hspuaintraining
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Hey guys,
I've been reading up here. Please let me know what I've been doing wrong/right.
Here's the situation:
This girl and I were acquaintances. We knew each other for a while, but we didn't really talk much.
Somehow we go to talking more and more. So much that we talked basically everyday for a month. Bla bla bla. We continued talking and hanging out. We got pretty ****ing tight. At a party she was piss ass drunk and basically held my hand for 3 hours and cuddled with me for another hour. That's pretty much when I fell for her. We continued talking. A week later, another party, but this time she was hella awkward around me because all of our friends knew something was up between us and I guess she's pretty self conscious. So I got ****ing wasted in attempt of breaking down that awkwardness. So apparently in my drunken stupor I told her I wanted to be with her. Big ****ing mistake. She said something about not wanting to commit, but nothing about not wanting me. She talks to me the next day and gives me the dreaded "just friends" speech. She deviated from the standard friend speech and said that I was different and that I had a shot and that she was confused about me. I was pretty indifferent and just played it off as if everything were alright.
Two days later I even took her on a "nondate." I thought it went pretty well and she definitely enjoyed herself.
She continued talking to me basically everyday. I decided I had to do something about this. I wasn't going to stay a friend forever. I read up online and came up with a plan.
She still tried to talk to me everyday. I would either dodge her calls or just be uninterested when I did talk to her. I did this to the point where she doesn't try to talk to me anymore.
I've been working out, got some new clothes, and a new haircut. Basically "recreated" myself.
So it's been 2-3 weeks since I've last talked to her and I'm confident she will hit me up again sometime this week.
Apart from the general stuff I've read on the site, what do you guys have for me?
Thanks for all your help!
I've been reading up here. Please let me know what I've been doing wrong/right.
Here's the situation:
This girl and I were acquaintances. We knew each other for a while, but we didn't really talk much.
Somehow we go to talking more and more. So much that we talked basically everyday for a month. Bla bla bla. We continued talking and hanging out. We got pretty ****ing tight. At a party she was piss ass drunk and basically held my hand for 3 hours and cuddled with me for another hour. That's pretty much when I fell for her. We continued talking. A week later, another party, but this time she was hella awkward around me because all of our friends knew something was up between us and I guess she's pretty self conscious. So I got ****ing wasted in attempt of breaking down that awkwardness. So apparently in my drunken stupor I told her I wanted to be with her. Big ****ing mistake. She said something about not wanting to commit, but nothing about not wanting me. She talks to me the next day and gives me the dreaded "just friends" speech. She deviated from the standard friend speech and said that I was different and that I had a shot and that she was confused about me. I was pretty indifferent and just played it off as if everything were alright.
Two days later I even took her on a "nondate." I thought it went pretty well and she definitely enjoyed herself.
She continued talking to me basically everyday. I decided I had to do something about this. I wasn't going to stay a friend forever. I read up online and came up with a plan.
She still tried to talk to me everyday. I would either dodge her calls or just be uninterested when I did talk to her. I did this to the point where she doesn't try to talk to me anymore.
I've been working out, got some new clothes, and a new haircut. Basically "recreated" myself.
So it's been 2-3 weeks since I've last talked to her and I'm confident she will hit me up again sometime this week.
Apart from the general stuff I've read on the site, what do you guys have for me?
Thanks for all your help!