From Chump to Champ - European-dj's Thougts, FR's and LR's

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It wasn’t until yesterday that I realized what a chump I have become.

I haven’t always been like this. As a kid, I was highly ambitious and competitive – to a point where it wasn’t healthy – any assignment or challenge put in my hands, I would overdo, I would give it my all, and was always aiming to be the best. There was not an assignment given to me that I did not finish.
I was an exceptional racing driver and won almost everything I competed in, but due to the fact that I was raised under very poor conditions I hit the wall of insufficient funds – and like many other drivers – I had to kill my dreams of becoming a professional driver. Back then I was either swimming or running each day, and was in very good shape and had great health. I still remember the respect given to me, and how the girls would – literally – be chasing me.

When I trough of my shirt and stand in front of the mirror, comparing the kid on the pictures with the one I see in the reflection, - besides the brown eyes - I see no similarities whatsoever.
If only it was the physical part of me that had changed to the worse… but it isn’t; the way I think, the way I carry myself, the way I act and interact with others, there is nothing I can recognise.

I have become what I hated the most as a kid; a chubby, lazy and stupid 20 year old, who thinks everything, will come to him without him raising as much as a finger.


Reason for Journaling:


By journaling, I get the chance of following my progress, my thoughts and my ‘evolution’ with exact time stamps, and hopefully – within less than a year - being able to look back at this exact day, and laugh out loud, while enjoying the champ I have become.

The reason for keeping an public journal on SoSuave, Is that I hope to get some advice from the older and more experienced DJ’s, whom I am familiar with visiting this forum.

Goals & Tools:

On the left side of the ‘|‘symbol will be my goals, and on the right side my tools/ways.

Achieving better grades | Studying at least 2 hours a day, after school.
Getting healthy and fit | Exercise at least 3 times a week, using the health section for support.
Become better with girls | Starting from scratch, rereading the DJ bible and putting myself out there.
Gaining higher revenue in my company | Using advertisement and social media.

Current stats:

Age: 20 Years
Height: 5 feet 9 inches (i am doing streeching excersizes, and i really hope to grow 5 feet 10 inches before 2014)
Weight: 175lbs (Fat% 16-18)
Lay count: 32 (My grandfather, a true ladies man, once told me; not before bedding 50 girls, can you tell good sex from bad)

Let's Go!
 

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01/02-13 - Friday - 5pm.

Friday 01/02-13

So this is my first update, to my weekly journal, and this will focus om my goals:

Achieving better grades:
I just got the letter from my examination, and I passed all of my exams; not with the results I wanted, but I passed.

I have been going to the library and hitting the books, at the current moment I am in one of the toughest courses on this education, so for the next half year, I have no excuses for not staying in front of a book, for atleast 2 hours a day.
- I am overall satisfied with the current studying pase: 7/10

Getting healthy and fit
While I have skipped a running session or two, I have sticked to my daily height growth routines since the 1st of January, and I actually fell taller already – this could have something to do with overall posture, maybe just some kind of placebo effect to the whole.
I am doing my daily weigh lifting, and doing the best thing I can, not to eat fast food nor Sodas.
- I must admit that I have eaten a couple of candy bars this week.

Workout: 7/10
Running: 5/10
Food: 6/10

Become better with girls
I have decided to read a couple of articles a day, the ones I enjoy are especially Jariels writings, and AD’s machine; while AD’s machine is a true masterpiece, I think my current self (with the given agenda and age) is not suited for those post quite yet, since I am not looking for a wife.

F- = Not ****ed, K- = Not kissed.

ANCH (K-)
MEVE (F-)
Current FB’s = 7

As you can see, I am currently having a lot of girls that I already did and still am doing – the thing is, there girls are sucking out my energy, and I am going to pick one or two FB’s instead of 7…

As for my dates
ANCH
promised me to give me a day, this will be her last chance, as she flaked last time.

MEVE:
MEVE had a sleepover at my place yesterday, and even though heavy kissing, and I was 100% sure she wanted to fvck, I could almost smell her wetness, I couldn’t get myself to do it.. I fell like I am turning into an AFC again when it comes to new girls, perhaps I have gotten used to having a lot of FB’s next to me..

Current stats:
Age: 20 Years
Height: 5 feet 9 inches
Weight: 175lbs (Fat% 16-18)
Lay count: 32

Let’s get some FR’s up and running FRIDAY & Saturday night!
 

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05/02-13 - 10.01 Am

So I went through the weekend, with 2 nights out and zero number closes; but a lot of approaches, 1 KC, and one Lay - so this is what happened:

The first night out was my first night out all by my self, I honestly think it was kind of awkward. I did a couple approaches, but nothing interesting came along, and to be honest, I had a hard time approaching girls, not having any 'base' to return too, If they shoot me down.

- the second night was lots of fun, me and my 2 frienda had a blast at this house party, and after a heavy discussion with this blonde hb7, I went up to her when she was standing alone in the kitchen, told her that her 'hostility' was turning me on, and went for the kiss.. I could have gotten a lay, but I didn't know where to do her...

The lay:
Sunday MEVE came over, she had spammed me all night long Saturday, so I knew it was going to get on - a had a bit of a hangover, so I though why not. This was our 3rd meeting, so I decided it was hit or quit.
- after watching some lame movie, I decided to move in for a bit of kino, and started turning her on; before I knew it, I had her laying in her panties and brah.
After a bit of running and touching, I took if her brah and panties and fvcked her.. The rubber bust!! Luck fully I had a plan b pill that she took in front of me... I am not having a baby!

Current stats:
Age: 20 Years
Height: 5 feet 9 inches
Weight: 176lbs (Fat% 16-18) +1 Lbs
Lay count: 33 +1
 
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your 20 and have a lay count of 32? why are you journaling.

try being 23 and having a lay count of 1. ( one girl 10 times)
 

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Packers2010:

I am keeping a journal to see my improvements, and hopefully to share that it IS possible to become better with women; trust me, I was horrible, I was such an AFC.
Do you know that feeling, when you get really really awkward and want to shut your eyes, because that memory/felling is sooo humiliating. Well I get that feeling each time I remember how I acted towards women when I couldn't get any, then how AFC I acted when I got and lost my first GF?

We should always aim to improve to the better, for me, it is to become less desperate, less needy and less clingy. When I have accomplished those things, and corrected my GPA and business, I will leave this site and journal for good :)!
 

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07.02-13, 6.31Pm.

School & DJ-study:
I have been doing great with the studying, both in school and within the DJ bible; for those who forgot all about it, there is seriously some golden advice, from back when the forum wasn’t all spam and trolls.

Workout:
My workout routine has shattered completely, but I have given myself two day to relax, come to myself, and then go nuts with the weights and running again, hopefully I can find motivation in some model/Abercrombie pictures. I remember back when I was really lean and fit, back then the approach towards girls was much easier!

Girls:
Well, what has happened since my last post, with the girls:

I messaged 6 og my 7 FB’s telling them something along the lines of:

“I don’t think we should see each other anymore, I have found a girl I really care for, and I think it is unfair towards her”.
This is obviously total bull****, since there is no special girl – and I lack conscious when it comes to girls.
- The real reason for doing this, is that I want to force myself to get out of my comfort zone, and force myself to get new girls, new numbers and new FB’s – From now on, I can fvck a girl a maximum of 10 times!

LR:
Well, I have been texting with this old One-itis, which I managed to fvck; It was only 5-10 strokes before she stopped me, so even though she is counted in my lay count, I have always had an issue with the fact that I didn’t fvck her ‘for real’.
What happened? Well, after some cuddling in front of her computer, with some random movie, we started to make out and took it to the bedroom – as ALWAYS with this girls, she started to stop me when I was going for her panties (really, she said NO). I was getting frustrated, and thought it was going to be another night as it used to be with this girl.
Well fvck it I thought, so I layed new to her, and started running my **** in-between her buttcheechs, I got fell she was getting really wet and horny – but I didn’t say anything, just rub my **** against her ass.
When I could fell my boxers getting wet from her juices, I started moving her panties to the side, and running my finger through her pvssy. After another hesitation from her side, I took out a rubber, put it on, and told her I would just “Rub it between her pvssy lips, I wouldn’t stick it up”. She couldn’t take it for more than 2 minutes, and we fvcked! DAMN RIGHT, I Got that Ego boost I was looking for for sooo long, a mental +1!
I didn’t finished because she squirted all over the bed, and was too sorrow to continue - fair enough! Now that I have fvcked her for real, I know have the power ;-)!

Good hunting mates, everything is possible, keep pushing for it!
 

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08/02-13, 8.39 Pm

So I just returned home from dinner, when it struck me, what is my purpose with this Don Juan stuff? Is it bedding 1000 girls? Is it finding the perfect girls? What is it I want with all of this seduction, techniques and approaching?

I have come to realize that what I really want us to become self confident, find myself and what I am passionate about, and being able to get the specific girl that awakes my curiosity.

I think we should all lean back for a second, and think about why we are on this site, and what's the purpose? Are you in the search of a LTR, multiple girlfriends, getting tons of Pvssy? Or just plain and simple loosing you V-Card?
 

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Back in the days I made two topica about the same hb5 girl, with a 10 personality (search my username and you will find the post's). Back then I decided to cut all contact with the girl, because i was getting nowhere with her; kisses, and that was all - some of you might wonder why I even wanted to date a 5'er, but I am tired of everyone 8,5+, trust me I have has my share, the prettier the girl, the more fvcked up she is!

After 6 months of no contact, she decides to write me again - once against I fell into the trap of talking to her! We agrees to stay friends, even though I knew I wanted more, but this time I wasn't going to show it.
So as the meeting escalated, and it was getting late, she started wanting to kiss me - at first I was like 'friends only', but then I slipped.
When the movie ended, and after a lot of last minute resistance, I managed to fvck her; and this is when I really though I had won..

But what happens next? After an extraordinarily nice night, and a great morning and great texting throughout the day, she suddenly turned 180 at me!!

I have no clue what I did wrong, what happened, but after going through our conversation I assume I was too available, might even have been expressing neediness/desperation.
Now I am going NC with this girl, even though she will always be my one-itis due to her personality and standards! ...
 
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