Getting a girl to "fall for you".

[LinkinParkROX]

My friends often tell me how their boyfriends & ex-boyfriends who they'll never forget about made them "fall for them" and how they could never get over them. How exactly does one make a girl fall for him?

 

[GlennCoCo]

What I did in HS to make my girlfriends "fall for me".

-Don't become jealous if she talks to other guys. I'd just turn it around and start talking with other girls. Bonus points if you can get the other girl to initiate flirting with you. Can we say jealousy?

-Be independent. Have friends and socialize with them as well as have a girlfriend. Show her that you have a life other than just being around her.

-Don't be afraid to walk away from her if she acts dumb.
Example:
Her:"Why didn't you kiss me goodbye yesterday?"
Me:"Because I was busy"
Her:*pouting*
Me:*walks away*
Her:*grabs me and kisses me*, then she'll be all hunky dorey.

-Be spontaneous. I don't mean wear a clown outfit to school. Just speak your mind and try to keep bodily functions and sex out of the conversation unless she initiates it.

-Be Sexual. I can't tell you how many guys I saw **** this up when I was in HS. Don't be a ***** who only kisses and hugs her.

If she's your girlfriend, SHE IS ATTRACTED TO YOU. Kiss her, Sneak up behind her and grab her hips, spank her ass, kiss her neck. Some girls like this in public and others don't, calibrate it with each girl.

 

[Maxtro]

I've wondered about this for a long time.

I really don't think that women fall for guys like guys fall for girls. A guy can fall for a girl (without even really knowing her) and be stuck on her for months possibly years. Girls definitely do not go through that.

That doesn't really happen for girls. Besides having a constant supply of options, women are fickle.

In essence you can't get a girl to fall for you. You have to constantly keep her interest level up so she doesn't get distracted by a shiny object.

I'm not saying that no girls get crushes on a guy it's just different from the way guys do it.

 

[Igetit!]

A guy can fall for a girl (without even really knowing her) and be stuck on her for months possibly years.

If a guy "falls" for a girl who he doesn't even know,then it's not really the girl he's falling for,it's his perception of her. It's his fantasy of who he thinks the girl is.

It's easy to fall foe fantasies because they're perfect.

A fantasy girl doesn't cheat,she doesn't flake,she sleeps with you whenever you want,doing whatever you want.

But real life women,actually live,breathing human women aren't so cooperative. They cheat,say one thing,then do another,etc.

I really wouldn't put too much focus on trying to make girls "fall" for you,especially in high school. And that talk about how your (girl) friends will never get over their boyfriends and ex-boyfriends...I wouldn't put too much stock in that.

A woman can be "in love" and all over you one day,and then be as cold to you as ice then next.

Just chill out and have fun in high school.

 

[Analyzeit]

Actually I think it's a good question and i like what the other guys said because really in high school one of the easiest ways to get regular sex is too have a girl fall for you, i mean honestly when they do you can get away with almost anything.

If you can get chicks to fall for you bad you've got the key