Fvcking pissed at this dumb kunt

[Korrupt]

Have a date set-up with this girl for yesterday. I text her to confirm and she says she has "surgery," but immediately reciprocates and asks if we can go out tonight instead - "tomorrow? Please Day or night." Strike the iron while it's hot, right? I schedule the date for tonight at 8. I text her when I'm leaving and she says she's at the mall shopping (about 10 mins from where we're supposed to meet). I figure since we have a date set-up for 8 she won't be long. I get to the place we're supposed to meet and text her: "I'm in *area*." Her response? "I'm still at the mall lol." I text her back "get yo ass over here woman." No response.

at about 8:30 I call her and get no answer, then text her "if you're not here in 10 minutes I'm leaving." I leave immediately because I know she's bullsh!tting, though. She then tells me something she should have told me before I left: "I'm stuck here because my friend drove." Wow. Fvcking seriously? And she lives 20 mins from the mall. So to meet me she'd have to go back to her house, then drive all the way back. 40 minutes in all. That means she probably couldn't even have been to me till *earliest* 10, and at the pace she was going 11. Yet she was cool setting the date up for 8 and not changing the time.

Are you FVCKING serious? What kind of a scumbag kunt begs for and sets up a date then doesn't show? God damn I'm pissed.

 

[DragonBlood]

Most girls are flakes and will do whatever they can to avoid admitting they are in the wrong.

"if you're not here in 10 minutes I'm leaving."
This was pretty good and the only reason you got the truth, or updated truth, for fear of losing you. For all you know she was at home watching TV OP lol.

Anyway, from reading this I suspect she was expecting you to pick her up at the mall.


"Thats cool, Hey I know this coffee place in the mall, lets go there instead."

A bit chasy I admit but would have gotten results by setting up an ACTUAL date or exposing what her intentions were much sooner. Strike while the iron is hot as you say. It was only 10mins from where you were, much easier to re-establish frame in person through a solid date than to ***** over the phone about her being a lazy ass. You are right to be pissed but considering she didnt know your true value yet this could have been turned around. Try not to take girls so seriously when they flake, girls are dumb.

 

[Korrupt]

Most girls are flakes and will do whatever they can to avoid admitting they are in the wrong.

"if you're not here in 10 minutes I'm leaving."
This was pretty good and the only reason you got the truth, or updated truth, for fear of losing you. For all you know she was at home watching TV OP lol.

Anyway, from reading this I suspect she was expecting you to pick her up at the mall.


"Thats cool, Hey I know this coffee place in the mall, lets go there instead."

A bit chasy I admit but would have gotten results by setting up an ACTUAL date or exposing what her intentions were much sooner.

Not trying to argue, but picking her up was NEVER mentioned, and I didn't even know she'd be at the mall (especially not with her friend - who drove) till she told me 30 minutes before the date was scheduled. And unless she expected me to drive her home (first date and first meet and 20 minutes away), her friend would have had to be there until we were done hanging out.

 

[SpazzAttackk]

Thats some next level flake **** man. Itd be hard to keep my cool

 

[DragonBlood]

hmm I think your right Korrupt she is the mastery of flake. Bringing the friend in makes your steal a bit more unnatural, and its not the kind of thing an interested girl does anyway.


It was never mentioned to pick up from mall, but really what had you to lose at this point. You have to assume success. Considering the friend though, I think if you rang and tried to organise yourselves the same excuse would have came out of her mouth anyway. "Im with friend now sorryz"


NC until she reaches out. Neg about last time. If you care at all.

 

[Korrupt]

hmm I think your right Korrupt she is the mastery of flake. Bringing the friend in makes your steal a bit more unnatural, and its not the kind of thing an interested girl does anyway.


It was never mentioned to pick up from mall, but really what had you to lose at this point. You have to assume success. Considering the friend though, I think if you rang and tried to organise yourselves the same excuse would have came out of her mouth anyway. "Im with friend now sorryz"


NC until she reaches out. Neg about last time. If you care at all.

Yep. And remember that SHE suggested this date... "Tomorrow??? Please Day or night."

God damn this kunt...

 

[visions]

get payback on that ho

 

[BigSmooth]

Forget that b!tch.


Just text her: "I ended up taking your sister/best friend out instead. She's a charmer."

Then delete her number and never speak to her again.

 

[BeDJ]

Hahaha, welcome to the world of dating women!

They are entitled to:

+40 don't give a fvck about you
+60 orbiter influence
+25 choosing power
+50 Indifference
-90 liability

It's 2013, women are no longer accountqble for anything. Don't let it get to you, there are good ones out there.

Somewhere along the lines, she lost interest in you and you didn't see it. I'm guessing you 'forced' the date and played by her rules.

Live, learn and have fun.

No payback, no response, no contact. Indifference.

 

[plate's_empty]

She originally wanted to meet you. But she had to rely on her friend. Her friend is the alpha of the group. Her friend needed some company so she did not want your date to leave her to go meet some dude. She convinced her to stay, and even after all the bullsh1t she put you through, your girl agreed.

She is a dumb kunt like you said...and has no self worth. Good thing you found out now.

Did you spend any money on her? No.

How much time did you spend on her? A few hours, no big deal, did you talk to any other honeys while you were at the bar?

Cut your losses. You're good. Just don't forget to block her phone #.

 

[DragonBlood]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dp-AxFdUe4A :crackup:

 

[backbreaker]

if you are going to spin plates and pick up chicks you have to have thick skin. no way around it.

this is not a game for the butt hurt and timid

 

[bukowski_merit]

Sounds like stuff i deal with often when gaming really younger girls (18-20). It's expected with them so I count on the plans as little as possible... And try to not plan things and just get instant meets (like if she happens to not be doing anything, i'll invite her over.)

But yeah... Sucks man... I know how it feels...

 

[The Duke]

Korrupt- unfortunately if you go thru enough girls, there are going to be several that act this way and think nothing of it. You are best to just cut your losses and delete their number. I once waited over an hour for this chic to show up at a bar for drinks.

I've had them tell me, her sister from out of town just showed up unexpectedly, she was with her friend and her friend drove and is being mean, they were at a happy hour earlier and are now drunk and can't drive, their car broke down, they dropped their phone in the bath tub and couldn't call, their girlfriend is really upset and needs coddling, bs, bs, bs, bs, bs.

Eventually I started doing what was best for me. I picked a place close to my house. I didn't care how far it was for her. If she wanted to meet me, then she could jump thru hoops and go the extra distance. I'm the prize not her.

I only picked places that I knew I would enjoy myself even if they didn't show up.

If I had a Friday/Saturday night date, I would make it for an hour before I was supposed to meet up with my buddies and in close proximity. That way if the biatch didn't show up, I wasn't out much.

One of the most important rules to remember and has held true with every woman that was super attracted to me:

If a chic is highly attracted to you and really wants to meet you, she'll do anything to make sure that happens. Those are the only ones worth investing in anyways. The rest are too much work.

Whoever said "pimpin' ain't easy" was so true. Getting girls that really aren't into you to do what you want requires a lot of "pimp" work and constant focus.
You can throw some game at this girl and probably get her to meet you and might even fuhk her, but it will require a ton of game/work. In the end it wont be worth it.

 

[SpazzAttackk]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dp-AxFdUe4A :crackup:

You should be shot and slowly skinned for posting a Jenna Marbles video here. :box: :box: :box: :box: :box: :kick:

 

[JoeMarron]

Follow the timeless wisdom of Anti-Dump. If her interest isn't high next her. http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=39729&highlight=antidump

 

[goundra]

since she's a dumb kvnt, why do you care what she thinks, says, or does, hmm?

 

[visions]

get payback on that ho

i recommend go nc until she asks for another date. agree to it,
then flake on her, and next her.

 

[PlayHer Man]

Typical.

I doubt any DJ here hasn't experienced this sh!t. When a girl you're really attracted to pulls this sh!t its so infuriating that you want to rip your hair out. I experienced this for the last time about two years ago (I decided it was the last time). After that episode of flakery, I decided to set up a "system" to protect myself from this sh!t.

I personally think its genius and you men should consider trying it (though its dishonest).

HERE IS WHAT I DO:

Note: This is only for first dates (when b!tches flake the most)

1. Set up a time and place to meet her. Don't contact her until 30 minutes before you have to meet to make sure the date is still on. What her response is doesn't matter as long as its not to cancel.

2. Call her 10 minutes after you were supposed to arrive to ask her where she is. She will either be there waiting for you or not there yet.

- If she is waiting for you.. give her a BS excuse and say you're running late.

- If she is not there yet, request an ETA. Then wait for her to call and say she has arrived before you even leave where you are. Once she has arrive say you are running late.

The entire point of this system is to not get off your a*s to meet a girl until she is at the place you are supposed to meet her. Its easier to make up a BS excuse for being late than to waste your time showing up and getting flaked on.

So there you have it men: PlayHer Man's "anti-flake" system. Enjoy..

 

[BeDJ]

PlayHer Man's "anti-flake" system 2.0[FONT=&quot]©

Confirm with her the morning of the date.
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