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Gameplan to become a man

Dman101

Don Juan
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Can you guys help me develop a gameplan for self improvement. I'm a 23 year old 6'4 skinny, pretty good looking guy, just graduated from college, got a pretty good job and still living at home. I have about 2-3 good friends from college that I hang out with sometime, but other than that I'm pretty much solitaire. I've probably met over 100 women from online in person. This is pretty much the only way I've met women. I've gotten head from about 15-20 of them, had sex with 5, and I've had one relationship which lasted about a year but then she dumped me and later found out that shes a hore. I now am pretty down on women, and think that most are just sluts just like LAST MAN STANDING always says. THis is such a revelation since I always was looking for an angel who doesnt have a bad sexual past. Basically, I''m realizing that deep down I"m insecure, anxious, and worried about how i compare to other guys. I dont really have much sexual experience and dont really know what I'm doing in bed. Approaching women scares the **** out of me and I'd freeze when I've tried. I have a girl that I think is beautiful and on the surface has potential, but my insecurity and the fact that I'm really holding back is messing that up. . I think i need to have sex with her, but I really like her and i dont know what im doing.

Can you guys provide me with some direction as to what I need to be doing with my life. I plan on working out trying to gain 20 pounds, trying to spin more plates, learning how to have sex so that i can keep women around. I just really need some direction as to how to get these things done and what else I need to be doing at this stage of life.
 

grinder

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I’m certain others will go into some detail so I will stick to the simplest and most obvious thing to do:

Move out. Get your own place.
 

Bible_Belt

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Move out, work out, improve yourself, and keep approaching and dating women. Try to have fun for yourself first and foremost with a girl, rather than the typical 'show her a good time' frame. If you are confident and fun, then the pvssy comes, and you will get more confident and more successful as you gain more experience.
 
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