This comes right down to what I wrote about being a challenge in your other thread.
Originally posted by hb
yooooo guys i let this girl know that i liked her and wanted to get with her before, she rejected me.
I'm guessing you told her that you liked her. What happened was that you took away all the challenge immediately. She knows she can have you whenever she wants. She thinks it's boring.
The way you let a woman know you like her is acutally by telling her in ********. You give her hints. You use subtle kino, you ask for her phone number, you call her up, and ask if she'd like to join you when you go out to (insert location & time). That's how you let a woman know that you like her. This is exactly how women do it to men.
So i played her off, i made her know that i aint feelin her nomore and now shes trying to get with me.
Now you're being a challenge. You've let her know that you're not all that attracted to her. Now she wants to convince you that she is attractive.
You're going from one extreme to the other. You have to find the middle ground where you have her attracted to you, but she has to keep guessing where she stands with you.
I think the question is, do you want to date her, or not? Give some details on how she's trying to get with you, and we'll let you know how to handle it.
