I really dont know how to start this thread off...well here goes..
First off i work this weekday job, and i can pretty come in whenever i want.
And it seems my mom's a loner and not as independent as i had thought. These past few months have revealed much about her.
Such as her getting emotional on me, when its not even my fault.
here are some examples of the point im trying to get at:
There was one time i had to bring her to the passport center to get it renewed. Then afterwards, she wanted to go eat, or perhaps go shopping. I said i wasnt hungry and had to meet up with my friend. Then she tells me to go. i can tell she was mad, as later she called me on the phone to ***** about it.
The other day, she picked up my sister early from school. i guess she was hungry and wanted to eat, my dad had went out and i was ready to go to work...well she called us both to come out and eat with her.
Yesterday she had asked me how to say the word "expired" (she's not too good at english). i pronounced it. Then she asked me hwo to spell it, i told her to ask my sister ...to give her a chance (she is in school after all). Then after awhile she got all pissed and emotional on me...*****ing about how hard it is to ask something of me. And at that time i had told my sister to write the word down on paper.
She was back to normal this morning, and wanted to get a refund on possible expired food she had bought yesterday. She doesnt know english, and it was near my workplace so i agreed. eventually, i found out the food wasnt expired...then she asked me how much the tums were (the price was labeled). Then i said "look i dont have a lot of free time, i gotta get to work." She said bye and i waved bye. of course when i said that, i was pissed at that point.
When this **** happens, i feel bad about making her feel bad.
Sometimes i wonder if she's causing me to react this way or is it vice versa. I mean, she's not nobody, she is my mom afterall...
any solutions?
First off i work this weekday job, and i can pretty come in whenever i want.
And it seems my mom's a loner and not as independent as i had thought. These past few months have revealed much about her.
Such as her getting emotional on me, when its not even my fault.
here are some examples of the point im trying to get at:
There was one time i had to bring her to the passport center to get it renewed. Then afterwards, she wanted to go eat, or perhaps go shopping. I said i wasnt hungry and had to meet up with my friend. Then she tells me to go. i can tell she was mad, as later she called me on the phone to ***** about it.
The other day, she picked up my sister early from school. i guess she was hungry and wanted to eat, my dad had went out and i was ready to go to work...well she called us both to come out and eat with her.
Yesterday she had asked me how to say the word "expired" (she's not too good at english). i pronounced it. Then she asked me hwo to spell it, i told her to ask my sister ...to give her a chance (she is in school after all). Then after awhile she got all pissed and emotional on me...*****ing about how hard it is to ask something of me. And at that time i had told my sister to write the word down on paper.
She was back to normal this morning, and wanted to get a refund on possible expired food she had bought yesterday. She doesnt know english, and it was near my workplace so i agreed. eventually, i found out the food wasnt expired...then she asked me how much the tums were (the price was labeled). Then i said "look i dont have a lot of free time, i gotta get to work." She said bye and i waved bye. of course when i said that, i was pissed at that point.
When this **** happens, i feel bad about making her feel bad.
Sometimes i wonder if she's causing me to react this way or is it vice versa. I mean, she's not nobody, she is my mom afterall...
any solutions?