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DJinTraining61385

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Im not the best DJ, im not even a DJ yet, but im getting close. i know a few things, have tried a few things and i know what works and what doesnt work. if u want to get women to come to u, u need confidence, but everyone will tell you that. but dont just act confident, be confident. in order to be confident u have to prove that u can do something outrageous that will get you remembered, either for being a crazy/fun loving guy, or a complete idiot, but at least the ladies will remember you. here is a great example that i did myself.

i was at a frat/sorority mixer a few months ago, my friend was pledging the sorority, so she got to bring a few friends to the party. i thought what a great way to meet women then go to a sorority party where there are just girls and a few guys. SO we get to the party and all the sudden my confidence is down because i didnt know it was a mixer, so there were as many fraternity guys there as sorority sisters. my frist thought was how do i score with a sorority chick if im not in a frat? how can i compete with these suave guys? so i mingled with my friends for a little while. one of the frat brothers was trying to recruit me for their frat, or at least try to get me interested in greek life, so he challenged me to a funnel race, and needless to say he won. might be embarassing but you know what i said? f**k it. i said lets go again, this time im not gonna lose. and i didnt lose and all the sudden the girls were cheering for me instead of the frat boy. so now i am chatting with the girls a little because i showed confidence but it isnt enough, im still just another guy with a little guts. they knew this, i knew this so i decided i have to do something extreme, i have to go for the gusto. so i jump on top of the bar where the kegs are, feeling the alcohol in my stream, and feeling the beat of the music and start tearing my clothes off and stripping for the laides. and you know what? they LOVED it, these girls where all over me. they thought i was outrageous, they thought i was one of the funnest guys in the world. so then we preced to a different frat party and i walk in with not one, but a sorority girl in each arm. it was that easy, i put myself on the line, and BAM, i was instantly attractive to two diffrent girls. they loved my care free attitude and my spontaneous personality. now one of the girls i met introduces me to her friends just like this "This is TJ, he didnt know amy of us, but stripped for us at one of our parties!". BAM, im an instant hit to the ladies. they now know that i have enough confidence to get semi-naked in front of people i dont know. go my brothers and commit these random acts of spontaneuity or however u spell it and the women will come to you.
 

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Yeah, one more bogus post. It is "fraternity," not "frat." The old saying is " would you call your country a ****?" Either have the balls to pledge and deal with all that invloves or stay away from the whole subject (don't know what b!tch chapter of a b!tch fraternity that let you in to a mixer, but both of you need spanked. Try pulling that sh!t at PSU.)

EDIT: If KDR (Kappa Delta Rho) was involved in this disgrace, let me know. I will personally come to where you are and beat your ass down for showing up at a mixer (no offsnese meant... you sowed balls even showing up at the event. but you did not belong there, you didn't earn it).
 
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calm the fvck down.
 

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Good post

DJinTraining61385 is right!

I think his message is basically to be spontaneous, live in the moment and realize that (AFAWK) we only have one life and we must make every minute count!


Mikelo2k :cool:
 

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Originally posted by Phoebus
you did not belong there, you didn't earn it).
Why?
 

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Originally posted by Phoebus
Yeah, one more bogus post. It is "fraternity," not "frat." The old saying is " would you call your country a ****?" Either have the balls to pledge and deal with all that invloves or stay away from the whole subject (don't know what b!tch chapter of a b!tch fraternity that let you in to a mixer, but both of you need spanked. Try pulling that sh!t at PSU.)

EDIT: If KDR (Kappa Delta Rho) was involved in this disgrace, let me know. I will personally come to where you are and beat your ass down for showing up at a mixer (no offsnese meant... you sowed balls even showing up at the event. but you did not belong there, you didn't earn it).
Damn dude, what crawled up your ass and died? :rolleyes:

Give the kid a bit of credit, he was spontaneous and it worked. Good for him, we should all be more unpredictable. Losing your clothes is a great way, I know this from experience :D
 

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fraternity boys are just that boys

someone needs to grow up and realize that this dude scored and became a real man for having the courage to strip in front of a bunch of pre-pubescent fraternity losers who think chugging down alcohol which shrinks your brain will make them a man. Give the new kid a break and give him credit for a bold gesture. We need bold men not whiny fraternity boys.
 

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Originally posted by Phoebus
Yeah, one more bogus post. It is "fraternity," not "frat." The old saying is " would you call your country a ****?" Either have the balls to pledge and deal with all that invloves or stay away from the whole subject (don't know what b!tch chapter of a b!tch fraternity that let you in to a mixer, but both of you need spanked. Try pulling that sh!t at PSU.)

EDIT: If KDR (Kappa Delta Rho) was involved in this disgrace, let me know. I will personally come to where you are and beat your ass down for showing up at a mixer (no offsnese meant... you sowed balls even showing up at the event. but you did not belong there, you didn't earn it).

Frat Fags, sounds like a KDR guy, you know you can't spell "DORK" without KDR.....I laugh at your gay frat....And you're pissed off you pay some ungodly amount to have friends and get girls to bother with you. DJinT clowned your system...enjoy....
 

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Originally posted by Phoebus
Yeah, one more bogus post. It is "fraternity," not "frat." The old saying is " would you call your country a ****?" Either have the balls to pledge and deal with all that invloves or stay away from the whole subject (don't know what b!tch chapter of a b!tch fraternity that let you in to a mixer, but both of you need spanked. Try pulling that sh!t at PSU.)

EDIT: If KDR (Kappa Delta Rho) was involved in this disgrace, let me know. I will personally come to where you are and beat your ass down for showing up at a mixer (no offsnese meant... you sowed balls even showing up at the event. but you did not belong there, you didn't earn it).
Ok, *******, its people like you that give the greek system a bad name just by actin like an elitist fuc.k like u are right now. Just because he isnt interested in joining doesn't mean he can't go to the party. When are fuc.kers like u going to realize that just because someone is not part of ur organization that they are not automatically considered inferior and can not hang around with people in the organization. There is such thing as having friends outside of ur fraternity if u believe that or not. We invite our friends from other fraternities, dorms, off campus etc. It really doesn't matter. He went to the party and had fun. Greek life is not for everyone, so let people make their own decisions and drop the elitist attitude.
 
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