from banging her to zero interest

[pyros]

I met this 19 years old chick three weeks ago on a dating site. In the first date we made out a bit, and I noticed when she saw me that she liked what she saw.
Then we went to second and third dates. It went fine, I escalated a bit, suggested to go to her place but she refused and said maybe some other time. Ok.

I noticed that this girl is really spoiled because: she drinks way too much when she parties, and drinks too many beers when alone, she has a pretty bad relationship with her mother, and she says that she considers herself weird...

Odd thing is that she almost never texted me, just twice in three weeks to wish me good-night.

I texted her and I suggested to watch a movie at her place (4th date), and she agreed, and she also agreed that she would make dinner.

I went there, I escalated, and ended up banging her but for some reason she did not want me to make her orgasm after I finished, but she was very affectionate and happy (???). We watched another movie, she gave lots of kisses, and I left.

Then some days later I set another date just watch another movie at her place and she agreed but...
she texted me to tell me that last night she forgot her purse at some club cause she was super drunk and told me that she ended up sleeping at some girl's place with some more friends. (???)

Well, she arrived almost two hours late to our date., giving me excuses while I was waiting for her at my place. First she said I'll be 1 hour late cause I have this huge hangover, I said ok, then she 'lost' the metro, etc etc.
I felt her IL was really low now, and I did not know why, but I felt she slept with someone last night when she was super drunk...

When we got to her place, I put the movie but she was distant, cold, and not talkative at all.
She was all the time checking her cell-phone (she never did this in the previous dates) texting some dude.
So I decided to stand up and leave, and she did not even say good-bye to me. It was like she wanted to get rid of me.

It's been three days with no contact and I dont think she will reach out, but I dont care that much except for the secs.
Any explanation? similar stories? I am pretty confused.
I just would like to know the reason why she went from fu-cking me to ignoring me in the following date.
I guess she may have had secs with an ex bf or ex FWB or something similar but...

 

[TheMonkeyKing]

I'd probably go with Pair on this one. Except it's probably more than one other guy. Hot chicks love the attention and they don't even realise they're doing it.

Had exactly the same issue recently. My mate got straight-up friendzoned by this 9. So TMK duly swooped in and to her back to his place and satiated her need.

Now the chick is constantly texting my mate, I know coz he shows me. Like pictures and all sorts. Whereas TMK gets one measly half-arsed email in a week.

The truth of the matter is, single chicks want two types of men in their lives; friends, and lovers. They're looking for the one who can be both. But as we all know, that level of compatibility is difficult to come by.

TMK says NEXT.

 

[Tomo]

If your gut thinks its another guy, then it most likely is another guy. If it were me, even 30min late I'd start to wonder and by 45, I'd tell her to drop the night even if she was half way to yours etc. After all girls do this to guys just as much. The unfortunate thing is once us guys get attached to a chick we give her the benefit of the doubt but my eyes are starting to open. So instead of giving them an inch when they'd take a mile off you, I'm calling it even if I've got no other plates to spin. Your life should be much more important than to wait 2hrs for a chick to waste your time.

 

[hudpes]

Any explanation?

Knowing what happened is irrelevant. What matters is finding out what you did wrong, and probably all you did wrong was you waited for her; the first excuse that she's hung over and she'll be there an hour late, fine, next one, you should have cancelled don't-call-me-I'll-call-you style. Also, why would you want to bang an alcoholic with possible daddy issues or something terrible having happened to her sexually? You should expect a normal behavior from women if it's off by too much, let them be someone else's lesson.

 

[narcissist]

What a dumb wh-re

 

[Poop1337]

If you only care about the sex why did you just leave instead of taking her phone away and trying to have sex. She doesn't really like you but she may have sex with you while she texts other guys if you're into that.

 

[wishyo]

95% (99%?) girls on dating websites are junk/fvcked up. i dont think u did anything wrong.. u got what u wanted (right?) anyways

p.s. my girl is coming in one week. she will beg for escalation, <I> will consider her request

 

[Kailex]

She's 19.

What were you expecting? Seriously. Honestly. What were you expecting.

It's not even the online dating thing. It's not even whether she is banging someone else or not.

She's 19.
Even she doesn't know what she wants, what do you want US to tell YOU?

 

[marmel75]

You should be making women orgasm multiple times before you are done not after...

You need to work on your skillset bro

 

[om1xr]

If you are taking girls seriously; then you are going to suffer a lot!

 

[pyros]

You should be making women orgasm multiple times before you are done not after...

You need to work on your skillset bro

I dont have any problems making a woman orgasm, once or several times, bro.

This chick just did not want me to do it. I finished and she said that she prefered to rest and cuddle, so I thought whatever...

 

[_sideways_]

Your dyck wasnt doing it for her so she let you finish and get off her. Like old boring marriage style lol