FUKK The boyfriend!!!

[Dee-Zy]

I've been telling myself that as long as the finger is without a ring, it's still up for grabs.

If she decides to remain faithfull, then good for him.

Especially at my age, Girls in their early twenties or late teens don't get married (I am aware of exceptions) and most of them won't be get married down the road anyways.

So what if I'm the better man?


Easier said then done though...

How do I kick the bf out of the picture?
Drop your knowledge on the subject please.

 

[Walk this Way]

Same as usual, but for the first stage, you need to be at the top of your game and you need to dazzle her, and then start pounding away rapidly, precisely, and lethally. Never let her on totally that you're stealing her, but work FAST and do not give her time to think too much. Girls are irrational because they rely on instinct and feelings. If you give them time to rationalize, you're in trouble.

 

[Engetsu]

If I'm the boyfriend, you just can't

 

[becker]

I dealt a lot with this issue in the past. If you do a search, I have written a lot about a girl with a BF that I was pursuing for a while. I got over her though, once she got engaged.

For a while there, we were building quite a nice relationship, and we had some sexual tension between us. Never amounted to anything.

Short answer: don't mess with the girl with a BF (most would agree with me on this)

Long answer: screw it, go after her, who the heck cares, she's not married, and that means all is fair in love and war, right?

 

[The Bad Ass Canadian]

Short answer: don't mess with the girl with a BF (most would agree with me on this)

It all depends on what you want from said girl.

If you want an LTR, forget it. Why would you trust someone who cheated, to be with you?

If you just want to bang her, then there are no rules... just make sure you really want to do it. Every action comes with consequence. You need to live with the result of your actions.

The Bad Ass Canadian

 

[GQ Prettyboy]

If she dumps her boyfriend for you, What the fuk you`ll think she will do when somebody better than you come along?

 

[Genghis Juan]

What comes around goes around. Only 'get' another man's girl if you wanted to sleep with her. I wouldn't respect her for anything more.

I also wouldn't do it, because I wouldn't want some scum bag like you to do pull that crap on me. So I keep away from other guy's gf's. I have Sicilian blood in me....she would be the last catch you ever get.

 

[Dee-Zy]

little more background on my scenario.

Over a year ago, I preached not to go after girls with bf because it is VERY demanding and the success rate is very low - so more often then not, it's not worth it.

Last year, I fell off and got a crush on this chick in my program. It was ugly.

Now, I got the mentality I displayed above.

I am going to move soon, at the end of the semester and I don't want to have a long distance relationship, so to answer you guys - no I'm not looking for that.

Call me crazy, but I'm not only for the sex either, I actually like this girl.

Who is she?

4 years with bf, not your avg '19 y/o girl' either, she has great personality and doesn't seem to be the kind of girl 'you lose respect for'.

It's starting to piss me off... I'm starting to like her more and more, but I don't want that. The last thing I need right now is to get attached.

 

[Pimp-sicle]

Ahhhh....I love this topic, probably because I've got good experience in it!!!

Ok first of all as a Alpha/DJ you should treat every girl as if they're single. If a girl mentions a bf but is more than willing to flirt and go hang out with you, then she's pretty much single. I don't go out actively pursuing girls with bf's. But if a girl is giving me the signals and doing most of the pursuing early and I know she has a bf I'll go for it without thinking about it.

As for the not trusting her issue, I could see that. I mean she did cheat on her bf, but its because her bf became a chump AFC. If you stay on top of your game and are Alpha she'll remained intrigued by your challenge and won't want to cheat. However if you crumble, she'll leave your ass just as quick as she came to you in the first place.


To sum it up, if your getting good vibes from her, then work your game. Everyone else is right, you have to be on top of your game 100% to pull it off and its pretty hard to do, but it feels pretty good once you do pull it off....



PIMP

 

[Dee-Zy]

I gotta say, it's hard to stay subjective when you're attracted and interested in a girl ...

to 'act like she's single'

I don't know, I just can seem to do it.

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

Dee-zy, your title confuses me , "FUKK The boyfriend!!!" I thought it was the girl who you were after?

 

[Dee-Zy]

Originally posted by PuertoRican_Lover
Dee-zy, your title confuses me , "FUKK The boyfriend!!!" I thought it was the girl who you were after?

LOL!

Drop subjective thoughts instead of smart ass comments

 

[myfriendblu]

Your gonna end up getting your azz kicked. Mark my words. What belt rank are you in BJJ? Any submission or vale tudo experience? If you answered no, then your pretty much helpless in a fight, which makes you a target to get a good beat down from the inevitable tougher BF.

Or you could ditch this wanna be DJ stuff and find a single girl.

 

[becker]

Went to dinner tonight with some buddies of mine, and one of them had another friend and his GF come meet us. The restaurant we went to was very nice and one of those places that have tons of HBs everywhere (but for some reason, I don't like women in these areas because they all have super-b*tch shields up). The tables were close together and there was one lady at the table next to us with her friend who kept hitting my leg every time she crossed her legs, and I just responded by flirting with them. Good practice.

Anyways, the GF was pretty damn hot, and she sat next to me and we chatted the entire evening. Good eye contact the entire time, she was touching me constantly even though I had only met her like 5 minutes earlier.

The BF is pretty buff though, and would likely kick my a$$ if we got into a fight. Anyways, just innocent flirting, that's all. He was eyeing me sporadically throughout the evening since I was talking to his girl and even got her number and e-mail and put it into my phone right in front of him. (Harmless though, even though I got a slight icy stare for it).

I'd say stay off the girls with BFs even if they're hot. If they flirt with you, don't take it as a sign of interest, rather just flirt back and view it as a good opportunity to practice your conversation/social skills. I was mainly doing the whole C+F with this girl the whole night and she loved it. Anyways, practice makes perfect, right?

 

[coldcoal]

Originally posted by myfriendblu
Your gonna end up getting your azz kicked. Mark my words. What belt rank are you in BJJ? Any submission or vale tudo experience? If you answered no, then your pretty much helpless in a fight, which makes you a target to get a good beat down from the inevitable tougher BF.

Way to go, tootin your own horn. I'm sure someone is impressed.

 

[Dee-Zy]

Originally posted by coldcoal
Way to go, tootin your own horn. I'm sure someone is impressed.

My thoughts exactly.

 

[RawkinKaoticStyle]

get this song !!!

Murs - I hate Your Boy Friend

 

[AndoraStar]

If she's got a man.. she would have left him already. You probably fufill things her bf doesn't. If they have issues, they will break up on their own.. and if she into you, give her time to heal. You don't want to be a rebund do you?

 

[RabidDog]

Who wants too "stay 100% on top of his game" 100% of the time? The answer, nobody! If she cheats and gets with you, you'd have to be on top 24/7, that would get impossible, or annoying after a while. Too much stress, and worry.

Just don't mess with a guys woman. period. In the end what have you accomplished? Wow, you got a \/\/hore for a new g/f, yaay you?

Regards,

Rabid

 

[showtime17]

I run into this problem all the time. Haven't been able to pass through that forcefield. Hey if u manage to steal the chick, believe that noone else can get her, cause you're the best she's gonna get. Oh, of course unless she runs into me. Then you've got a problem.