Gettin a gurl back

[drixsa]

aight theres this girl i do care about who has been out of my life for a while

i chose for the situation to be like that when i started to blow her off

we were good friends and after we fooled around i became immature and stopped calling her, returning her messages, and caring about her

now i havent talked to her in about 6 months

so i called her couple days ago b/c i decided that i want her in my life. im not sure if for just a friend or more.

so she picks up the phone completely unexspecting to hear from me ever again

so were talkin and i had to explain why i had blown her off for so long...

i basically told her that i had been actin immature and that i really did not have a sufficient reason for doing that to her.

i think she was in a bit of shock for a while but def. gave me the time of day and id have to guess that she is interested in becoming friends, etc. again.

her only concern is that she does not want me to "hurt" her again

which is understandable

so i told her to give me a call whenever she wanted , not puttin any pressure on her.

so basically my question is: how do i get her re-interested in me again?

she knows me quite well and i am not jus tryin to "dupe" her into foolin around with me

thanx,

DrIx

 

[jmm854]

Don't set yourself up to hit the bricks. There's really no hope for your situation.

 

[vinch]

start talking to her, be sweet with her, and send some flowers on her b-day or some holiday
it worked for a while with me the only prob is that im in a dif country ¬_¬

 

[drixsa]

c'mon thats the 2 saddest pieces of advice ive seen.

i know she still wants to atleast be friends with me

most of u chumps shouldnt be givin advice (see the 2 posts above)

and flowers? way too typical yet unfitting for my situation

seriously thought how do u get back in someones good graces after that long?

c'mon in lookin for some REAL DJ advise.

(not the never-bes)

-DrIx

 

[Ded_Skin_Mask13]

well D, Have you tried what has worked for you before?

Sometimes things **** up when you try a different strategy while ignoring the strategy you were using that has made you successful..

And you shouldn't be sorry for being immature, It's just the way you are! You can change that behavior, but you shouldn't apologize for it. Also, people tend to go all AFCish after they've gotten the girl, therefore the chick loses interest in you because you have become obvious and predictable.

That same bull**** happened to me this past year. I somehow got this HB7 attracted to me on accident. She always complimented me, and said nice things, and always took time to get my attention to say hi. I didn't think **** about it, until I was kicked out of my normal classes and put in remedial classes for a while(I was too smart for it) I sort of realized all the signals she was giving me, but I wan't taking the opportunity. So then, I sort of started getting infatuated with this girl and so the more and more I acted like an AFC(not supposed to be me) The more and more she lost interest. I got pissed off about this, and so I just lost interest in her once more. And I'm back to my normal self, and it seems like her interest level has risen again, because I'm not using these AFCish tactics to woo some chick.! The problem is..I don't Want her anymore!!! he he..But I might use this to my advantage. Anyways! What I'm trying to say out of this damn situation of mines is that, You've gotta get a hold of yourself at ALL TIMES!!! Don't change the way you are, just cuz you've got the chick. This is where most of us **** up. We forget about what got us this certain lady in the first place. And when we do get what we want, We don't know how to keep it properly. We lack to keep our unpredictability, and whatever else those chicks saw in us. Keep youself mysterious, unpredictable, confident, un-AFC ish like, and whatever other quality you have that would be a good tool in your DJing AT ALL TIMES!!!!!!!!!!

 

[Salacious D]

Make sure you tell us what happens, whatever that is.

 

[Ronny_Neumonic II]

Originally posted by vinch
start talking to her, be sweet with her, and send some flowers on her b-day or some holiday
it worked for a while with me the only prob is that im in a dif country ¬_¬

STOP WITH THE BULLSHÍT MAN...PLEASE



ok, why do you even want this girl anyway? It's just one girl. Go out there with this attitude, while maybe throwing the odd flirt her direction and she'll become interested...assuming you can pull it off. It's basically the old sunshine girl trick

 

[vinch]

hey dude..
i was sharing a experience that worked...
if she likes you a little bit she'll get the message -_0
and if u didn't like my advice that worked for me once, **** you gently =\

 

[UltimateScoundrel]

People hate awkwardness. It would be least awkward to pretend that nothing ever happened, and things have always been this way with you two, normal and happy. Lemme tell you this buddy, I think that she probably likes you. A lot. She's just not letting on. That's the truth.