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[greensabre]

This seems to be a problem for me. I approach girls in class, but its more in a friendly way and i usually just become friends with them, and when im at camp(sleepaway) i find a girl who i just hook up with, nothing else. Now i wanna be able to get a serious girlfriend not just a hookup but i feel stupid just asking a girl i dont know that well out, and i feel that since i get know a girl pretty well we just become friends. So any adivce would be helpful

 

[B-Lemond]

How about you actually try to find your answer in the DJ Bible. Since it's your 1st post, I'm assuming that your new. Since your new I bet you didn't read the DJ Bible. Go do that so you know whats going on. It seems to me that your not getting further than the friends zone because you might be displaying AFC attitudes and behavior. Read the DJ Bible to change that. It will do you more good than any other advice on this thread.
Good Luck
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Welcome to the DJ Community

 

[Anomalous]

Originally posted by bluelemond

Welcome to the DJ Community

Thanks, Shakira!

 

[Tboner]

The way I take it you're only getting one night stands or friends out of women.

With your one night stands you're developing great attraction in these girls with minimum rapport. You're probably escalating very quicky. I've found it's best to start a relationship like this.

If you listen to girls, they say they want to "be friends first" and then develop an intimate relationship. I've had very little success doing it their way.

Make sure your attitude is that you'll do what you want to do, regarless of social pressure.

One bad attitude that some guys have is that they need a GF in high school because of the social pressure to have one.

Another bad attitude that guys have is that if a girl sleeps with you on the first meeting, she is not GF material.

Or, being seen with a woman that is "easy" or not quite hot enough or doesn't dress cool.