From now on I will take the hint and quit.

zzirf25

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This isn't something that I have done but what a chick is doing. I talked to this chick one time online one night before I went to bed. And I met her a few days later. She wasn't bad looking, but just wasn't my type and she also has a kid at age 18 which is a huge turnoff, so I was just gonna next her. Well, it is not that simple, she keeps on messaging me and I just ignore her messages and I thought that she would get the hint and stop. Well that was not even close to being the case at all. She still constantly messages me and doesn't stop and it has been close to three weeks since I messaged back.

When I got off work tonight, I got online and I turned my ICQ on and she was online. She saw that I had just logged on and messaged me. Normally I ignore her but that is when my ICQ has been on for a while and I have my away icon on and she doesn't know if I am there or not. Tonight she knew that I was online so it would be very obvious I was ignoring her. The only reason that I replyed back was because my step-dad works with her and I didn't wanna bring my drama of me ignoring her to him. So anyway here is basically how the conversation goes.

Her: Hello?

Me: Hey

Her: Who is this?

Me: ZZIRF25

Her: Are you sure.

Me: Yep

Her: Well that sucks because I gotta get off the computer because my sis needs it, I really wanted to talk to you.

Me: Ok

Her: So what do you think?

Me: About what?

Her: Me....

Me: I don't really know you.

Her: Looks wise.

Me: About a 6 on a 10 scale.

Her: Thanks a lot.

Her: I'll talk to you later.

Me: Ok

And that was about it. I think she was offended by me saying she was a mere 6, so I hope that she will leave me alone now. But I don't know if she will or not because by me saying this could only make her want to prove herself to me. I want to go totally AFC if I talk to her again, but I don't know if it will work since she is more AFC that I have ever been in my life. She is constantly asking my step-dad about me and just doesn't seem to get the point when I ignore her. I know I shoulda ignored her tonight but, I didn't for the reasons above. I never physically see her so I don't have to worry about that, I just want her to quit sending me these messages trying to make me feel guilty about ignoring her. Honestly I am a little freaked out because I think that even if I straight up told her I didn't like her that she still wouldn't leave me alone. What would you fellow DJ's do?
 

penkitten

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cant you just solve it by putting her on ignore?
i mean its easier than saying " i know i talked to you but i dont find you interesting or attractive and im not joking so leave me alone"
 

Wyldfire

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Just tell her that you didn't feel any chemistry with her and wish her luck in finding the right guy.

That's what I do when a guy I'm not interested in pursues me.
 

GropeDope

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I only know one person who has ever f*cked someone they met online. And she was a sorority hooker so I barely even count that.
 

Peace and Quiet

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

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KinkyMan

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since you are talking about it, i think you are interested in at least keeping her as an option

if you really aren't you should help you and her by avoiding her
 

griffon65

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Just tell her "ur not my type" or "I only wanna be friends." Dont be like the female population and just ignore her and make her wonder, why stoop to their level?
 

Jariel

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Yeah, good point and I know what you mean! You have learned how annoying it is when people don't take the hint! Therefore, you know never to act the same way with women.

It amuses me how guys start whining about how mean and b1tchy a girl has been to them, but they forget to mention how they've been hounding her non-stop for weeks.

If you can't take the polite hints (flakiness, not returning calls etc) then don't be surprised if it's spelt out for you in not-so-polite terms.
 

speedo_meme

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haha yeah this dude is mad because she was chasing him and she quit. get your attention elsewhere and leave this girl alone.
 
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