He guys, look at these facts and shoot; what would you do in a situation like this?
• Girl lives on the same floor; we have lots of contact, first thing in morning, last in evening.
• We have an open relation; completely honest and open, we can tell anything to each other.
• She tells me I`m attractive guy physically and even laughs about me stupidest jokes.
Unintentionally, I fell in love so I told her I was in love with her, but I knew she really wasn’t prepared or interested. So…uhu…she really wants to stay friends, don`t wanna loose me. She always has friends telling they love her, and hates loosing them. (5th time in her live)
• So I tried to take some distance, but she couldn`t leave me alone. So we became even closer.
• I can take her on trips, both literal as figural speaking. She`s entertained and fascinated.
• She likes me for me; she told me that I`m really a wonderful guy,that I only deserve the very best
• We keep flirting, long eye contact, always smiling. (sometimes sexual remarks and fantasies)
• She tells me The most beautiful time are when 2 people want each other, but didn`t do anything yet.. Her last boyfriends always were in love first on her, and she would always fall in love later. She always got to know the guy first really well -couple of months-. So I asked what about me? She told me; We can stay friends and maybe ever it could happen, that would be even better, than we know for sure, but I don`t want to give you any hope!
Conclusion, I know I`m a catch, so I shouldn`t do so much for her as I do now. Yet I like the friendship and she`s hot. I now think that this friendship platform is actually better than a physically based relationship (usually it starts and ends like that). I know I would like to enjoy her for longer; platonic relations are fine, but they end. I know in a real relationship, I wouldn`t be a number, I would be number 1.
Problem, I can`t really escape here( I live here) and she told me that making her jealous would be a real turnoff. I know she wants something with somebody in the near future but I also know she doubts; she doesn`t really knows who she is looking for, but according her descriptions; the profile of me fits her dream man quite good. I am a roommate and a friend, but in what order?
Any suggestions are welcome!
• Girl lives on the same floor; we have lots of contact, first thing in morning, last in evening.
• We have an open relation; completely honest and open, we can tell anything to each other.
• She tells me I`m attractive guy physically and even laughs about me stupidest jokes.
Unintentionally, I fell in love so I told her I was in love with her, but I knew she really wasn’t prepared or interested. So…uhu…she really wants to stay friends, don`t wanna loose me. She always has friends telling they love her, and hates loosing them. (5th time in her live)
• So I tried to take some distance, but she couldn`t leave me alone. So we became even closer.
• I can take her on trips, both literal as figural speaking. She`s entertained and fascinated.
• She likes me for me; she told me that I`m really a wonderful guy,that I only deserve the very best
• We keep flirting, long eye contact, always smiling. (sometimes sexual remarks and fantasies)
• She tells me The most beautiful time are when 2 people want each other, but didn`t do anything yet.. Her last boyfriends always were in love first on her, and she would always fall in love later. She always got to know the guy first really well -couple of months-. So I asked what about me? She told me; We can stay friends and maybe ever it could happen, that would be even better, than we know for sure, but I don`t want to give you any hope!
Conclusion, I know I`m a catch, so I shouldn`t do so much for her as I do now. Yet I like the friendship and she`s hot. I now think that this friendship platform is actually better than a physically based relationship (usually it starts and ends like that). I know I would like to enjoy her for longer; platonic relations are fine, but they end. I know in a real relationship, I wouldn`t be a number, I would be number 1.
Problem, I can`t really escape here( I live here) and she told me that making her jealous would be a real turnoff. I know she wants something with somebody in the near future but I also know she doubts; she doesn`t really knows who she is looking for, but according her descriptions; the profile of me fits her dream man quite good. I am a roommate and a friend, but in what order?
Any suggestions are welcome!