FWB chick at age 25 now wants to "date"

[MatureDJ]

She's tired of guys putting in "minimal effort".

 

[Zimbabwe]

To her only Chads exist, simps are not even human beings to her.

 

[Robert28]

80% of guys are invisible to her.

 

[Konada]

I couldn't last 2 minutes watching the video. She sounds dumb as hell and unable to articulate herself.

 

[Robert28]

I mean I have to give her credit, she’s managed to hoe around this long and not become a single mom. I dunno how long that’s going to last but so far so good. That’s more than I can say for a lot of women out there.

 

[Dr.Suave]

"I´ve been ridin the c0ck caroussel for years and now I´m ready to go exclusive"

 

[darksprezzatura]

So what

 

[SW15]

I mean I have to give her credit, she’s managed to hoe around this long and not become a single mom. I dunno how long that’s going to last but so far so good. That’s more than I can say for a lot of women out there.

A good portion of women achieve that, especially in bigger metro areas.

 

[biggoal]

"I´ve been ridin the c0ck caroussel for years and now I´m ready to go exclusive"

Would you take her as sloppy seconds?

 

[Dr.Suave]

Would you take her as sloppy seconds?

No exclusivity for her unless one couldn´t find anyone better.

 

[biggoal]

No exclusivity for her unless one couldn´t find anyone better.

Plus stds too from these sl*ts. Im seeing on tinder some women who lists herpes positive on their profiles.

 

[Modern Man Advice]

So much to dissect. But first things first:

- For every entitled girl like this, there is a simp waiting to put her on a pedestal without justification or getting anything in return.
- So yes, for as much most of us (hopefully all of us here) find her annoying and superficial, she portrays an image of beauty and desirability media platforms like IG glorify. She speaks horribly, her mannerism is childish, her speech or lack thereof, and her attitude is highly undesirable (at least for me). But weak men with no standards will cater to that only enabling her mindset.
- It is highly probable she has been around quite a bit and the men she surrounds herself see her as a body to masturbate with. That is the reality she lives in and one that will have repercussions for whoever decides to date her seriously.
- She wants men to make an effort and take her seriously, what does she have to offer in a relationship? Other than loyalty and fun which are a given.

We, as men, need to be the ones setting the frame and standards when it comes to relationships. Stop pointing fingers at girls like this (which are dime a dozen) and start figuring out what WE can do to make these types of girls go extinct.


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[Konada]

So much to dissect. But first things first:

- For every entitled girl like this, there is a simp waiting to put her on a pedestal without justification or getting anything in return.
- So yes, for as much most of us (hopefully all of us here) find her annoying and superficial, she portrays an image of beauty and desirability media platforms like IG glorify. She speaks horribly, her mannerism is childish, her speech or lack thereof, and her attitude is highly undesirable (at least for me). But weak men with no standards will cater to that only enabling her mindset.
- It is highly probable she has been around quite a bit and the men she surrounds herself see her as a body to masturbate with. That is the reality she lives in and one that will have repercussions for whoever decides to date her seriously.
- She wants men to make an effort and take her seriously, what does she have to offer in a relationship? Other than loyalty and fun which are a given.

We, as men, need to be the ones setting the frame and standards when it comes to relationships. Stop pointing fingers at girls like this (which are dime a dozen) and start figuring out what WE can do to make these types of girls go extinct.


Modern Man Advice

Problem is, guys like us on the forum will continue to bang her for fun and keep her on rotation for sport fvcking.

 

[Modern Man Advice]

Problem is, guys like us on the forum will continue to bang her for fun and keep her on rotation for sport fvcking.

That is quite true, sadly.

This is why I practice abstinence and nofap for given periods of time. Both of which I try to implement in the beginning stages of coaching with my clients. We really need to have a stronger sense of self-control and discipline, a mindset that can help men stop being pus*y whipped that only makes us weak and enables attitudes of girls like this.

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[MatureDJ]

80% of guys are invisible to her.

It's OVER for InvisibleCels.

 

[SW15]

This is why I practice abstinence and nofap for given periods of time. Both of which I try to implement in the beginning stages of coaching with my clients. We really need to have a stronger sense of self-control and discipline, a mindset that can help men stop being pus*y whipped that only makes us weak and enables attitudes of girls like this.

I am a big fan of no porn and nofap. However, one of the keys to no porn and nofap is getting laid regularly.

- For every entitled girl like this, there is a simp waiting to put her on a pedestal without justification or getting anything in return.
- So yes, for as much most of us (hopefully all of us here) find her annoying and superficial, she portrays an image of beauty and desirability media platforms like IG glorify. She speaks horribly, her mannerism is childish, her speech or lack thereof, and her attitude is highly undesirable (at least for me). But weak men with no standards will cater to that only enabling her mindset.
- It is highly probable she has been around quite a bit and the men she surrounds herself see her as a body to masturbate with. That is the reality she lives in and one that will have repercussions for whoever decides to date her seriously.
- She wants men to make an effort and take her seriously, what does she have to offer in a relationship? Other than loyalty and fun which are a given.

She has a vagina and she's not overweight. There will be a ton of men willing to give her everything she wants.

 

[MatureDJ]

I am a big fan of no porn and nofap. However, one of the keys to no porn and nofap is getting laid regularly.

That's like saying the key to being financially independent is to have a lot of money.

She has a vagina and she's not overweight. There will be a ton of men willing to give her everything she wants.

Yes, she will easily WifeMax; hopefully she won't DivorceMax after a few years.

 

[Modern Man Advice]

Why do you equate keeping a woman as a plate as being pussssy whipped?

I am not as long as it meets your standards and she respects you. If none of those two criteria are met then you are bypassing self-respect for sex, effectively becoming pu**y whipped. Sex should never be more important than self-respect.

In this specific case, most men will bang anything with two legs and two holes. As @SW15 said, she has a vagina and is not overweight and that's some men's standards. Heck only having a vagina is good enough for some men.

Hopefully, I was able to make the distinction. Sex isn't bad, my refraining practices are meant to build and solidify my mindset, it's why I became a mindset coach over dating, health, life coach because everything starts with mindset.


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[SW15]

I am a big fan of no porn and nofap. However, one of the keys to no porn and nofap is getting laid regularly.

That's like saying the key to being financially independent is to have a lot of money.

I have been practicing nofap and no porn for 5+ years. You're more inclined to have a porn or fap slip up if you haven't gotten laid in a bit. Around 2-6 weeks has been a trouble spot for me. If a man is getting laid once at least every 2-4 weeks, it's much more probable he can keep up nofap and no porn. I once had a sex drought of 4 months and managed to keep up nofap and no porn. Not sure how I did it. I find that the minimal amount of sex to feel ok is 1-2 times a month. Going without sex for over a month isn't healthy.

A lot of married men get sex 1-2 times a month, which is not much. A lot of these married men think that's a decent deal because without the marriage, they'd routinely have sexual droughts of 6-12 months (maybe more).

She has a vagina and she's not overweight. There will be a ton of men willing to give her everything she wants.

Yes, she will easily WifeMax; hopefully she won't DivorceMax after a few years.

She's 25. That's still considered young and she'll be in demand. A large portion of marriages end in divorce after some time but a lot of LTRs/marriages last way longer than outside observers would expect. It's common to see an 8 year relationship where the last 4 years were subpar to miserable or a 12-15 year relationship where the last 4-7 years were subpar to miserable. People tend to hold on to LTRs and marriages in a state of unhappiness for a long time. It's mystifying.