Getting Ex to Leave My Friends Alone?

[foomee]

So I was gone a month for a class, and now I'm back at school. My ex was gone all last semester and she got back at the beginning of January and she has been hanging out with my roommates while I was gone. Now she wants to hang out with them more, and she is even interested in one of them. What should I do to get her to leave me and my friends alone? The thing is, she doesn't have many friends. When she transferred she started dating me two weeks into her first semester and my friends became her friends, so she pretty much only has them. But we broke up last June and haven't been talking much since. I want her out of my life. Any ideas?

 

[amoka]

It would be a childish to tell her not to hang around your friends anymore simply because you guys are not dating anymore. Let your friends decide if they want to hang around her. Unless you still have feelings for her, it should not trouble you at all. You've had your share of her. If she likes your friend and your friend likes her, allow them. If your friend asks you for what you think about her, simply tell him what you think. Nothing more. And ONLY if he asks. otherwise, don't say anythings. And don't have grudge towards them either.

 

[KontrollerX]

You should of told your friends ie roomates who she was sooner if they didn't already know and that if they wanted to continue being your friends she is off limits to them.

We all know this is a bullsh!t ploy by her to stick it to you anyway not some real attraction for your friends.

I mean with chicks its so easy to get a guy anywhere but she just had to choose from your friend pool?

Bullsh!t.

Give me a fvckin break.

Anyway another thing you could do is simply roll your eyes at her if she starts dating one of these guys and is seeming like she's trying to rub it in your face and get a reaction out of you.

Since you didn't tell your buddies up front what the score was with this chick it may be unfair at this point for you to tell them now so you'll probably be best served going the indifference route towards her.

And if you get a new girlfriend during this time it will be all the better to throw this chick's game off.