Fronting about being upset around GF

[Moes]

Hey guys, just like to say a quick thanks to everyone for all the info available here...I would like to say I’ve been recently “unplugged” after a moment of clarity to say the least.

Anyways,
Popping my sosuave cherry here, so here it goes and please bear with this noob in training. To the question:


So I’ve noticed over the years (especially in late high school /college) that some of my friends who always had a girl by their side following them around and leaning on their every word always seemed to be getting pissed off about something continuously when their girl/Gf was around. Maybe pissed off is the wrong word but definitely agitated. For example:
“Man, my manager at work is such a fuc#n’ tool.. I should be running that company..” and the girl/Gf..says something like, “you would be the best manager ever baby..ect.”
Or
“Man I hate the kid (insert name)..he is such a little bi&ch…bla, bla, bla you get the point, and the girl/Gf would be like…calm down baby, don’t worry about it..” and try and rub his back or make contact is some way.

So you can see most of the time these friends of mine would be pissed off about people and things around them and express that frustration to anyone in the room listening including the girl. A lot different than being pissed off at the girl for no reason but to cause drama (another question about that later) and generally these girls would see my buddies showing anger, frustration and the girls react in a supportive or nurturing way, and seems like it re-assures the girls that the guy is a protector, alpha male type.

Well I understand this better now, getting a reaction from women by acting this way but wonder for someone in the late 20’s or older, doesn’t this just seem immature to most people? I mean everyone gets pissed off, but it seemed like every day if was something new they were pissed about or some new drama to keep this cycle going.

So has anyone else seen this before? And watching girls feed off it? I get that most of the girls were young and dumb and that plays into it but I can’t help but wonder if older educated women would still react the same in similar situations (finding the guys more attractive, more confident, more macho, alpha..whatever).

Anyone think that expressing some anger/frustration in front of your girl/Gf (not angry at them, or acting violent) from time to time might help re-assure them that you are someone who is their protector ect..?

 

[Purefilth]

"Nothing I can't handle" is the main words in my vocabulary I may say I'm pissed off (if she asks), but I know ill handle it, so that's my answer to anything she may say about my mood.

 

[SgtSplacker]

It's a display of aggression that is to a woman relatively harmless. But in the context of a relationship makes the man seem more alpha without crossing the line and scaring her. Women always have to have this idea in their head that their man is a big alpha killer. So something as trivial as this, to them seems more serious and causes them to react in such a way (tame the wild beast with a pat on the back) type thing.

In a relationship particularly with young people, one person always needs to be the aggressor. Someone always has to throw chit over the fence type thing. If you flip out over these little nothings you place yourself as the aggressor and her as the supplicator. Subconsciously she will begin to see you as the aggressor in the relationship and will thus rarely try to be the aggressor in the relationship. This makes girls happy, it's better for the man to be aggressive because we can usually handle this kind of thing better than woman anyways.