getting angry at girlfriend

[SoSuaveScorp]

Hey guys I Have a question for yall.
my girlfriend sometimes is too busy in her weekends to see me, this makes me angry because she schedules nights for her friends instead of me. Should I get mad at her? I feel like I should be strutting my testosterone
ideas?

 

[TheMale]

dont get mad just make her understand that youre not cool with that situation
get a 'date' if shes stll to busy and prefer to see her friends .. do bad FREEZ OUT and if she ask whay your to distant just say you are to busy and have a lot to think and do ...

 

[HappyHarryHardon]

she obviously doesn't like you as much as you want her to. people make time for their loved ones. maybe she would rather hang out with her friends more than you. if you don't feel satisfied, leave her man.

 

[Maximus Rex]

Hey guys I Have a question for yall.
my girlfriend sometimes is too busy in her weekends to see me, this makes me angry because she schedules nights for her friends instead of me. Should I get mad at her? I feel like I should be strutting my testosterone
ideas?

No, you should freeze her out and sarge other chicks. It sounds to me that she has "mentally," left your relationship.

 

[Igetit!]

Hey guys I Have a question for yall.
my girlfriend sometimes is too busy in her weekends to see me, this makes me angry because she schedules nights for her friends instead of me.

So she's "too busy" on the weekends. Hmm. Personally,I don't believe in the concept of "too busy".


Let me ask you this......you say she's too busy,right? Well in the beginning,when you two first started dating,how were her weekends then?



Was she still "too busy" back then,or did this "busi-ness" start to increase as the relationship went along? Also,did demand for her work or school schedules change from the time you two started dating til now?



Even though I'm asking,you know what? It really doesn't matter.


If someone is "too busy" to spend time with their "SIGNIFICANT"other,then you're not that "signicant" to her her after all.



A woman to being "too busy" to see/spend time with her boyfriend,the guy who's supposed to create chemistry/attraction in her is like a crack addict being "too busy" to go use crack.



I've NEVER HEARD of a drug addict being offered drugs,then them responding,"Come use today? Umm....well gee,I'd really like to,but with work and school,I'm really kinda busy today. Maybe later on this week?".



Doesn't work that way. UNFORTUNATELY,this is most likely a precursor to a breakup. Maximum Rex said,"It sounds to me that she has "mentally," left your relationship.",and I agree,but if a girl has MENTALLY LEFT the relationship,then EMOTIONALLY,she left first.




The thing that caused her to start dating you/get involved with you IN THE FIRST PLACE is either gone,or has dwindled down so low,that she can no longer "FEEL" it. And my guess is it's the attraction. So if she's mentally/emotionally checked out of the relationship,but "TECHINCALLY",you're still boyfriend and girlfriend,she's either....


1:Cheating
2:Going to cheat,or...
3:Getting ready to break up

Should I get mad at her? I feel like I should be strutting my testosterone?

Well go ahead brother. You want to "strut" your testosterone? Then strut on,it won't make a bit of difference.




If a car is out of gas,then you stomp,pout,curse,kick the car,have emotional outbursts,then after doing ALL THAT,you get back in the car,try to start it up and drive off,you think that everything you did will somehow "magically" put gas in the tank?




The bad news is everything I just said,but the GOOD NEWS is that this IS FIXABLE,it is REVERSABLE.



Have a look at THIS THREAD Don't worry,you don't have to read the whole thing,just skip down to reply #14.


It should help you understand what's going on and tell you how to fix it.

 

[SoSuaveScorp]

thanks for the reply Igetit that was awesome! Also I read the thread in your siggy and will be trying that out, sounds golden ^^ and instead of hanging out with her I went to a party with plenty of women fun ****