g/f is all of a sudden BUSY

[cyjay201]

today my g/f told me she had plans for the next two weeks and was booked....which really pissed me off, considering that i know she has a past of lying. one day was her mom's b-day, next three days she's going on college visits, that weekend she's going camping at the dunes, followed by her brother's b-day, and the only day that she said she was available she said "Ummm...i dont think I have anything on that day, but there's something in the back of my head that says I do."

She then asked if i was mad, and i said "no, just annoyed that all of a sudden you're so busy. then i said i gotta go, bye"

Why don't women just say they want to break-up? I hate **** like this.

 

[Smooth Player 056]

roses are red violets are blue trash is dumped and so are you

-Smooth 065-

 

[jprjrjr]

Originally posted by cyjay201
today my g/f told me she had plans for the next two weeks and was booked....which really pissed me off, considering that i know she has a past of lying. one day was her mom's b-day, next three days she's going on college visits, that weekend she's going camping at the dunes, followed by her brother's b-day, and the only day that she said she was available she said "Ummm...i dont think I have anything on that day, but there's something in the back of my head that says I do."

She then asked if i was mad, and i said "no, just annoyed that all of a sudden you're so busy. then i said i gotta go, bye"

Why don't women just say they want to break-up? I hate **** like this.

As was previously discussed....DUMP HER FIRST!!!!!!!

 

[spider_007]

Originally posted by Smooth Player 056
roses are red violets are blue trash is dumped and so are you

Ha ha ha, :crackup: I'll have to remember that:crackup:

 

[NoMoreAFC]

kinda reminds me of the excuses my g/f was giving me before she broke up with me


she is clearly avoiding you

remember if a woman likes u she makes up time for you



just ditch the *****

 

[runnincircles]

Mine did the same thing. She told me she was grounded 'cause she wasn't filling out scholarships for college. Turns out that was only for the weekend. She made that last a week. Then she blamed me for the fact that we never spent time together, and broke up with me. Dump her.

 

[Black_Italian]

OMG relax man. Who cares if you dump her first or she dumps you. Oh you will feel like the bigger man if you dump her first pftt. If your self esteem is that low that you believe you have to dump a girl first in order to come out on top then I pity you guys.

Did any of use ever think (i know this is crazy) she might just might really be busy . If she really is busy and you dump her than you ruined a relationship FOR NOTHING because a few people here that think they know everything told you to do it.

Don’t dump her YET keep a very close eye on the situation. If some more telltale signs popup that she is goign to breakup then by al means NEXT her but for now keep it going. If she dumps you first WHO CARES move on. Her loss.

Ninja Out

 

[TxCowboy]

Originally posted by Black_Italian
OMG relax man. Who cares if you dump her first or she dumps you. Oh you will feel like the bigger man if you dump her first pftt. If your self esteem is that low that you believe you have to dump a girl first in order to come out on top then I pity you guys.

Did any of use ever think (i know this is crazy) she might just might really be busy . If she really is busy and you dump her than you ruined a relationship FOR NOTHING because a few people here that think they know everything told you to do it.

Don’t dump her YET keep a very close eye on the situation. If some more telltale signs popup that she is goign to breakup then by al means NEXT her but for now keep it going. If she dumps you first WHO CARES move on. Her loss.

Ninja Out

Yeah , but he said she already has a history of lying - Need more details on that though. 2 weeks of BS like that, you gotta admit, its a red flag that she's through with him.

Also, y cant u go to any of these parties with her (that are quite trivial in life anyways - family b-days, a college visit, and trip to Dunes) ?? Most people dont make some big issue out of a stupid b-day for a relative unless they have no life. All I do is give them a card or take em out to eat for maybe an hour or so... Every single one of those events thats she's doing should include you !

 

[MacDiddy]

Being busy for more than a few days is disrespectful to any DJ. This shouldn't be tolerated, and any tolerance will just reinforce her negative habits. She just isn't interested in you anymore, I would have thought that was plainly obvious.. You still have a lot to learn.

Just go do your own thing and find other chicks... When a better option comes along, take it... Then dump her.

 

[cyjay201]

Thought I'd update everyone. I havent called her in a few days, but everytime I sign on she talks to me, we talk for a few minutes and then she seems not interested.

I asked what she did the previous night, and she replied she went out to eat with her family, and then went to her friends house and this guy who is 24 took her and her friend out for ice cream.....a night that she could have spent with me. When she told me that I just signed off.

I won't tolerate it, and I've set up a date for a girls # that I got about a year ago and we never met up.

NO SOUP FOR YOU!!! NEEEXXXTTTTTTT!!!!!!!

 

[cyjay201]

Mac and TX, I know she's full of ****, and that's fine. I have a date this week anyway. Until she gets her head out of her ass I'll just be seeing this other chick.

 

[seroph]

good job, man.



-JP

 

[Dust 2 Dust]

You should block her instant messenger name also.

 

[cave dweller]

dump

cyjay,

She is giving you a 'dump job'.

so,

Move on.... Next............................

cave dweller

 

[NewMan]

Remove her number from your phone - and remove her from your IM list.

Don't call or talk to her.

move on with your life.

It will drive her crazy not knowing what the hell is going on.