Friendzoned for no kiss on first date...

[romanticman]

Well the theory is incorrect.Dont wait to kiss a girl on the second date this is bs. If you have a girl then the goal is to kiss her on the first date. Waiting to create anticipation helped lose me the girl... I had a great date and today the text came lets be friends....

 

[( . )( . )]

Well the theory is incorrect.Dont wait to kiss a girl on the second date this is bs.

What "theory", who told you to wait?

 

[PRMoon]

The goal is to feel out the situation and take it as far as you deem necessary depending on the case. I've had dates go on for hours and end up in my or her bed at the end. Conversely I've dates last for a hour and end with a handshake...the next day we had sex.

Don't conform to any set "rules" about dating. You have to feel out the scene and play it out.

 

[Joe Stud]

what part of "make the hoe say no" didnt you understand?

 

[Johnny_Kage]

Yeah man. I agree with PRMoon. Don't worry about it. Win some, lose some.

Besides, the friend zone isn't a bad place to be. That just means that you need to try a little harder.

JK

 

[zekko]

Well the theory is incorrect.Dont wait to kiss a girl on the second date this is bs.

Dude, the only place I've ever heard this "don't kiss a girl on the first date" theory is from you. You took something you read on here about keeping her hungry and totally misapplied it. You always want to be sexual and have a sexual vibe with women or you will get friendzoned.

All is not necessarily lost however. Just agree to be friends with her, and if you get her out again try and kiss her. If she talks about being "just friends" tell her well yeah, it's just a friendly kiss. The worst she can do is say no.
I've had girls tell me we were friends before but ended up giving it up. Never took it beyond FB status though.

 

[chance-]

yeah, just recently i was a "friend" until i blocked the door way in my room and kissed her - can always get out of it.. just hurry!

 

[Kailex]

I think we're missing details and the bigger picture here.
You think you were friend zoned because you didn't K-Close? I think you need to lay out details of the date so we can better examine what landed you into orbiter-land right after the first date.

I think it's more about other things that happened throughout the night than just not "going in for a kiss".

I've had dates where it ended in a hug and then the next date was a K-Close. I've had dates where they kissed me within the first 15 minutes of the first date. Theories don't deal with absolutes.

I say you need to give us more information on what happened.

 

[Mantis Toboggan]

Are you talking about this thread where I told you to grow a pair?

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=171147

Yeah, I don't know where you got the idea that NOT kissing on the first date makes a woman want you more. The idea is, you kiss on the first date, and next time around she'll want to get more physical with you.

 

[romanticman]

Easy ..the don juan bible article I read said to not kiss on the first date...so..I am over it.
Fast forward to yesterday night I went to a movie with another woman I have liked for ages from work..Half way through the movie after holding her hand i just talked into her ear..let my lips touch her lobe..she turned and voila...tongue down the throat ...no friend zone!!! Will be seeing this one soon. I have to say that talk is cheap...touch and dont make it unobvious.Let your touch let her know you want her and then bust a move..not rocket science..

 

[zekko]

Easy ..the don juan bible article I read said to not kiss on the first date...so..I am over it.

Got a link or a quote from this article? I'm curious about it since I've never heard anything like it.

Anyway, congratulations on your newfound assertiveness.

 

[horaholic]

No shyt. Where the fvck did you read this? Everything in the DJB is about being a MAN, and going for what you want, when you want it, as long as its not from a state of neediness.

But, for what its worth, you might have been fz'd anyway. But, lesson learned.