get gf jealous?

[tony-montana]

would it benefit me to check in using facebook places on my iphone when i'm out tomorrow with a friend (girl). so it would show i'm out with her at so and so? doesn't that kind of help a relationship and the girl i'm with? i heard it's good to get your girlfriend a little jealous every now and then just so they know you have other girls in your pocket. keeps them on the edge? nothing is wrong with us, it's perfect.. just wondering if i should bother with this or is it immature and stupid?

 

[SamTheHobit]

No an alpha male doesn't have to try and make a girl jealous. And if you're secure with yourself then you should know this.

 

[PDubb75]

just wondering if i should bother with this or is it immature and stupid?

I'm gonna go with that one. That isn't something that would get her jealous. That is something that would get her to think you are cheating on her, causing you to break up or fight like crazy.

I think the best way to get a girlfriend jealous, "safely", is if you guys are out somewhere and it's obvious that a girl talking to you likes you. But even then, if you don't respond right, she's gonna flip out.

In my opinion, not only are FB check-ins ridiculous, but doing it simply to make your girlfriend jealous is just gonna cause problems.

 

[bigneil]

If a girl has high interest she will naturally be protective. If you have other options, your girl will naturally observe that. Never try to directly make a woman jealous - it will backfire and you will lose that game, because a woman can pick up any guy she meets pretty much.