Get her drunk then get her naked

[the_count]

So me and this chick are going out for drinks later this week and the title of this thread explains my intention. Her IL is high and she knows what the deal is after some witty text game on my part (she even told me it was clever). Only problem is I've never went out for drinks with a chick so I need some advice from you experienced DJs. Is "drinks" the whole date or should we do something before or after (besides fu¢k)? We don't really HAVE to because I can probably pass it off as a catch up date but your opinions are very welcome.

 

[cordoncordon]

What you do is this. Almost a sure way to score. I'll give you a 95% chance if you follow this.

1. Have her come to your place first and then either walk or drive TOGETHER to the bar.

2. Go to a nice bar or restaurant with a good, fun atmosphere.

3. Start having drinks. Along with the drinks get an app or two. Not too much, you don't want to get too full. Full=tired=no sex. Suggest where she picks one app and you pick one and share them. That will give you a little bond. Do not get hammered. Just a nice fun buzz. I would suggest beer or fun drinks like marquitta's or specialty drinks that the place makes. Those are always good. Do not drink the heavy stuff.

4. At some point, at your leisure, suggest that you go back to your place for either another drink, a movie, or "xxxxxx" that you want to show her.

5. When back at your place, don't wait around. That gets both of you thinking too much and too nervous. Get her a drink. Sit close on the couch. Lean in for a kiss. Start making out. Take her to your bedroom.

6. Sweet love down by the fire.

Good luck and let us know how it turns out!

 

[ARrocket]

This is good concordon, the only downfall I see is that this could get a little $$ if you know what I mean.

Has it been awhile since you've seen this girl (hence the catch-up thing)? How old are the two of you?

Personally, I like to pick a bar that is logistically-favorable if possible. That is, you could bounce to your place (or another venue you like, or her place, or whatever) easily if you want to. Personally, I like bars with pool tables, because playing pool with girls is always fun (plus less pressure for intense conversation).

There are clearly posters on this board who are pros at getting these girls back home, but I would say don't set your expectations too high. Focus on escalation, have a couple of drinks, and move on. By move on, I mean either get her back someplace you can further escalate, or end the date (and go for that kiss if possible, of course, so you are all set to invite her over for the next date)

 

[cordoncordon]

This is good concordon, the only downfall I see is that this could get a little $$ if you know what I mean.

Has it been awhile since you've seen this girl (hence the catch-up thing)? How old are the two of you?

Personally, I like to pick a bar that is logistically-favorable if possible. That is, you could bounce to your place (or another venue you like, or her place, or whatever) easily if you want to. Personally, I like bars with pool tables, because playing pool with girls is always fun (plus less pressure for intense conversation).

There are clearly posters on this board who are pros at getting these girls back home, but I would say don't set your expectations too high. Focus on escalation, have a couple of drinks, and move on. By move on, I mean either get her back someplace you can further escalate, or end the date (and go for that kiss if possible, of course, so you are all set to invite her over for the next date)

Shouldn't be more than $50. Pay the tab and let her get the tip. Bammm.

 

[ARrocket]

Shouldn't be more than $50. Pay the tab and let her get the tip. Bammm.

lolololol

You, sir, are out of touch with the monetary struggles of my demographic. I'm a student and I'm pretty sure I have $40 to live off of for the next two weeks

Hopefully OP is better off!

 

[the_count]

First off thanks for the advice bros. cordonordon, I'll be following that advice in a few months. However there's a slight problem: my place isn't an option; but logistically, her place is. Ideally after some well timed kino I'll be walking her home and when I kiss her good bye is when I'll make my move. Btw I'm 22 and she's 21.

 

[Naughty Ninja]

What you do is this. Almost a sure way to score. I'll give you a 95% chance if you follow this.

1. Have her come to your place first and then either walk or drive TOGETHER to the bar.

2. Go to a nice bar or restaurant with a good, fun atmosphere.

3. Start having drinks. Along with the drinks get an app or two. Not too much, you don't want to get too full. Full=tired=no sex. Suggest where she picks one app and you pick one and share them. That will give you a little bond. Do not get hammered. Just a nice fun buzz. I would suggest beer or fun drinks like marquitta's or specialty drinks that the place makes. Those are always good. Do not drink the heavy stuff.

4. At some point, at your leisure, suggest that you go back to your place for either another drink, a movie, or "xxxxxx" that you want to show her.

5. When back at your place, don't wait around. That gets both of you thinking too much and too nervous. Get her a drink. Sit close on the couch. Lean in for a kiss. Start making out. Take her to your bedroom.

6. Sweet love down by the fire.

Good luck and let us know how it turns out!

The above and also make sure you dress your casual best. If you can get your haircut and wear a little of the most popular cologne. Put a light dab above your upper lip too so if you get a makeout or kiss in the bar she'll smell it as well as a light amount below your naval so if she winds up going down on you later she'll still smell the scent lightly. ( If you don't have any and you have time go into the nearest dept store the day before and ask the chicks who work there what the best newest cologne they like is and if they have a sample they could give you. They usually have little viles of colognes companies give for free to give to customers.)

Try to chase some of your drinks with ice water. Especially at the end of the time at the place to get rid of most of the alcohol smell on your breath.

Carry gum too. (When you leave you can take a piece first so she doesn't get self-concious) and then offer some to her. She'll get the hint that a makeout is up next and possibly more.) It's always worked for me. Chicks read that gum signal.

If you get the or "another" makeout while leaving, kiss her gently and teasingly, use your hand on her back lightly but firmly holding her close and moving it up and down her back open palm. Chicks love that feeling. With your other hand you can GENTLY put your fingers in the hair by the nape of her neck and "control" her by holding her that way too as well turning her on even more while you teasingly kiss her and tell her she should come to your place for a "minute or two".

Then take her back to your place for a quick nightcap/ more "talking" while offering/giving her a good relaxing massage, cuddling watching a movie, foreplay etc.

The Count: However there's a slight problem: my place isn't an option; but logistically, her place is. Ideally after some well timed kino I'll be walking her home and when I kiss her good bye is when I'll make my move. Btw I'm 22 and she's 21.

The only problem is if she lives with her parents/room mates or other people and they're there.

If not. Don't act like you're kissing her "good night" act non-chalantly and staying internally confident without overdoing it outwardly like a buffoon. You have to act as if you were just going to go in her place to "check it out". Like you didn't think she would say "No".

 

[BMX]

What you do is this. Almost a sure way to score. I'll give you a 95% chance if you follow this.

1. Have her come to your place first and then either walk or drive TOGETHER to the bar.

2. Go to a nice bar or restaurant with a good, fun atmosphere.

3. Start having drinks. Along with the drinks get an app or two. Not too much, you don't want to get too full. Full=tired=no sex. Suggest where she picks one app and you pick one and share them. That will give you a little bond. Do not get hammered. Just a nice fun buzz. I would suggest beer or fun drinks like marquitta's or specialty drinks that the place makes. Those are always good. Do not drink the heavy stuff.

4. At some point, at your leisure, suggest that you go back to your place for either another drink, a movie, or "xxxxxx" that you want to show her.

5. When back at your place, don't wait around. That gets both of you thinking too much and too nervous. Get her a drink. Sit close on the couch. Lean in for a kiss. Start making out. Take her to your bedroom.

6. Sweet love down by the fire.

Good luck and let us know how it turns out!

Couldn't have said it any better. I took a cute grad student from an SEC school out like that. She met me at my place. We drove in my car to an annual Greek Festival that I somehow managed to get two free tickets to. The atmosphere was busy, fun, interesting and we got to eat a little. She asked me what I wanted to do next and I said I wanted to go get a drink or two.

In a big city, this is the part where you want to select a bar that you've been to and can easily be your go-to bar in a situation like this. This joint was called Icehouse. It's a bar I'd been to a few times before to watch some college football. I noticed this was a bar that wasn't ideal for picking up women but rather bringing a woman to or chilling with a group of buds. We show up and she keeps pounding down "vodka waters" lol and I was taking it easy on the beer. :crazy: She asked me what I wanted to do next and I told her I'm going HOME.

I get home and she notices my fully-stocked wine bar and says to pour me and her a bottle of my choosing since she had no clue about wines. At this point the TV is on and she's sitting cross-legged on my couch facing ME and not the screen. From there it was to my bedroom. Easy.

 

[cordoncordon]

Couldn't have said it any better. I took a cute grad student from an SEC school out like that. She met me at my place. We drove in my car to an annual Greek Festival that I somehow managed to get two free tickets to. The atmosphere was busy, fun, interesting and we got to eat a little. She asked me what I wanted to do next and I said I wanted to go get a drink or two.

In a big city, this is the part where you want to select a bar that you've been to and can easily be your go-to bar in a situation like this. This joint was called Icehouse. It's a bar I'd been to a few times before to watch some college football. I noticed this was a bar that wasn't ideal for picking up women but rather bringing a woman to or chilling with a group of buds. We show up and she keeps pounding down "vodka waters" lol and I was taking it easy on the beer. :crazy: She asked me what I wanted to do next and I told her I'm going HOME.

I get home and she notices my fully-stocked wine bar and says to pour me and her a bottle of my choosing since she had no clue about wines. At this point the TV is on and she's sitting cross-legged on my couch facing ME and not the screen. From there it was to my bedroom. Easy.

Good job.

And yep, this step by step process is pretty much foolproof for scoring with a girl if she even has the remotest of interest in sexing. People like to have change in their lives. They like to have fun. They like to feel excitement from their hum drum lifestyle. This little step by step gives that to them, even for just a night. And really, starting out that is all you should be interested in.

And OP, since you can't go back to your place, for sure meet her at HER place and either drive or walk from there. Same process otherwise.

Ninja great tips as always.