I was having a discussion with an Indian friend a few weeks back about how much of a struggle it is for him to get women. While I'm not going to address his issue directly, what he said led me to think about why so many minority pick-up artists, and so called players, are struggling with women. And while I'm not active in the whole seduction community and don't hang out with any of those guys, I do keep up on various blogs, forums, and Facebook status updates from various minorities who talk about their success, or rather, there lack thereof, with women.
These minority players continuously fail, happily continuing to struggle with women, because maybe it was their "frame", "negs", "state", or whatever trendy magic pill seduction gurus are feeding them. I understand keeping a positive mindset, but at some point, you have to accept that maybe the girls you're going after don't like you because you're a minority. And even if they do, maybe there is social pressure for them not to date or sleep with a minority, at least not publicly.
Now some of you are thinking "better to be the token minority than be a minority among many". I'm going to tell you why you're wrong: game and attractiveness are somewhat under your control, your race isn't. Think about what I'm about to say for a moment. If you want white girls, you typically go to an almost all white club, correct? The same goes for a girl that either prefers minorities, or has a lot of friends that prefer minorities (or doesn't discriminate, but has a strong attraction to minorities). If you look at girls with minority boyfriends, almost all of them have a history of dating minorities, which means that they're probably hanging out where a large number of minorities hang out at (usually nightclubs that have about a 30%-50% minority population).
On to my second example. Let's say that you go to a nightclub where you are the token minority guy. You already know that the vast majority of the women will put up a wall because you're not the right socially acceptable race to date or sleep with. And I'm willing to bet that you're betting on pulling one of the very few girls that are open to dating non-white guys or prefers non-white guys (and if she prefers non-white guys, then she's probably not in an all-white club anyway). Well, guess what. You're probably still not going to get that girl because of social and family pressure for her not to be with a non-white guy. And what are the chances of you actually finding her? What are the chances that she is available? What are the chances that you're attractive enough for her? What are the chances that you'll get to her before some other minority does? Do you see where I'm going with this?
I'll tell you guys about something that use to confuse the living hell out of me. There were nights when I'd go out, have 4-5 girls approaching me, girls straight up telling me that they wanted to sleep with me, girls randomly giving me their phone numbers without me having to ask, have the hottest girl in that club all over me without letting up, effortlessly take multiple girls home, have girls drop off their difficult friend and then drive over at 4-5AM in the morning, girls pull me into bedrooms, have multiple girls in my bedroom, and take home girls who had husbands and boyfriends. And then there were nights when I couldn't even hold the attention of even the most average-looking girl; like they had some kind of immediate wall that game or appearances had nothing to do with.
It took me years to figure out what the hell was going on. How does a guy have 4-5 girls approach him one night, pull the hottest girl in a nightclub, and then not have even the most average-looking girl pay attention to him the next? It's simple: you take away or put up the race barrier. In other words, getting or not getting those girls had almost nothing to do with game or physical attraction, but rather, race. Yes, it makes that much of a difference. If you're unattractive without game, then you're just unattractive without game, but it is very possible to be very attractive with game, and still not get even the most average-looking women if you go to a nightclub where almost all of the women have a wall up against non-white guys.
I can not make this any clearer for you: women who will only date/have sex with white men will almost always go to all-white clubs exclusively. Women who prefer minorities, or don't have a problem with them, will go to nightclubs that have a much higher percentage of minority men. You just have to accept that sometimes it's not a game thing, looks things, social status thing, frame thing, state thing, or whatever. It really can be just a race thing. And if you were smart, and wanted to see your success with women change like night and day, then start going to nightclubs that have a higher percentage of minorities. Chances are, where there are a fair amount of minorities, there are a fair amount of women who prefer minorities, or have absolutely no problem dating or sleeping with them.
These minority players continuously fail, happily continuing to struggle with women, because maybe it was their "frame", "negs", "state", or whatever trendy magic pill seduction gurus are feeding them. I understand keeping a positive mindset, but at some point, you have to accept that maybe the girls you're going after don't like you because you're a minority. And even if they do, maybe there is social pressure for them not to date or sleep with a minority, at least not publicly.
Now some of you are thinking "better to be the token minority than be a minority among many". I'm going to tell you why you're wrong: game and attractiveness are somewhat under your control, your race isn't. Think about what I'm about to say for a moment. If you want white girls, you typically go to an almost all white club, correct? The same goes for a girl that either prefers minorities, or has a lot of friends that prefer minorities (or doesn't discriminate, but has a strong attraction to minorities). If you look at girls with minority boyfriends, almost all of them have a history of dating minorities, which means that they're probably hanging out where a large number of minorities hang out at (usually nightclubs that have about a 30%-50% minority population).
On to my second example. Let's say that you go to a nightclub where you are the token minority guy. You already know that the vast majority of the women will put up a wall because you're not the right socially acceptable race to date or sleep with. And I'm willing to bet that you're betting on pulling one of the very few girls that are open to dating non-white guys or prefers non-white guys (and if she prefers non-white guys, then she's probably not in an all-white club anyway). Well, guess what. You're probably still not going to get that girl because of social and family pressure for her not to be with a non-white guy. And what are the chances of you actually finding her? What are the chances that she is available? What are the chances that you're attractive enough for her? What are the chances that you'll get to her before some other minority does? Do you see where I'm going with this?
I'll tell you guys about something that use to confuse the living hell out of me. There were nights when I'd go out, have 4-5 girls approaching me, girls straight up telling me that they wanted to sleep with me, girls randomly giving me their phone numbers without me having to ask, have the hottest girl in that club all over me without letting up, effortlessly take multiple girls home, have girls drop off their difficult friend and then drive over at 4-5AM in the morning, girls pull me into bedrooms, have multiple girls in my bedroom, and take home girls who had husbands and boyfriends. And then there were nights when I couldn't even hold the attention of even the most average-looking girl; like they had some kind of immediate wall that game or appearances had nothing to do with.
It took me years to figure out what the hell was going on. How does a guy have 4-5 girls approach him one night, pull the hottest girl in a nightclub, and then not have even the most average-looking girl pay attention to him the next? It's simple: you take away or put up the race barrier. In other words, getting or not getting those girls had almost nothing to do with game or physical attraction, but rather, race. Yes, it makes that much of a difference. If you're unattractive without game, then you're just unattractive without game, but it is very possible to be very attractive with game, and still not get even the most average-looking women if you go to a nightclub where almost all of the women have a wall up against non-white guys.
I can not make this any clearer for you: women who will only date/have sex with white men will almost always go to all-white clubs exclusively. Women who prefer minorities, or don't have a problem with them, will go to nightclubs that have a much higher percentage of minority men. You just have to accept that sometimes it's not a game thing, looks things, social status thing, frame thing, state thing, or whatever. It really can be just a race thing. And if you were smart, and wanted to see your success with women change like night and day, then start going to nightclubs that have a higher percentage of minorities. Chances are, where there are a fair amount of minorities, there are a fair amount of women who prefer minorities, or have absolutely no problem dating or sleeping with them.
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