuff.
- Be smooth. Never say the wrong thing. If you think something sounds stupid, dont say it. Silence and a smirk and some eye contact with a girl does alot more than something stupid coming out of your mouth looking like any other guy. A girl can hookup with any guy she wants to. You have to be better than all of the others and if you make that one mistake, its hard to recover. Look around you. If you were a girl would you hookup with you or some of the other guys around you? The answer has to be you. You have to be the alpha male and all of the other guys have to be following in your footsteps.
- IMPLY. This works very very well for me. Sometimes I make sexual references to girls so much that they laugh or dont take me seriously. But even so, this will put you at an advantage over all the guys that dont make any implications that they even know what sex is. You have to show girls what you want, without really telling them that you want it. You leave them guessing, and never actually show that you want to get with them. You dont want to seem like that desperate guy who cant get any. You want to show her that you get with other girls and you want to show her that youve done it before and your gonna be the guy who knows what hes doing and is going to show you a good time.
- Alcohol gets you action. As bad as it sounds, its true. Dont force her to drink, but ask her if she wants to. Dont make the first move on a drunk girl, let her make it on you. Never let a girl drink to the point where she will just fall over onto you either. Show her that you arent a dirtbag and tell her if shes had too much and say no if shes had too much. Never get more drunk than she does. Be able to hold your liquor.
- Reverse Psychology. Unless you are lucky and a girl already has expressed interest in you, the key to getting with a girl is getting her to see that you are better looking, funnier, smarter, and a better catch than all of the other guys that she can hookup with. One thing that girls are attracted to is popularity and confidence. Dont be afraid to be a little mean to a girl, and show her that shes not that special and if she doesnt give you the time of day, that you dont care. If a girl shuts you down, you better be talking to another girl right away. If shes doin something weird or funny, dont be afraid to tell her or make fun of her for stuff, but while still being smooth and smiling. The right amount of confidence is attractive, too little or too much is repulsive. Write that down.
- Appearance. Dress well. Smell good. Shave. Shower. Make sure your hair looks good. You want to look good but not make it look like you are trying too hard to do it. Polo shirts are great, a nice pair of jeans is great. Make sure your breath doesnt smell. Dont have acne. The way you present yourself is going to be the first thing that a girl is attracted to. All this other stuff is second to appearance. Thats just the way it is. Hit the gym. Its not a quick process, if you are out of shape you need to get in shape. Get a tan. You dont need to be Brad Pitt, but you need to be confident in yourself and every part of your body because if you dont, you wont get any. It sucks but thats the way it is
- Eye Contact, smiling. Make it, do it. Just look at girls. Look into their eyes even if you dont know them and smile no... smirk. You want to say what you want to say without saying it. Never break eye contact before she does. As awkward as it feels to just be staring at her, do it. Its helping. Dont be afraid to go up to her and talk to her. Talk about her, listen. Bring these topics up in later conversations. Let the conversation flow for as long as it can before it stops being natural. You have to end the convo.
- YOU HAVE THE CONTROL. This is one of the biggest tips I think I have learned from this forum. This sounds strange, but look at girls like they are not as good as you, because they arent. You are a god among men, and if a girl doesnt want to have any part of you, who cares? Theres another one who does. When you are with a girl, you have to make the decisions and you have to lead the conversations and you have to initiate the hookups and you have to call her and you have to pay for things. Women are used to being led by the male. You have to lead her through a path of mystery, you have to make her want to keep finding out more about you, and you have to show her at the right times. Dont reveal too much about yourself, KEEP HER GUESSING
This is all I can think of off the top of my head. I will add more tips on a later date. If you disagree with anything I've said here please please please let me know, I love to talk about this kind of stuff.
