How would you like to increase the number of times a woman says yes to you when you ask for her phone number, a date, going to bed with you, and even starting a serious relationship?
I bet you said yes...see I even got a yes out of you too.
But first lets get three things straight.
1. This is not so instant pay off strategy.
2. This takes a lot of practice.
3. You have to realize this is a numbers game, the more attempts you make the better your chances will be.
I'm going to teach you how to build instant rapport. Then I'm going to teach you how to get the yes's you want to hear.
INSTANT RAPPORT! You mean she is going to like me the minute I walk up to her you say?
No!
First you have to understand something about people and the general culture of society today. Since childhood people have been taught to say "No." Its the first thing that usually flies into someone's head when they are asked a question. Its not their fault they are just hardwired like that. Also society's culture doesn't help much either. People for the most part do not trust one and another, individualism has replaced the sense of being a community for a long time now. Fear not though, deep down human beings will always be social creatures.
So the first step into bringing out the social side of a person. Or in your case of interest a woman who is pleasing to the eyes. You must assume a level of familiarity. By that I mean going up and starting a friendly conversation with what appears to be an already exsisting comfort level.
But let's start with an example of what not to do.
Bad Move: Hi there I'm <your name,> whats your name?
The fact that you are reminding this person that you too are absolute strangers throws up a huge wall that you will not be able to knock down. Now here is a opening to disarm that wall from being thrown up.
<Assume you are outside and its a blue bird day>
You: This is awesome I'm so glad I got out of the house today.
Her: (If she is a normal, sane human being she will agree with you.)
You: I had planned to do some work/paperwork/household chores done today but you know how it is.
Her: (This will prompt her to toss in a tid bit of her own. What you say next should in some way relate to what she said. The key is to be short about it and pose a question that engages her to respond and become more invovled in the conversation.)
Example: Her: Yeah I'm sneaking away from my desk for a little bit to take this all in.
You: Yeah, congratulations on making it to the outside and escaping from?
Her: Oh I'm a teller at a bank/waitress/retail clerk/porn star whatever.
You: Yeah what's that like?(You should keep this question and prompt thing going and watch the rapport build up nicely.)
The worst thing you can do is start making statements about yourself or giving her little facts about yourself. Its time to face you dear reader with a hard truth. The only time someone is going to want you to go on and on about yourself is in a job interview. Even, then its about how you can help the job you are applying for and what you can do for the company.
So keep talking her up till it seems she has really warmed up, and then drop your name and get her's. Watch how this will seem like two old friends connecting. And watch how easy it will be to get that phone number.
Okay so here is the trick to get that date when your asking questions.
Ask her what she likes, then ask her what she likes to do. I'm fairly certain you can find something in her answer to prompt a question for hanging out.
Example: You: You enjoy catching movies in the evenings too.
Her: Yeah its the best time to go.
You: What kind of movie do you like.
Her: (Drama/action/comedy)
You
Drama/action/comedy) is the best kind of movie to see. Well I hear (movie) is a good (Drama/action/comedy) and I am defiantely going to go see it.
Her: Oh yeah that looked like a great movie.
You: Well how about I call you up when I plan on seeing it and you can come with me.
Her: Yes.
See what lead to the big yes was the fact that you got her saying yes to all these small questions, got her in the habit of saying yes and more importantly saying yes to you. This is the second lesson getting a big yes requires you to build up getting small yes's. It puts her in the habity of saying yes and not no to you. It makes her open to most things you have to say. Plus she is going to have a good opinion from all the prompt and question questions you asked her because you got ther to talk about her. Everyone likes to talk about themselves, and she will think you are this great conversationalist when all you did was ask questions. Oh and the benifit of having her say yes to a bunch of small meaningless questions is that now instead of "no" being her answer, she is hardwired to saying "yes" to you.
So what are you waiting for, go out and get all those yes's that are waiting for you. My blueprint should help be a template for how to approach and ask questions in different situations.
Next time I will teach you how to make a 30 second commerical about yourself when she prompts you for information on yourself.
-Grey Fox
I bet you said yes...see I even got a yes out of you too.
But first lets get three things straight.
1. This is not so instant pay off strategy.
2. This takes a lot of practice.
3. You have to realize this is a numbers game, the more attempts you make the better your chances will be.
I'm going to teach you how to build instant rapport. Then I'm going to teach you how to get the yes's you want to hear.
INSTANT RAPPORT! You mean she is going to like me the minute I walk up to her you say?
No!
First you have to understand something about people and the general culture of society today. Since childhood people have been taught to say "No." Its the first thing that usually flies into someone's head when they are asked a question. Its not their fault they are just hardwired like that. Also society's culture doesn't help much either. People for the most part do not trust one and another, individualism has replaced the sense of being a community for a long time now. Fear not though, deep down human beings will always be social creatures.
So the first step into bringing out the social side of a person. Or in your case of interest a woman who is pleasing to the eyes. You must assume a level of familiarity. By that I mean going up and starting a friendly conversation with what appears to be an already exsisting comfort level.
But let's start with an example of what not to do.
Bad Move: Hi there I'm <your name,> whats your name?
The fact that you are reminding this person that you too are absolute strangers throws up a huge wall that you will not be able to knock down. Now here is a opening to disarm that wall from being thrown up.
<Assume you are outside and its a blue bird day>
You: This is awesome I'm so glad I got out of the house today.
Her: (If she is a normal, sane human being she will agree with you.)
You: I had planned to do some work/paperwork/household chores done today but you know how it is.
Her: (This will prompt her to toss in a tid bit of her own. What you say next should in some way relate to what she said. The key is to be short about it and pose a question that engages her to respond and become more invovled in the conversation.)
Example: Her: Yeah I'm sneaking away from my desk for a little bit to take this all in.
You: Yeah, congratulations on making it to the outside and escaping from?
Her: Oh I'm a teller at a bank/waitress/retail clerk/porn star whatever.
You: Yeah what's that like?(You should keep this question and prompt thing going and watch the rapport build up nicely.)
The worst thing you can do is start making statements about yourself or giving her little facts about yourself. Its time to face you dear reader with a hard truth. The only time someone is going to want you to go on and on about yourself is in a job interview. Even, then its about how you can help the job you are applying for and what you can do for the company.
So keep talking her up till it seems she has really warmed up, and then drop your name and get her's. Watch how this will seem like two old friends connecting. And watch how easy it will be to get that phone number.
Okay so here is the trick to get that date when your asking questions.
Ask her what she likes, then ask her what she likes to do. I'm fairly certain you can find something in her answer to prompt a question for hanging out.
Example: You: You enjoy catching movies in the evenings too.
Her: Yeah its the best time to go.
You: What kind of movie do you like.
Her: (Drama/action/comedy)
You
Drama/action/comedy) is the best kind of movie to see. Well I hear (movie) is a good (Drama/action/comedy) and I am defiantely going to go see it.Her: Oh yeah that looked like a great movie.
You: Well how about I call you up when I plan on seeing it and you can come with me.
Her: Yes.
See what lead to the big yes was the fact that you got her saying yes to all these small questions, got her in the habit of saying yes and more importantly saying yes to you. This is the second lesson getting a big yes requires you to build up getting small yes's. It puts her in the habity of saying yes and not no to you. It makes her open to most things you have to say. Plus she is going to have a good opinion from all the prompt and question questions you asked her because you got ther to talk about her. Everyone likes to talk about themselves, and she will think you are this great conversationalist when all you did was ask questions. Oh and the benifit of having her say yes to a bunch of small meaningless questions is that now instead of "no" being her answer, she is hardwired to saying "yes" to you.
So what are you waiting for, go out and get all those yes's that are waiting for you. My blueprint should help be a template for how to approach and ask questions in different situations.
Next time I will teach you how to make a 30 second commerical about yourself when she prompts you for information on yourself.
-Grey Fox
