From the past

[flexion_]

I kept running into a girl I liked from my AFC days this summer. My AFC was definitely the problem back then - she is an 8. Is it a lost cause with someone like that?

All the ****y, funny with light kino at the party we both were at this weekend was working. Thing is I'm going to have to call her up since summer is out and she is back in school as there won't be any further random run-ins unless I create one.

Any ideas for a previous AFC?

 

[Knicknack]

it's an uphill battle, but it can be very rewarding. don't spend so much time analyzing this chick. just go with the flow and accept her IL for what it is.

 

[flexion_]

Thats what I've been doing is just accepting the IL and nothing more. Is it a lost cause to DJ her now?

 

[violator]

It is usually an uphill venture because girls usually remember you as the old AFC not the new and improved DJ. But, it is not impossible. Just don't sweat it and always have other options.

 

[flexion_]

Very true.

 

[TesuqueRed]

Actually, DJ her without expectation of a payoff. She provides a unique challenge: you became an AFC before her very eyes, and now you have to work against that and reverse it.

Very good practice.

And if you're no longer an AFC, you are the new and developing 'you' anyway, and will counteract her old impressions of you without trying.

 

[Walden]

Originally posted by TesuqueRed
Actually, DJ her without expectation of a payoff. She provides a unique challenge: you became an AFC before her very eyes, and now you have to work against that and reverse it.

Very good practice.

Very incisive.I think of myself as a DJ in training I always DJ as well as I can cos my intention is to get better at DJing. Getting mad clam is a bonus