Getting girls is becoming boring?

kindasuave

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I'm in college and my weekends evolve around hanging with my friends during the day/early night and then going after girls at night..

This is fun, and pretty easy to do in college, but it is kind of getting old that at least 2 nights of every week are dedicated solely to getting *****.

Its fun, I love sex, but sometimes I'm thinking that it's too monotonous doing the same thing over and over. And the other thing is that I feel like I do this a lot solely for validation, to show that I CAN get these girls, that i'm a man or whatever when in reality I could be doing other more productive things.

Maybe i'm just hungover right now so i'm being too pessimistic haha

Has anyone felt this way, and if so what do you I should do to get over this?

*EDIT* I'm not saying that I have too much sex, its still a big challenge to get girls into bed & its not like every time i go out i will be having sex with a girl. It's just the idea that getting a girl into bed is what I NEED to do on fri and sat is what's annoying. Girls are dictating how I judge myself and i don't like it.
 
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kindasuave said:
I'm in college and my weekends evolve around hanging with my friends during the day/early night and then going after girls at night..

This is fun, and pretty easy to do in college, but it is kind of getting old that at least 2 nights of every week are dedicated solely to getting *****.

Its fun, I love sex, but sometimes I'm thinking that it's too monotonous doing the same thing over and over. And the other thing is that I feel like I do this a lot solely for validation, to show that I CAN get these girls, that i'm a man or whatever when in reality I could be doing other more productive things.

Maybe i'm just hungover right now so i'm being too pessimistic haha

Has anyone felt this way, and if so what do you I should do to get over this?

Look at what I highlighted in Bold. Be thankful that you've realized THAT at such a young age. NOW, life begins my friend.

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